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writes:So this is weirding me out now. theres this guy on my bus every sunday afternoon. he's quite cute and seems to be my type. (shy, likes books, messy hair, wears hats :D) and for the past couple of weeks ive had dreams about him while asleep and awake about him being my bf. its really strange. like if i go to make a drink i'll imagine him next to me talking, joking, laughing and cuddling with me. in the dreams at nite i feel like he could really know me, understand my and my problems and that i could talk to him about them and he could help me. i dont know what to do about it.i dont know his name and have never spoken to him. this has never happened before so i dont have a clue. im freaking out about it. should i act on it or not. could i ever tell him about these dreams? what if he turns out it be the complete opposite of what ive imagined? Reply to this Question
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reader, Crafter  +, writes (13 October 2008):
 No, do not tell him anything. Follow CONFUSED's advice and get to know the guy first.
I mean... how would you feel if a complete stranger came up to you and told you "I've been dreaming about you for the past two weeks". What kind of answer does one expect? No.
Try to chat with him (face to face that is). Maybe you have common friends or something.
Best of luck.
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reader, CONFUSED????  +, writes (13 October 2008):
Well I think you should try to get to know him.
You said that he rides the bus right?
So you should go sit next to him and try to start a conversation.
Dont tell him your dreams just yet because that seems as if your stocking him.
If you like him or think you like him give yourself a chance and talk to him.
If you think that he kind of seems interested in you ask him for his phone number and get to know each other.
just wait and see where things take you from there.
Good luck!
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reader, karlgoo +, writes (13 October 2008):
 hey i think he would really like it if you got to know him too. But i wouldnt tell him about your dreams right away until you know he might share the same feelings.
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