A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 5 February 2012: Okay, since this is nearly a month old, I'll leave it at that. Having re-read my last comment, it does appear to tail off into a rant.
I think it just makes me angry that every time I do meet a girl, which isn't often, it turns out she's very sex... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 31 January 2012: Hi, I've read through your answer, and I've also searched the archives of this forum. I have found a few interesting points that I can definitely relate to. One person says that it becomes "part of who you are/your identity" if you are an older... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 26 January 2012: What if I'm just looking for a bit of fun to help avoid the need to discuss my situation with someone more long-term?... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 24 January 2012: So, you're saying I should tell everyone I meet that I'm a virgin before I can have sex with them? What happened to people not having a right to know your past?
The thing is, I know this will scare off the vast majority of girls! Maybe that mea... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 20 January 2012: To the last anonymous poster,
I am simply going to ignore that.
Tisha-l,
I'm not sure! Although it may very well be the case that I will then worry that I'm only a novice! However, at least I won't have to look her in the eye and say I've ... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 19 January 2012: You make it seem easy, but it never feels it though! I'm not saying that I've never asked anyone out ever, and that's certainly something that I can work on given the opportunity.
The question is, if I meet someone, will it matter that I'm an 2... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 17 January 2012: Ciar, Firstly, maybe I am over-thinking it, but that's why I'm here! I can't seem to do anything BUT think about it! That is not to say that I spend all of my free time on the internet typing away! As a matter of fact, I do try to spend as much of... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 17 January 2012: Ciar, Whilst I agree with you that I have looked at this from every possible angle and need to be "getting out there" more than I am, I must disagree with you on a couple of things: Firstly, this has not devolved from a genuine interest... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 16 January 2012: That's kind of it. I can't see it going anywhere and feel that it's almost stupid to let an opportunity to lose my virginity, something that has been bothering me since I was 19, pass me by! It's not just that I don't see it going anywhere; I think ... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 13 January 2012: No, you haven't offended me at all! I sometimes need people to be frank in order to get across their message. I am one of these people who annoys people because I "have an answer to everything". It's not deliberate; these are genuinely the result ... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 11 January 2012: Maybe I should provide some clarification as to what I meant by "You need sex to get a girl". I simply meant that if you want just want sex, but you've never had it at my age, it's very difficult because girls will expect a level of experience ... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 10 January 2012: Maybe I am being stupid, but it's also easy to say that when you aren't in this situation, and probably never have been. The fact is, I don't want to remain a virgin, but I could never tell anyone that I was. The reason being, people are going to ... (read in full...)
A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?
Q. Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while re...
A. 10 January 2012: First of all, many thanks to all those who took the time to answer my question. I really wasn't expecting any replies so quickly! I have taken the time to read all of the comments and just have a few follow-up questions if that's OK. I must sa... (read in full...)
Guys put off by a 24 year old virgin?
Q. Do guys feel put off if a girl is a virgin at 24? I'm pretty shy and lacking in confidence because of being mentally and physically (not sexually) abused when I was younger. I've never told anyone that I'm a virgin because I find it really embarr...
A. 11 October 2010: Hello there,
Having read your post, I feel I need to reply and express my opinion. This wouldn't put me off in the slightest! If you look at my previous posts you will notice that I am in the same boat as yourself, except that I am a 25 year old... (read in full...)
I'm 25, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin. I've kissed three girls once each. What do you think ladies?
Q. Hi, OK first of all, I'd love to introduce myself by name but unfortunately the idea of me posting on here is to remain anonymous! I'm a 25 year old man from the UK. I have a reasonably OK job, I look good, dress well, drive a nice car and...
A. 19 May 2010: Hi, I thought I'd replied but it doesn't appear to be here!
I'd just like to thank you all once again for your help and advice!
I have a lot to think about... hopefully things will start to pick up pretty quickly! It's just difficult to see... (read in full...)
I'm 22, still a virgin, never had a boyfriend yet. Is that a turnoff for guys?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm a 22 year old girl. For some reason, I'm a virgin and I haven't even had a boyfriend yet. I'm not ugly; I do commercial modeling (not the big stuff though), and I do get hit on. My problem is that guys usually go too fast for me....
A. 18 May 2010: Good for you for kicking him out of your house! I think the world's gone mad! You are clearly the kind of girl who has been brought up properly!
I understand where you are coming from completely as far as taking it slowly goes! I recently... (read in full...)
I'm 25, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin. I've kissed three girls once each. What do you think ladies?
Q. Hi, OK first of all, I'd love to introduce myself by name but unfortunately the idea of me posting on here is to remain anonymous! I'm a 25 year old man from the UK. I have a reasonably OK job, I look good, dress well, drive a nice car and...
A. 17 May 2010: Yeah, it seems easier said than done I think. I can never "dare myself" to do it for some reason! That's how the "well, bye..." thing happens! I know exactly when I should seize the opportunity, but it just doesn't happen!... (read in full...)
I'm 25, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin. I've kissed three girls once each. What do you think ladies?
Q. Hi, OK first of all, I'd love to introduce myself by name but unfortunately the idea of me posting on here is to remain anonymous! I'm a 25 year old man from the UK. I have a reasonably OK job, I look good, dress well, drive a nice car and...
A. 17 May 2010: Hi marieclaire,
I think the problem I've always had is doing this without stuttering or going red and generally becoming really embarrassed. I also seem to fear rejection but I am trying to overcome all of this.
I'd ask someone at work,... (read in full...)
I'm 25, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin. I've kissed three girls once each. What do you think ladies?
Q. Hi, OK first of all, I'd love to introduce myself by name but unfortunately the idea of me posting on here is to remain anonymous! I'm a 25 year old man from the UK. I have a reasonably OK job, I look good, dress well, drive a nice car and...
A. 17 May 2010: First of all I'd like to thank you all for your answers!
In response to the second female reader, how do I go about being "more aggressive"? Believe it or not I have flirted with girls before, but I find it more awkward in a first date environm... (read in full...)
Why do things have to be so complicated?
Q. Hi! I need help here! I met a girl this weekend through a friend of my brother. It appears this guy was under the impression that she liked him. Anyway, later on she told me that she didn't fancy him at all, and felt awful about it. She w...
A. 22 March 2009: OK, here's an update on the situation.
A week later, and I've heard nothing. I know that's probably it, but I don't want to leave it like that. I just can't see a way of getting her number - everyone is discouraging me from asking for it!... (read in full...)
Why do things have to be so complicated?
Q. Hi! I need help here! I met a girl this weekend through a friend of my brother. It appears this guy was under the impression that she liked him. Anyway, later on she told me that she didn't fancy him at all, and felt awful about it. She w...
A. 18 March 2009: Well, today is nearly over and... nothing! I've not been able to ask him for the number yet. It's going to be a lot harder than I thought - for one I doubt the honesty would be appreciated!... (read in full...)
Why do things have to be so complicated?
Q. Hi! I need help here! I met a girl this weekend through a friend of my brother. It appears this guy was under the impression that she liked him. Anyway, later on she told me that she didn't fancy him at all, and felt awful about it. She w...
A. 16 March 2009: The other thing I forgot to mention is this - would it be a good idea to wait until Wednesday and see if she does text, or would it be better for me to get hold of her number as soon as possible?... (read in full...)
Why do things have to be so complicated?
Q. Hi! I need help here! I met a girl this weekend through a friend of my brother. It appears this guy was under the impression that she liked him. Anyway, later on she told me that she didn't fancy him at all, and felt awful about it. She w...
A. 16 March 2009: Hi! That last point you made there is my thoughts exactly. I'd hate to throw away an opportunity - it feels like the wrong thing to do!
I suppose I'll just have to find a way!
Thanks for your help :)... (read in full...)
Why do things have to be so complicated?
Q. Hi! I need help here! I met a girl this weekend through a friend of my brother. It appears this guy was under the impression that she liked him. Anyway, later on she told me that she didn't fancy him at all, and felt awful about it. She w...
A. 16 March 2009: Hi! That last point you made there is my thoughts exactly. I'd hate to throw away an opportunity - it feels like the wrong thing to do!
I suppose I'll just have to find a way!
Thanks for your help :)
On a side topic - I wish I'd named... (read in full...)
Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!
Q. Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...
A. 29 October 2008: Hey, we're not all like that! From my point of view, girls always go for the guys like that, and those of us who wouldn't dream of being like the guy you describe are the ones who don't get the chance to prove we wouldn't.... (read in full...)
A virgin male, a girl, and her boyfriend... going mad!
Q. Hello! First time poster here! This is about, well, two problems really. I’m posting here to get it off my chest because this is never the sort of thing I’d talk about – or at least not all of it – with people I know. OK, first I’ll give you so...
A. 26 October 2008: Crafter,
I hate to admit it, but you're right in a lot of ways. The only problem is, one day I see her and she's still going out with her boyfriend, and the next she's seeing someone else, so I don't see how I'd have had an opportunity to do an... (read in full...)
A virgin male, a girl, and her boyfriend... going mad!
Q. Hello! First time poster here! This is about, well, two problems really. I’m posting here to get it off my chest because this is never the sort of thing I’d talk about – or at least not all of it – with people I know. OK, first I’ll give you so...
A. 24 October 2008: I sound very dramatic when drunk - apologies for the rant! I'm a bit embarrassed by that! I've been in a bad mood all day, not to mention tired! I suppose there's nothing left for me to do now except try and get over her.
I think people j... (read in full...)
A virgin male, a girl, and her boyfriend... going mad!
Q. Hello! First time poster here! This is about, well, two problems really. I’m posting here to get it off my chest because this is never the sort of thing I’d talk about – or at least not all of it – with people I know. OK, first I’ll give you so...
A. 24 October 2008: Update.
Well, here I am, drunk, about 3 hours before I have to get up for work. About 6 hours ago I thought maybe I'd get somewhere... she actually split up with the guy she's with!
I should have known there was someone else already. Someon... (read in full...)
A virgin male, a girl, and her boyfriend... going mad!
Q. Hello! First time poster here! This is about, well, two problems really. I’m posting here to get it off my chest because this is never the sort of thing I’d talk about – or at least not all of it – with people I know. OK, first I’ll give you so...
A. 19 October 2008: Thank you all for your answers! You've all been very helpful and helped me to see things for what they are. JCLTB13, I guess a long question requires a long answer. I nearly apologised for the length of my question but it would have taken up mo... (read in full...)
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