Co-worker first extremely nice, now seems to avoid me
Q. There is this coworker at my office. First he was really nice to me. He talked to me, always stared at me and seemed pretty interested. When we had events and trips with the office, he asked me to drive with him in his car. But suddenly he ignores ...
A. 12 May 2013: does he have a girlfriend ?
maybe she might be getting jealous ?
possibly he may have been hitting on you & might feel you only "friend zoned" him so gave up
or he could have eyes for someone else in the office & doesn't want to give them th... (read in full...)
Does this mean he likes me and it might go somewhere? Or is he just being friendly?
Q. Hey guys! I am feeling very lonely lately. This thing that i'm not in a relationship, and never really had one, is really putting me down. So i got some points that i wanted to ask you a question about. If a guy: *you saw only once, and you ad...
A. 10 January 2012: being friends is where a good relationship starts
build that first then get him addicted to your home cooking !!... (read in full...)
Husband lost his job, plays PS all day, too tired for sex. Is it me?
Q. Okay so my husband and I have been married about 3 months but have been together for 13 years.... I feel we have a great relationship but lately he's been really confusing me and making me wonder about things..... He loves our kids and does ...
A. 10 January 2012: @ChaliceODamnation good answer
if I may add ...
Im a guy who hates talking ... but my fiancee makes me talk to her & it breaks through my depression
so stay calm dont take offence to anything he says , but make an appointment if you h... (read in full...)
My ex wants us to have sex but it brings back feelings! Should I do this?
Q. Dear Cupid, I recently got back in connect with my ex and we've been meeting up and things are just like they used to be when we were together. He calls us "friends" yet he has asked me to take his virginity. But what he doesn't realise ...
A. 10 January 2012: @CindyCares I didn't just mean she should "throw him a free 1"
I noticed she said "I don't know if I should have sex with him until I know his feelings are the same as mine"
his feelings probably aren't the same, but if she was his first he would... (read in full...)
Some questions about 'doggie style'
Q. Hello, I'm 20 and had some questions about doggy style. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I have never really wanted to pursue this position because there is not really any eye contact and feels more like a "get her done" ...
A. 7 January 2012: stop over thinking things , ITS SEX ! relax and enjoy... (read in full...)
My ex wants us to have sex but it brings back feelings! Should I do this?
Q. Dear Cupid, I recently got back in connect with my ex and we've been meeting up and things are just like they used to be when we were together. He calls us "friends" yet he has asked me to take his virginity. But what he doesn't realise ...
A. 6 January 2012: dont wait too long , because he wont !
if he is a virgin then he will always love you if you do ,
~ we all still think about our "first" !
do you want to be remembered for ever ? put in an amazing performance & ruin him for other girls !!... (read in full...)
We were on a break but he withheld information. Do I have the right to be upset about it?
Q. My boyfriend is 12 years older than me, we were together for about a year and then on/off for another year, i.e. we didn't talk very often while I was away at university but would see each other, go to the movies etc whenever i was back home. ...
A. 6 January 2012: hi , excuse me if Im abit blunt
Id put money on it that he was kinda seeing someone else during those holidays, hence the "fudging" of dates,
if you "were not properly together" then ~NO~ I dont think you are entitled to know everything, ... (read in full...)
Why does my bf want me to call him "daddy" during sex???
Q. My boyfriend wants me to start calling him 'daddy' during sex. Can anyone explain this? He says that it is really hot and something that will get him off. Why does he find this so hot? It's incest foreplay! It's disgusting! Has anyone done it? Why...
A. 15 May 2011: its not incest, its a submissive thing he wants to feel dominant if you dont want to call him daddy then stroke his ego other ways, moan loud , tell him how BIG his dick is and how great of a lover he is !... (read in full...)
Why is my g/f so frigid? Am I that repulsive?
Q. My girlfriend (27y) of 9 months and I (26y) have never been intimate, never discussed sex (she gets extremely uncomfortable), never ventured our hands between each others' legs. I always respect her comfort level. I feel unwanted. I feel...
A. 5 May 2011: ~with out crying ~ you need to tell her this
you have needs too
and this need is a big one !
have a talk with her , dont let her raise her voice or cry, just calmly ask whats up
you may need to discuss satisfying your needs elsewhere ... ... (read in full...)
I caught my ex cheating in the office! Would you turn her in?
Q. I caught my ex gold-digging past-lover that I work with screwing with another person in the office this morning? I caught them and now have extremely incriminating evidence against her and I would love to get her kicked out of the office for ...
A. 5 May 2011: go for it !
BUT be tactful , you dont want to seem petty & end up loosing support for your cause
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How can I feel more open to say the sexual things that are on my mind?
Q. I am very shy even tho i have been with my fiance for a little over 3 years now and i have really dirty thoughts come times but i never seem to say whats on my mind so my thing is he probably has know idea how freaky i really am, so my Question is ...
A. 27 April 2011: id suggest writing a descriptive note, entailing how you want the night to play out, fold it, hand it to him,
then wait in bed
he will be so aroused by the note , that alone will rock your night
best part is you can take a day or two to write it ... (read in full...)
Why would he have this type of porn on his computer?
Q. I found heaps of Asian porn on my husbands computer. Now I am worried he prefers them to me and I am getting very upset about it. Everytime we go out I am worried he is perving at them and preferring them to me. We fight about it all the time. I am ...
A. 27 April 2011: its just porn !!
if hes with you then he loves YOU
get over it !... (read in full...)
Husband found out about an encounter I had before we met and now wants to leave
Q. I had sex with my stepfather when i was 33 yrs old i was very drunk, i don't remember much, this was a year before i met my husband. After 10 years together he found out and wants to leave me. He said he can't handle the fact that this happened and ...
A. 20 April 2011: there is an expectation that if it was "rape" then there should be hostility towards the "attacker"
by the sound of it this should be described as a regrettable drunken event !
However things that happen before you meet someone have nothing ... (read in full...)
Why does she want to marry me when she doesn't want to be with my physically?
Q. hi guys and galls. I was just hoping for some views on my situation. I an due to be married next year after 5 years in this relationship. Over the part 8 months me and my future wife have had sex 5 times. This is not normal for any relationship ...
A. 20 April 2011: I know how you feel !
don't let time dull your passion,
if I want sex I start as soon as I wake up, I tell my fiancee that she is the most beautiful woman in the world before getting up to make her a coffee in bed, I ignore things like facebook... (read in full...)
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