Husband blames me for his abusive behaviour saying he is not happy due to my weight. My situation makes me depressed.
Q. I was so glad to see all the Answers replying to weight-related questions because I have been upset many times by my partner telling me I am 'fat'. I was bigger than I am now when I met him 3 yrs ago) and have lost a couple of stone in the last 2 ...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, this is bang out of order, its not your weight that bothers him, he is deliberately trying to undermine you, and your security, which gives him far more control over you.! By making you feel insecure, unattractive, and depressed means ... (read in full...)
I found out she's bisexual.. It's freaking me out!
Q. I'm not homophobic, and I have nothing against people that choose not to be straight, but my quite close friend has basically told me she's bisexual... Now I feel watched by her when I'm around her. I know it's ridiculous, and that if she was a gu...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, this is your friend! if she were black, asian, chinese, gay, bisexual, makes no difference in my eyes. Everyone is different so why should you feel so hostile by finding out she is bisexual? would you feel the same if she were gay? Tak... (read in full...)
Do I listen to my head or my heart? I know it's a bit complex but what do you guys think?
Q. I few years ago I fell in love with a much younger man, in a very strange way. I never acted on it. He was in love with me too, but we never did anything about it. As it was hopeless in so many ways. One is I'm married and have children, they are ...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, I would put this down to experience! risk what you have or lose it is the motto here. You know the risks and your husband knows the truth, play the game and you lose big style! choice is yours. Good luck! Angie... (read in full...)
Sex films and best mates
Q. My wife often lets me film her perform sexual acts on herself and me. I had never considered showing them to anyone until one day she told me I could show them to my best friend aslong as I pretended she didn't know. At first I was shocked by this....
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, I totally disagree with troubledtomuch's answer. I would say your wife is being adventurous with you sex life, this is not unsual as your life progresses. We all progress in stages, at 16 we dont know what to do, at 21 we are aware, at 30... (read in full...)
She will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak, what should I do?
Q. I'm 16 and a virgin. Everyone is doing it accept me but the thing is I have a small penis and it's wonky so I'm too scared to get with a girl cause when she wants sex she will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak. What should I do?...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, have you ever heard anyone say, it does not matter if she has green hair, or it does matter that her nose is too small, or it does matter that she comes from a family of drug dealers????????????? Love is in the eye of the beholder, whatev... (read in full...)
How do I tell him we shouldn't talk anymore without offending him?
Q. Hey Aunts, I just want to ask you a question - I'm having a little trouble with me and my boyfriend of 2 years. We broke up and he is so confusing, just always giving me mixed messages, I miss him so much. I've just realized it's time t...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi this is easier than you think. Why stop talking???? Just because you are not compatible as girlfriend and boyfriend does not mean you cannot be very good friends and help each other through this, do you not think that he is feeling very muc... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 10 February 2008: hi, you poor thing, this sounds like the hell i have had for 28 yrs! not only have i had to put up with the ex-wife, but the ex and existing! my husband thinks he is the only man on earth who has to shag every living female cause there is no ... (read in full...)
Advice on the perfect handjob please, tell me what I'm doing wrong!
Q. I need some advice about how to give a better hand job. Now I have tried 3 times now to make him cum but I just can't get him to. I am pretty sure I have a right grip. Its pretty firm but not too firm. I always get this cramp in my arm and its so ...
A. 10 February 2008: that is all too complicated, try this. Slow, firm, but your thumb on the inside of the penis, this area is sensitive and has the most feeling, push downwards firm and slow, increase the speed gently, and react with the response the partner is s... (read in full...)
My husband has had an affair for the past year.
Q. 5 weeks ago I found out that my husband (we've been married 21 years)had an affair last year. He says that it is over and is trying very hard to make ammends. we talk a lot and are going to relate. He has told lots of lies and last week I found that ...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, I feel for you, its a tough call! My husband and I have been together for 28yrs, he has had numerous affairs all of which I know about, and he continues to be the flirt of the nation! including my sister and my next door neighbour! Wh... (read in full...)
Anyone got any help or advice for my sister?
Q. Help! My younger sister has been involved with a guy for about 5 years now who constantly puts her down (rude comments about where she lives, her taste in books etc etc). What really concerns me is that she seems unable to let go of him. She ...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, oh my word this is a tricky one! Your sister has been with this guy for 5yrs, she therefore knows what this guy is like, she probably takes his remarks and insults lightly, she is used to it. You are the one that cannot take it, and its... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a boy, but he doesn't know who I am. What can I do?
Q. i met this boy 2day and i have totally fallen head over heels for him he is gorgeous but hes in the year above and he hardly knows me.:'( i want 2 stop feelin like this. My heart is acheing :'(...
A. 10 February 2008: Hi, oh my god I can so relate to how you are feeling!!! When I was at school I had exactly the same thing, my heart used to miss a beat everytime I saw this guy at school who was also in the year above me. I used to think, "he will never look ... (read in full...)
Is he leading me on here?
Q. Hello, I'm 15 years old and I've met this guy in my Italian class, I really love him, I've never felt this way for anyone. So when I finally decided to talk to him, to my surprise he talked to me first. The next day he talked to me again, something ...
A. 9 February 2008: Hi, oooooo dear, difficult one for you........... You have every right to think your mum wont be happy, as a mum myself i would be CURIOUS rather than furious. I have to say from past experience that there is definately no future for you in this ... (read in full...)
| *hocolatetpots's friends
These are mutual friends, so *hocolatetpots has
added them and they have added *hocolatetpots!
|
