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... Send *alico a private message | | | *alico's profile:I am 21 years old, I have a 2 month old baby, and hopefully soon to be married. I am from AZ. and I love to talk w/ people about problems. I have been through alot in my life and I think I might be of some help to others out there needing advice. I dont like rude people or people that dont treat others well... this goes for all the immature guys out there who think hitting a girl, or calling her names is okay. I think this web site is awesome b/c I can talk to people and they can talk to me about very stressful times etc. in their lives and together, we can all help eachother!! That is a great thing when you have no one else to talk to. |
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My ex always brings up our past. Should I confront her about it?
Q. my ex gives me shit about our past not in a direct form but she seems to say stuff relating to how i was. now i think she likes my best friend but i dont understand y she stills gives me shit about the past. i want to confront her about many thin...
A. 19 September 2008: Well, I think alot of us girls are the same in this way. Even myself. And as jacked up as it is, I think she may hold alot hurt or bitterness it sounds like deep within her. Maybe more than you even know. How long have you two been together?? I ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to find any girls who share my view on sex. Should I just give in?
Q. It seems like every girl I meet is one of two categories: 1. Girls who are religious and want to save sex for marriage. 2. Girls who want to have sex right now. I'm in a conundrum because I don't want to have sex until I'm in a serious re...
A. 19 September 2008: No... DO NOT GIVE IN!!! I'm sorry but just b/c these certain girls you've been w/ in the past are not really what your looking for, dont just let yourself go for the heck of it. I can promise you that if you keep looking and dating different girls, ... (read in full...)
What is your opinion on a 15 year old sleeping with a 17 year old?
Q. Hi DearCupid, I was wondering how you all feel about a fifteen year old being sexually active with a seventeen year old, just want your opinions. K, thank you (:...
A. 19 September 2008: Well, I think that it depends on the type of person you ask. Now days in society, sex is just like a normal thing to do and nobody really thinks twice about 'doing it'. In my opinion though a 15 and a 17 year old is a little dangerous, and on both ... (read in full...)
How can I slim down my thighs?
Q. Hi. I'm really conscious of my thighs and need some tipso n how to loose a bit of weight from them. I'm a size 8, fairly active woman - I do horse riding and walking, I don't carry a lot of weight and am happy with my body everywhere else apart ...
A. 19 September 2008: I used to feel the same way abot my thighs, infact anything below my waist was making me a little insecure....
What I started doing was going to the gym, that was a real motivator to me because gyms have just about every kind of exercise equi... (read in full...)
My heart won't let me love anybody else but him. He on the other hand, can't love only me? He's the biggest flirt!
Q. I've been in this relationship for 12 years. Let me explain how much I love this man. He's my first love. You know that ride or die type of love? The one that blurs what's wrong and right just as long as you're together. He's always been my K...
A. 17 September 2008: Wow... I cant believe your story. I thought to myself when I read this that I might be of some help to you b/c your story sounds almost similar to mine. So, he is your first and only love, you cant even imagine being with somebody else, b/c you and ... (read in full...)
How can I get my teacher fired as she is real nasty to the students?
Q. Sorry this isnt a relationship question but i really need advice. This is a long story that goes over two years so ill cut it short. Well i am at a course for literacy numeracy and helping to get into work. It was going great and i got heaps of ...
A. 17 September 2008: It sounds to me like this teacher chose her the wrong career in her life. I cant stand the idea of a teacher doing this kind of crap b/c it really puts a big effect on the kids who are trying to make a difference in their lives. And ,frankly, with a ... (read in full...)
I can't tell if she is interested in me or just being friendly.
Q. OK, there is this girl at work who always makes it a point to say hi to me. She talks to me unlike she talks to her other friends, calm and peaceful. I catch her quite alot starring at me from her desk and when I catch her she looks away. I fina...
A. 16 September 2008: I would assume that she is 100% interested. It sounds like she likes you, and more than a friend kind of way. Why not break the ice in some way or another? Like, ask her if she is currently seeing anyone as a boyfriend. Atleast that might spark the ... (read in full...)
I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?
Q. I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me ...
A. 16 September 2008: I'm sorry, but I would be upset too. I know its life and there are going to be temptations and stuff, but it at the same time should not get in between a relationship. Are you two sexually active w/ eachother?...if so, I wouldnt quite understand why ... (read in full...)
How can I make my mum talk about masturbation?
Q. I'm 13 year old girl and I masturbate frequently. I don't know if my mum knows, I want to tell her, but I can't! alternatively, how can I make her talk to me about it, without letting her know that I masturbate?...
A. 16 September 2008: If I were you I would just tell her some kind of lie, such as 'hey mom.... what is masturbation and is it normal... b/c I heard some stuff about it and I dont exactly know what it means'
If you say something like that, she will probably just assu... (read in full...)
Could he be playing games?
Q. What does it mean when a guy wants you to stay the night after sex, but then says he does not want a relationship with you. Is he playing games? ...
A. 15 September 2008: YES!!!!!! Most definatley. You should avoid guys like this... there will only be more problems to come. Sex isnt a game, it may sound a little old fashioned but it still holds every ounce of truth.... (read in full...)
I can't put my life on hold any longer! I need some advice...
Q. I posted the following question last week, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shall-i-go-round-with-some-flowers-and.html I really need some more advice please. I made my gf a college (photomontage) of us both together i spent all week making...
A. 15 September 2008: You sound like a really nice and caring guy.... something that most of us girls would die to have. It sounds to me like she doesnt really feel the same way about you as you do her. Because... if she did, she would be more concerned w/ how you are ... (read in full...)
I found that he was asking a lot of girls for pictures, to go on cam, meet up for sex... I don't want to break up, I want to get this sorted out, but how?
Q. Anyway starting right from the start was ages ago, in April I think when we were in the park and we were stealing each others phones and wrestling them off each other (in a nice way) I had his phone and we were carrying on, but when I went into ...
A. 15 September 2008: I am sorry that all this is happening to you w/ someone you really love. I know you said you want this to get sorted out between you two, but I must say..... you have got to put your foot down! No guy should get away w/ this and quite frankly, I ... (read in full...)
I don't think I will get over my ex unless I leave our small town. Is it the right thing to do?
Q. My ex has broken my heart in pieces and I dont know what to do. He split with me for someone else about a month ago and I cant get over it. We werent together long but I really love him and the thought of him being with someone else is tearing me ...
A. 15 September 2008: Yes... you are making a very wise and mature decision by moving away. It is rotten that he can take your heart, which was full w/ trust and happiness at one point and time, and then crumple it all up with the palm of his hand as if nothing even ... (read in full...)
I'm the only one in my grade with a light moustache and hair on my chin, I feel embarassed!
Q. im only 13 but i m having hair on my face i have a light moustache and some hair on my chin its so embarassing im the only one in my grade hlp plz...
A. 15 September 2008: Hi... I am a girl, so I might not have any advice for you if you are looking to get rid of the hair situation. But.. I do want to tell you that eventhough you may feel a little out of place right now, I can honestly tell you that it is normal and if ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always late, it's getting annoying. How do I bring it up?
Q. Im only 16 years old, and i guess you could all say i shouldnt be commiting mself into a serious relationship at this age, but ive nown my boyfriend since i was around 6 years old and weve always had that close bond. 8 months ago we got together and ...
A. 15 September 2008: Hello, I think that this is a simple but also serious problem. I myself know exactly what you are talking about and I used to deal w/ the same problem w/ my now soon to be husband. There were times that he would actually forget to pick me up at ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always late, it's getting annoying. How do I bring it up?
Q. Im only 16 years old, and i guess you could all say i shouldnt be commiting mself into a serious relationship at this age, but ive nown my boyfriend since i was around 6 years old and weve always had that close bond. 8 months ago we got together and ...
A. 15 September 2008: Hello, I think that this is a simple but also serious problem. I myself know exactly what you are talking about and I used to deal w/ the same problem w/ my now soon to be husband. There were times that he would actually forget to pick me up at ... (read in full...)
How Can I learn to Trust Men?
Q. I have been in a relationship for several years with this guy. We have a home and a child together. We talk often of marriage, but I am apprehensive because I have a trust issue. Years ago we had a rough patch I suspected he cheated on me( kinda ...
A. 15 September 2008: I understand how you feel. I hate to ask this but, has anything ever happend to you besides what you have mentioned? I ask this because I have the same problem in trusting ANY guy.To me, I see them all as betrayers, and I have been hurt one too many ... (read in full...)
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