I want to make some positive changes in my life but I don't seem to be making any progress
Q. I cant help but feel like I've dug myself into a bit of a hole over the years. For a while now, I've been wanting to make some positive changes in my life to get myself out of it, but I just don't seem to get anywhere. I find myself drift in and out ...
A. 10 November 2013: Sounds like there are other things at play here.. social anxiety for one.
Not saying you do, but quit any porn use... I had an issue with this at your age and it near crippled me.
Cut it out completely, it will then be your default behaviou... (read in full...)
I want to make some positive changes in my life but I don't seem to be making any progress
Q. I cant help but feel like I've dug myself into a bit of a hole over the years. For a while now, I've been wanting to make some positive changes in my life to get myself out of it, but I just don't seem to get anywhere. I find myself drift in and out ...
A. 10 November 2013: Sounds like there are other things at play here.. social anxiety for one. Not saying you do, but quit any porn use... I had an issue with this at your age and it near crippled me. Cut it out completely, it will then be your default behaviour t... (read in full...)
When a man takes longer with sex, does that mean he has had sex recently??
Q. my boyfriend lives away and we see each other ever weekend, when we have sex he usely comes quick, last weekend i had sex with him and he toke longer than normal, i do trust him but i have heard that when a man takes longer it can mean they have ...
A. 20 August 2011: I can only echo what has been said above, but also consider making it special for him too.. that will help!
Also don't hold on so that you both orgasm at the same time (if that's what you are doing)..my ex did this) and it can actually had a ne... (read in full...)
We are mis-matched sexually. How can I resolve this and still keep him in my life?
Q. I'm 22 years old and I am in a relationship where ironically the sterotypical roles are reversed. My boyfriend (25) and I have been dating for a little over two months. Funny how it happend...I was in a 4 year relationship in one place then mov...
A. 20 August 2011: Sounds like he has some issues he is dealing with,
What's his family life like, and at what age did you both move out of his mom's house?
I agree with the other post, tell him no next time he fancies a taste.. claim the power back and have hi... (read in full...)
Is there a place you can touch that turns a girl on?
Q. is there a certain place of a girls body where a guy can touch to turn a girl on? i heard that if you touch a girls thigh or ear they get turned on is there such a place you can touch that turns a girl on?...
A. 28 May 2011: Sorry mate, but women are not as simple and physical as us guys (usually)
Try something different, a gesture that indicates she has attracted your attention.. Ask her questions about her, and slowly blink in an affectionate way.
Besides are y... (read in full...)
Do you tell your partner when you get hit on, find someone attractive, or have a crush?
Q. Do you tend to tell your partner when someone has hit on you or find them attractive? Does the situation make a difference? For example, if your coworker is hitting on you versus the girl in line with you at the checkout? My girlfriend ...
A. 28 May 2011: Rightly or wrongly, in my experience women seem to have these random fancying's.. perhaps she feels secure and nested with you so therefore seeking something alternative for a fantasy.
I guess its down to interpretation.. I personally would ra... (read in full...)
I feel like telling this older woman I work with that I like her, just to get it off my chest!
Q. Hi Im 23 and have a girlfriend that I've had for the past 5 years. Now there is a new older woman (who is single) at work who i get along with great with, now i can't sleep at night or concentrate on anything because i keep thinking about t...
A. 27 May 2011: What is it you want, her looks, experience, another woman in general, or a mother figure?
I have dealt with this before, just had to be honest with myself.
Good luck :)... (read in full...)
Very confused about my marriage. . . . Please give me some insight.
Q. My husand and I have been together since May 2008. We have been off and on until we got married in August 2009. I had a son previous to meeting him, but he's pretty much been a father to my son. We recently had a son in June 2010. Ok, I may not have ...
A. 4 February 2011: I am so sorry to hear this, and I feel disgusted at the way he has treated you.
Your love is the best thing you can give anyone, but I think you need to determine if he is worth it?
How is this situation affecting your kids?
Where possible,... (read in full...)
I don't know if I fit in this relationship anymore?
Q. This is long, so thanks if you read all of this. I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now and we love each other. I am 17 and she is 18. For the first year of our relationship, everything went great. We were two pees in a pod and cou...
A. 4 February 2011: Personally mate, from what you have described I can clearly picture this mother figure and how she would have a negative impact on your girlfriend.
Does your girlfriend have any siblings? Do they act in the same way?
I really think if you too... (read in full...)
A third chance... or a third mistake?
Q. Hi folks, firstly let me attempt to generate a picture of my current relationship... I have been in a very tight relationship with a caring girl for the past 6 years, and I have made sure that I have spent most of my time attempting to pr...
A. 4 February 2011: Sorry I have been away for some time with work.. It was good to get some breathing space and time to think. I want to thank you all for your helpful comments and insight.. it has in many ways validated my feelings. Kind regards... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me a few months ago and I've forgiven him. How do I move forward?
Q. hi my boyfriend cheated on me a few months ago, a girl kissed him and he obviously let her, he did however push her away afterwards. either way it doesnt really matter what happened anymore the point is that im trying to move on, because ive ...
A. 20 October 2009: Hi,
Sorry to hear about this situation.. what were the circumstances of this kiss?
I only ask because I have been on a nightout with my friends at a local bar.. and have been just simply jumped by someone without any warning.
I told my girlf... (read in full...)
I don't know how to approach her...
Q. Hey Friends, I'm 27 and have been in love heaps of times, but I have found the right girl (I think). I hardly know her but she is always on my mind. She is only 24. Is there anything wrong with that? I dont know what to say to her. I believe I...
A. 22 September 2009: I really think an age gap of that amount is usually optimal, as women quite often mature faster than guys, so you being a few years older can benefit here.
Knowing what to say might be hard.. but I would just approach her and ask if she wants to... (read in full...)
I would love to have a boyfriend and have sex...
Q. I'm 24 and I still live at home with my parents and brother. I've not had a boyfriend since I was at school and I am still a virgin. I'm very shy and don't go out much. I would like to have a boyfriend and have sex. What should I do?...
A. 22 September 2009: Perhaps take up a new hobby.. or hit the gym, and see what comes around
I think if your going out with the intention of having sexual intercourse, then you will fall foul of some nasty people out there.
... (read in full...)
Why is it wrong to tell someone that their partner is a cheater?
Q. I have a question I would like views on please. With regard to finding out that a person has been having affairs all their married life........... Why is it so wrong to tell someone that their partner is a lying, cheating so and so? Why is it OK...
A. 22 September 2009: Honestly? I have had to tell a few people about this.. and its never ended up good, infact I have then been hated as the messenger. But I still share the same view as "cheated" originally posted.. I think you need to weigh up the conseque... (read in full...)
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