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writes:My ex has broken my heart in pieces and I dont know what to do. He split with me for someone else about a month ago and I cant get over it. We werent together long but I really love him and the thought of him being with someone else is tearing me apart.I went out with him before, about 3 years ago, and loved him then but he dumped me for someone else so I really should have learnt my lesson then but I didnt. Anyway, today I met him to talk. He was nasty to me and told me he wasnt gonna get back with me and wont leave his new gf. He cares about her more than he does me even tho hes only been with her a couple of weeks. Ive been crying so much today that now I actually feel physically sick. I have the chance to move 150 miles away, which is what I wanna do as cant stand the thought of seeing him with her every time I go out (live in a very small town). I dont think I will get over it unless I get away. Its not that im running away, its cos i know Im not strong enough to deal with it here. I know that time is the best healer but I wont heal if I keep seeing him, hearing about him etc. Am I doing the right thing?
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reader, lexilou +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Yes take this chance. Life is so short we have to seize every opportunity. He is always going to hurt you and will probably pick you back up when he breaks up with his new gf because he knows he can. See this as a new start not a bad thing and you will realise in years to come that this guy was using you and was so wrong for you. You deserve better sweetheart and I wish you luck in your new exciting life! x
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reader, calico  +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Yes... you are making a very wise and mature decision by moving away. It is rotten that he can take your heart, which was full w/ trust and happiness at one point and time, and then crumple it all up with the palm of his hand as if nothing even happend. There is someone else out there waiting for and to treat you like a princess, and maybe where you are thinking about moving to. I believe that what is meant to be will always happen, no matter how near or far. But you need to take care of yourself and move on. If its hurting you really bad still after you move... I recommend a good counselor that will help you. It really does work, I promise! Good luck... I wish the best for you.... you do not need a guy whose gonna treat you like crap. There are plenty of better fish out in the sea...
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