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He says he can't love before sex!

Q.   My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...

A.   31 July 2010: Hahahaha!! Got to be one of the oldest (desperate & manipulative) tricks in the book. He sounds immature and unworthy... (read in full...)

I can't get rid of thrush and am too embarrassed to go to the doctor

Q.   i have had very bad thrush for about 6 years i went to the doctors about it and he gave me a perscription for clotrimazole 1% cream.it did the job while i was applying the cream but as soon as it got better and i stopped the cream it came back with ...

A.   31 July 2010: You just need to get longer prescriptions, and more often. It's really nothing to be embarased about unless your going to just leave it ... (read in full...)

What's so good about big penises?

Q.   Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...

A.   30 July 2010: The only reason women like them big is because it's a genetics thing. It means in primitive terms that a man has good genes, Is well bred and fertile. Web thought that's not necessarily true q... (read in full...)

I have met the man of my dreams but I have gone off sex!

Q.   I am a 22 female and finally met the man of my dreams. When I see him I think how gorgeous he is, he treats me like an absolute princess, hes kind to me, caring, helpful, thoughtful...basically as if sent from heaven. BUT...I have COMPLETELY lost my ...

A.   30 July 2010: Maybe you just see him as a friend?... (read in full...)

How do I know if my online guy feels the same way?

Q.   Well, I have been speaking to this guy online. I am from England and he is from Germany... and I really like him. We have been speaking for quite a while and we talk quite a lot but I don't know if he likes me like the way I like him... I don't know ...

A.   28 July 2010: Just say stuff like you look very nice today and wish you were here! Or just do the obvious... Tell him how you feel and ask him what he thinks of you!... (read in full...)

Is it a "cop out" to cheat on someone and then not tell them what you did?

Q.   Posters Own Title: I've heard so often "I can't tell them I cheated on them b/c it would really hurt them." That seems so hypocritical to me. If this person was so concerned about "hurting" their partner, they probably wouldn't have cheated in the ...

A.   27 July 2010: The other person has a RIGHT to know... (read in full...)

Boyfriend got roommate pregnant...what to do?

Q.   OK, my question is what should I do??? My boyfriend broke up with me six months ago for less than a week and slept with his roommate and got her pregnant. Apparently she just realized NOW that she's pregnant and told him just the other week. What...

A.   27 July 2010: You really need to leave this guy. He sounds like a massive ... Idiot... (read in full...)

Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?

Q.   Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since.  About ...

A.   27 July 2010: I told my Best friend who is the only person I can trust (and trust is something my group of friends seem to have problems with as they still haven't stopped bitching all the time) she said she is going to come down to the (I have decided) coffee ... (read in full...)

Why did she stare at my penis area for so long??

Q.   Hey guys and girls, has anybody ever seen a girl completely stare at the location of your penis buldge before?(for at least 10 seconds) What does this mean? Is the girl trying to see the size of my penis through my pants(is that possible?) Its ...

A.   27 July 2010: Look women want to look and check guys out all the time.... (read in full...)

At 6 months, shouldn't he know if he loves my by now? Or am I rushing things?

Q.   Ok i need help! A bit of history is that my childrens father was a serial cheat throughout our 10 year long relationship, this ended 2 years ago. I t took me a while but i am now over it and feel really ready to move on. I dated a couple of guys ...

A.   26 July 2010: I don't thi there is a time limit for these things so just give him as long as he needs... In my opinion 6 months is very fast to begin to love someone... (read in full...)

How do I get guys to look at me as more than just a one night stand?

Q.   Okay so I'm a 18 years old girl, I consider myself as a okay looking girl but I do have a serious problem that just makes my self-esteem really low. I never had a boyfriend. Guys just aren't interested in me (except as a sexual object or something ...

A.   26 July 2010: Maybe if you don't wear "sexy outfits" and look/dress in different styles different guys will go for you and these will be the right types of guy?!... (read in full...)

Her parents want us to take a test to see if we had sex

Q.   MOD NOTE: All signs point to the fact that the poster cannot be 33. okay i had sex with this girl and her parents kinda know so now they want us to go take a test to see if we did and i never cum in her would they still find out?...

A.   26 July 2010: Haha. Funny mod note. But seriously I don't think such a test exists. So now just make sure what you did want illegal!!... (read in full...)

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