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writes:What does it mean when a guy wants you to stay the night after sex, but then says he does not want a relationship with you. Is he playing games? Reply to this Question
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reader, calico +, writes (15 September 2008):
 YES!!!!!! Most definatley. You should avoid guys like this... there will only be more problems to come. Sex isnt a game, it may sound a little old fashioned but it still holds every ounce of truth.
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reader, Mark25  +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Yes, he is playing games. Unfortunately many men only see women as sex objects to be used for their pleasure. These are very selfish and ignorant men that would best be avoided. As long as you keep having sex with him he'll keep using you. That's all he's doing. Get rid of him and find a man who will love and respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008):
When a man you're sleeping with says he doesn't want a relationship, BELIEVE IT.
Seriously, believe it 100% of the time. If he flat out says he doesn't want a relationship, then DO NOT look for any more complex meanings in everything to overrule that idea.
Men are prone to dishonesty when they're trying to get you into bed, not out of bed. If he really wants a relationship, lying and saying otherwise has absolutely no benefit for him.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (15 September 2008):
 i don't think he's playing "games".
He just wants to have his cake and to eat it too.
Meaning, he wants the comforts of having you in his bed, cuddling, holding you.
But when sunrise comes, you both go your separate ways and no headaches, and attachments of a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship.
Basically, men can have sex without any love or emotion involved. While us women can't help but feel love when we're with a man intimately.
it sucks how our brains are so different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo this is just a quick fling.. i can not explain my actions other than pure lust.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Sounds like to me he wants one of those stupid "friends with benefits" arrangement. Do you normally sleep with someone then get dressed and go home? Just asking.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 September 2008):
 YES
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