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writes:I'm 16 and a virgin. Everyone is doing it accept me but the thing is I have a small penis and it's wonky so I'm too scared to get with a girl cause when she wants sex she will just laugh at me and think I'm a freak. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): Hey dude..... I'm laughing at you too, you know why? I too have a small penis....very very small! But guess what..I've been with over 300 women in my life....I'm now 48. I ....to this day, well even as of 20 minutes ago, still wish that I could have at least a 7 inch penis, but it's not going to happen for me. I've only had one female embarrass me by saying it was small, but that was it. I was in my 20's then.All I'm saying is this....just be thankful for what GOD has given you. Though I'm single now....I've been in 5 long term relationships (over 3 years at a time).I was with a doctor for 2 years when I was in my 20'sI was with a US Marine Corps staff seargent for 3 yearsI was with my "true" love for 7 years with 2 sonsI was with a top notch lawyer for 3 years, and I'm currently with a woman I've been with for 11 years.Keep in mind, I've been with countless other females as "on the side chicks" in between all this. I've only had 40 one night stands...every other female I've been with over 50 times in my relationships with them. And just for your information...I only started to "eat pussy" just 7 years ago, but.....YOU must be able to be able to please!Learn to find her sensitive spots/parts....learn to be sensual....learn to make love to not only her body, but also to her mind. Be a Romeo, ....a Casanova, a Valentino.Be yourself, but be romantic when it allows you to!And on another note....NEVER....EVER...BOW DOWN TO PEER PRESSURE!!!ALL my friends were into drugs (Cocaine, Heroin and PCP)and they were also into crime. I never went with the flow!I wouldn't drink beer with them out in gatherings and I was always accepted. Keep this in mindThis was and still is my personal motto:If the world cannot accept me as I am....then it cannot accept me at all! Be your own man....pave your own way!I have a little dick too....but I did not let that stop me!I have been to 'orgies', though it was with strangers!YES! I'm still ashamed of my little penis, but I have been with a lot more women than the average man. Guess what?!That is still nothing to brag about either. But I won't give you a long drawn out answer....be proud of your manhood...no matter what the size. I'm 3.5 inches....I'm not happy with the size, but I'm quite happy with the women and memories I have. Good luck to you and take care.
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Its no big deal, a guy who has a small one can do just as well as guy with a big one but he has to make up for it by doin other things more such as foreplay. And im not sure what you mean by wonky but everyone is sort of diffrent down there so thats nothing to worry about either. And uh yeah i can garuntee that half the people or more saying that they had sex are talking crap. They probably are making it up. And well for the ones who are, well would you jump off a bridge if they did, no you wouldnt.You are not ready at your age for what can happen when you become sexually active, and for the emotional side of it. Just take your time and find someone who really care about and when you find the person that you really care about you will know when your ready to have sex. Trust me you will know. And do not pressure them to do it, i know its hard to resist the craving but dont do it. You wouldnt like being pressured to do it if you were not ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): Who knows? Maybe your penis isn't as small as you think! My man, before I even started dating him said 'you know what they say about big feet, right?' because his shoe-size is 15...well, let me tell you. Nope. Most men are like 'I'm HUGE! I'm eight inches!' or 'I'm seven inches!'Well my man is six and a half (sometimes seven, depending on the day, lol) and I'm perfectly happy. The average penis size is around 5 and 3/4 inches. And what the frig is a wonky!? :D There are all sorts of ways to pleasure a girl: oral, manual (hands and fingers), vibrators...etc. I'm sure other guys have your problem. Good luck!
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Wonky? Penises come in all different shapes and sizes as do vaginas. Learn about other things to do and make it more enjoyable for women. Sometimes, guys with small weiners are a hell of alot better in bed with guys with big thingies.
Make yourselves one of those men!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Learn how to romance and love a girl and those techniques to arouse them . This will compensate for your other department.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (10 February 2008):
 You're not nearly mature enough to have sex with anyone. So what if everyone else was doing it? If they were all taking drugs or shoplifting would you want to do that too? You should stand tall and just get to know girls more, be fun to be with and be their friend. Let them chase you a bit. Don't be too quick to want to "do it", it will turn out to be an anti climax. Insead, get to know a girl properly and WAIT before jumping into bed with her. If she wants sex too soon then she's not the right girl to be with. You'll know when the time is right.
As for your penis...? Don't worry about that. I'm sure your penis is perfectly adequate to filfil a woman. No man has the "perfect penis", they come in all shapes and sizes, that's the beauty of it all so try not to be so paranoid about it.
~Eve~
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reader, chocolatetpots +, writes (10 February 2008):
Hi, have you ever heard anyone say, it does not matter if she has green hair, or it does matter that her nose is too small, or it does matter that she comes from a family of drug dealers?????????????Love is in the eye of the beholder, whatever you think is wrong with you or your penis is pure vanity, use what you have to the full potential, because no matter what, the person who is in love with you will see beyond all your paranoid thoughts lol x
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