When I met up with my online date things weren't so terrific. I still like him though but he seems to have lost his interest, what should I do to make him come back?
Q. well, i met a boy over the internet, a few months ago, then we started dating, he looked really hot in his pictures and had a great personality, and he only lived a hour away in the same country. so me and my mate went to meet him. he was so ...
A. 16 December 2007: He could've been shy or overwhelmed. The internet is a good place for shy types to express themselves easily, and he could've just "froze" in real life. Don't give up on him yet.
Ask yourself these questions: Was he rude to you and your friend, or w... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but she is my best mate's ex. Is she off limits for me?
Q. Hey i am 14 and i really fancy this girl, we don't talk much but when i see her we have a great time. I would just ask her out but she is my best mates ex and he was really unhappy when they broke up. I am really good mates with her best fri...
A. 16 December 2007: I'd be really careful if I were you. Would you be able to live with yourself if you lost your friend? Would you rather date this girl than remain friends? It seems ridiculous, but it could easily come to that.
You could wait a while before maki... (read in full...)
How do I initiate french kissing? We had a kiss and it was a disaster...!!
Q. so heres the deal. im sixteen. so its not like im 12 or 13 and asking this question. dont judge me for this either. HAH. but yeah. up untill recently, i have never had a REAL boyfriend. ive only had 'things' like.. little unofficial relatio...
A. 16 December 2007: Your experience reminds me a little of my first kiss. :)
I was 18, by the way, and my first kiss with my boyfriend was awful. I felt like he was trying to eat corn-on-the-cob rather than kiss me. Our noses kept bumping and my mouth ached beca... (read in full...)
My girl friend keeps coming onto me, and my boyfriend too! What do we do?
Q. I feel that one of my best mates that's a girl fancy's me. She has been trying to get me to enrol in certain sexual activities with her and i don't really swing that way. She been trying to flirt with my fella constinally telling him how 'hot' and ...
A. 16 December 2007: Tell her that her behavior makes you uncomfortable and that you find it highly inappropriate. If she does not stop, you will no longer be her friend. Talk to your boyfriend and see if he will say the same to her. Try to remain calm and not to react ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a bad reputation, should I be worried?
Q. I date a physician .He cheated on his wife with his mistress.He left her and is dating me and I'm a nurse were he works.The rumors at the hospital was he cheated on both xwives.Should I let this bother me?Everybody looks at me weird when I go to ...
A. 16 December 2007: Just because his job is typically considered respectable doesn't mean that HE is. Have you confronted him about his reputation? People may be trying to warn you without trying to tell you what to do. Is there anything you've noticed about him that ... (read in full...)
Do unmarried guys wear rings?
Q. This guy I know wears a silvery plainlooking ring on his ring finger, but he's never talked about it. I've seen him out at the bar, but it's always been with a guy friend, and he's not gay or anything as far as I know. Do some guys just wear r...
A. 16 December 2007: A ring on a man's finger has so many more social connotations than one on a female's finger. That's probably why the mystery. If he doesn't talk about his relationship, he could just be very private with his personal life.
The best way to find out... (read in full...)
He's only with me because I'm white!! Should I be offended by this?
Q. My boyfriend of nine months told me that he's only with me because I'm white. Should i be offended? [He's half Bangli and half English]...
A. 16 December 2007: Was he kidding??
If he meant what he said, he should really re-evaluate his priorities for a dating relationship. He should be with you because of your internal, personal qualities and not because you look one way or another.
I second what ... (read in full...)
Should I let her back, or should I move on?
Q. First, thank you for reading. Please bear with me; I have a lot on my mind. It's also a pretty screwed up situation, but then again, why else would I be writing for advice from strangers? I am a good-looking college grad, 22 y.o. who is in law sc...
A. 16 December 2007: First of all, I wonder if we NT types are particularly attracted to the message board format? :)
It sounds as if you are determined, confident, and secure in yourself. She might be worried about your expectations of her despite your reassura... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm ruining something good before it even starts! How can I reverse the damage I'm doing?
Q. Hi everyone. I posted a question recently, and it changed and changed as time has gone on, so I thought I would post something fresh, and get some new prespectives. Last night I went out with a friend, drinking. We eventually met up with a group ...
A. 16 December 2007: You might not have come across as the suave, silver-tongued gentleman you hoped to be, but I don't think you've done any damage at all, let alone irreversible damage. If anything, you've been clear about your interest in her, and have shown that ... (read in full...)
Do unmarried guys wear rings?
Q. This guy I know wears a silvery plainlooking ring on his ring finger, but he's never talked about it. I've seen him out at the bar, but it's always been with a guy friend, and he's not gay or anything as far as I know. Do some guys just wear r...
A. 15 December 2007: I don't like this guy like that, but I was just wondering if guys do like girls do 'cause sometimes I wear a fake ring if I want guys to leave me alone or something.... (read in full...)
My ex says she wants me back, do you think I should trust her or not to come back?
Q. I recently posted a question regarding my ex-girlfriend who decided she wanted me back. Our relationship was awsome until we hit the rocks when she got snowed under with work and college work. We had a "break" which lasted a month before we called ...
A. 15 December 2007: It sounds as if this girl is using you as an emotional crutch. She's comfortable with you and you're comfortable with her, so that's why it's tempting to get back together each time a new relationship doesn't work out on one side or the other. But ... (read in full...)
Why is my friend flirting with the guy I like?
Q. My friend flirts with nearly every boy. I wouldn't mind but she openly seems to flirt with the guy who a have a massive crush on. The over day she mentioned something about not liking her ex anymore but wanting him to fancy her anyway because it ...
A. 15 December 2007: It sounds as if your friend uses flirting as personal validation. You may want to explain to her how you feel when she flirts with your guy because she may not realize that she's hurting you. If she apologizes and curbs her flirtatious behavior, ... (read in full...)
His friendship with his ex is a big cause for concern for me...
Q. I have been living with my significant other for about a year and a half, and his best friend is his ex-girlfriend, whom he used to be deeply in love with, and she with him. He told me they never officially broke up, just sorta drifted apart when he ...
A. 15 December 2007: Wow. This relationship has caused you a lot of turmoil and pain. It's hard to leave someone you love, but it seems that he will always choose his ex over you. That doesn't make you a bad person, crazy, or insanely jealous. It just means that he, f... (read in full...)
Where do I find decent girls with morals? Do they still exist?
Q. Hi all, I have been a little troubled lately. Yesterday I was chatting with a guy 4 years older than me online and I found out that he is a rich sex hound. Sex-crazed, no morals, rich, conceited and he doesn't give a damn about screwing around....
A. 15 December 2007: I understand your disgust. It seems as if everyone's out for a good time, and no one takes love seriously anymore. But, there are a few of us girls out there who'd much prefer the lifetime over the one-time. In fact, I think a lot of girls prefer ... (read in full...)
I've been holding out on sex for 6 months, is it a possibility he might start looking elsewhere?
Q. My boyfriend of 6 months is very affectionate with me i.e holding my hand, kissing, etc, but at the same time I am confused. I know that relationships settle down after a while, but we haven't yet had sex. This is in part because my ex-boyfriend ...
A. 15 December 2007: The fact that you're willing to be intimate with him in other ways, yet still won't have intercourse might be sending mixed signals. You like those "sweet nothings" and you like feeling close. I completely understand how you feel: it's scary ... (read in full...)
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