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writes:Hey guys! I am feeling very lonely lately. This thing that i'm not in a relationship, and never really had one, is really putting me down. So i got some points that i wanted to ask you a question about. If a guy: *you saw only once, and you add him on fb, and he starts messaging you*when he says he enjoys chatting with you*when he says that beacause you're a chef he wants to someday taste something you made*he says you are well mannared, make people feel cozy, and talk maturely*when he gives you advise*when he makes jokes*when he says he doesn't mind to see you around beacause you seem to be a very nice girl*when before he says bye on chat he says ''dont hesitate to message me'' and you reply ''yeah same with you'', and he says ''i will!!''....do these points show that he likes you and maybe this might get somewhere? or is he just being friendly and doesn't want more than that?Please i really need your advice cause i'm falling real hard for him! thank you :) Reply to this Question
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reader, ...lb... +, writes (28 January 2012):
...lb... is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey guys :) these past few days i have taken the advice that was given to me by some of you: to relax, enjoy it, hang in there and just live in the moment :) ..and all has been good! there has been some more progress, compliments and invites and i think things are moving the right way! 10q all for all you help, support and advice! ^.^
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 January 2012):
 you need to relax and enjoy this... sounds very much like he likes you and wants to get to know you...
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reader, ...lb... +, writes (23 January 2012):
...lb... is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsry marieclaire but i never was lucky in love, that's why its hard for me to understand if he likes me or not. i was always let down when i liked someone! this is the reason why i keep questioning! i know you're right marieclaire, that i should live in the moment, but i don't want to get hurt again...i'm tired of it :/
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reader, ...lb... +, writes (23 January 2012):
...lb... is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys! i just wanted to add more details to my question, as time has passed and things have changed!
the guy i asked about has now:
* asked my sister about me
* stopped messaging me for a while, but then he apologised, saying that he was busy ( i can understand cause he's a teacher!!)
* he said that i don't bother him
* complimented me again and congradulated me on my graduation
* was 'glad' to get to now that i'm going bk for a holiday home, and asked if i have any plans yet
* he said that if i find it difficult to plan a night out, he would gladly ask me to tag along with him and his friends
* he said he was old and boring, but when i denied it he said: ''i feel relieved with regards to age :D''
*when i told him i have low self esteem, he kept asking questions, as if he was keen to find out more about me and my past
* throughout this whole conversation he was appearing offline, as if he doesn't want anyone else to know he's there, except me!!
...so can u pls tell me your opions now. am i moving in the right direction? are those goods sings, the one's he's showing???
P.S in an older conversation with him i mentioned valentines day, and how busy it will be at work. he jokingly asked me if the hotel's managers are going to give us roses, and when i said that it would be nice if they did, he replied that he'll try to send me some too :)
...sry for writing so long, but i tried to give u all the details! thanks!! ^.^
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reader, Crabman  +, writes (10 January 2012):
 being friends is where a good relationship starts
build that first then get him addicted to your home cooking !!
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