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*wincess-sarah-08
writes:i met this boy 2day and i have totally fallen head over heels for him he is gorgeous but hes in the year above and he hardly knows me.:'( i want 2 stop feelin like this. My heart is acheing :'( Reply to this Question
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reader, chocolatetpots +, writes (10 February 2008):
Hi, oh my god I can so relate to how you are feeling!!!When I was at school I had exactly the same thing, my heart used to miss a beat everytime I saw this guy at school who was also in the year above me. I used to think, "he will never look at me"! he was good looking, long black hair, eyes to die for!I was never the miss good looking girl in the school, i was over weight, a mass of frizzy hair, and called witchy poo, well that was it, i knew my luck was never going to change!Every day I saw him, every day he smiled and talked to me, he knew from others at school how i felt and took full advantage of how to make me feel crap! i used to hibernate in the evening, or i would follow him round knowing where he would be that night!Then, one day, I woke up! Told myself this was not going to happen anymore, my crying nights were over, the soppy music went out of the window, the following him round stopped, and I grew up. The tables were turned overnight, when he realised that I was not going to do all those things anymore, and that my crush had worn off, (not really) things changed to the extreme, he started to follow me!After a few weeks, we started dating, I was with him 2 weeks, and realised he was not the one for me, we were like chalk and cheese, ! lol.I could have kicked myself for putting me through all that heartache when I knew absolutely nothing about this guy at all, apart from his looks!My advice to you would be, take your time to get to know him, have lunch with him, ask him a million and one questions, concentrate on the subjects he likes most, obviously you need to find those out, take it one day at a time, even if it takes a year, you will get there.Good luck!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (8 February 2008):
 You met him today and your head over heels for him in a day? Wow thats quick well get yourself noticed talk to him flirt with him give him ur msn addy give him your number, nothing will happen if your shy about it be upfront dont waste time wondering "does he notice me" dont mae yourself seem desperate just start with a casual chat and work up from there some guys even like the forward approach.dont hang around waiting for him to make the first move GO FOR IT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Simple - tell him who you are, and tell him you fancy him.
There was a girl that fancied me when I was your age, but I had no idea. I thought she was well out of my league. It wasn't until many years later that I found out that she felt about me the same way that I felt about her. A golden opportunity missed. Who knows what might have been? If only!!
Phil
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Try not to think about him and find something else to take up your thoughts. Read or play games or play a sport. And becuase you barely know the guy i have a feeling this is what is called infatuation. Its where you basically really like someone on the spot and you dont really know them. And you continue to like them as you get to know them and maybe start something with them. Then you drop out of it. It can have damaging effects. I know someone who had this happen she put up with him cheating on her etc. And then one day it just died, she stoped careing and she realized how much of an idiot she had been. Her friends tried to help her but she didnt listen. But yeah infatuation ends after a long time but it just drops out of the sky when it does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): I know your pain, I have wanted to stop having these feelings for a certain girl. I even tried forgetting about her but I just couldn't. Eventually i just realised I cant help feeling the way I do. It hurts, a lot, and im not going to lie to you. In my case it hasnt stopped hurting. What helps is being friends with the person get to know him and maybe you will find out that he's not the guy for you good luck
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