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What can I take for PMT?

Q.   Anyone suffer from pmt or pmd? For 3 weeks of the month i am as happy as anything, laugh at things, and am so proud of and love my life. One week of the month i feel like dying. My mood is so negative and i could go to bed and stay there til my ...

A.   3 July 2008: I know exactly how you feel. I get terrible pmt and can some months feel suicidal. Unfortunately I have yet to find anything. I have heard that Oil of Evening Primrose is supposed to be good for it, but I found the cost of it off putting.... (read in full...)

How the heck are you supposed to insert this thing?

Q.   i tried to put in a tampon and i followeds the instructions i made sure i was relaxed but it wouldnt go in! i am 14 and i dont know, do i have to try it again or what?? any tips?? thx xxxooo...

A.   18 June 2008: Rather than trying to push it straight up try pushing it back and up. ... (read in full...)

Should females tell their male partners the truth about their sexual past?

Q.   I read loads of questions about this and seen it myself with a freind, Should females not tell their male partners the truth about their sexual past? if they're going to freak out what's the point? My workmate once boasted to me about how many b/f ...

A.   17 June 2008: Unless you have shagged a significant number of people whom your boyfriend is likely to meet (and therefore discover that you have), there's really no point. What counts is what you have together. When I met my partner it was obvious that we ... (read in full...)

My sister's boyfriend kissed me. What should I do?

Q.   im 14 years old. i have a sister that 18 that talks to this guy thats 21. he treats my sister like his own sister. he gets her anything she wants. a couple of days ago he went to my house to see my sister. he told me to stay outside with them. then ...

A.   17 June 2008: He's a sleaze, no two ways about this. You're 14 years old and he's 21 - it's just WRONG. As for you 'really liking this guy' at 14 you unfortunately think that any attention is good attention. Tell your sister because she really needs to know ... (read in full...)

Has my husband blown me out for his son? AmI being selfish?

Q.   I'm really confused, my husband and i live seperately, are still married and still love each other very much. At weekends when my children 15, 12 and 10 go with their dad, i stop over at my hubbys house, we watch Dvds, curl up on the sofa together ...

A.   17 June 2008: I have to say that I agree with Danielepew, this sounds like a really weird set up. He's never stayed at your house because of the dogs? Are the dogs not capable of coming in the car to your house? Have you not introduced your husband to your ... (read in full...)

My man isn't romantic. He just doesn't get it! What do I do?

Q.   DEAR CUPID. my man is not romantic. he is too stiff 4 me. i try many ways to change him but it just inclined a little. he just doesn,t get it. i try giving him pleasure but he doesn't take it to the extent i presume.wat do i do?...

A.   17 June 2008: I'm with the training on this one. If he's a good bloke in every other way - then training is the way to go. I have yet to meet a man that it is natural at romance - and frankly I might find it a bit weird if I did! You just have to make it ... (read in full...)

I recently found out that at the beginning of our relationship my husband was still seeing his ex. Now, even though that is in the past and he is all mine now, I cant seem to forigive him.

Q.   Ok. Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeease someone help me. I desperately need advice, help and some perspective. I got married last month. Before we married, my husband and I were seeing each other for little over a year. My husband is younger than I am. He is...

A.   17 June 2008: You are not over-reacting. I would probably have left him the moment that I found out about the ex. When you say that his parents wouldn't let him marry - in what way could they stop him or even feel that they had any say in the matter? I'm ... (read in full...)

My 40 year old partner has a 21 year old 'friend' that he wont give up and it makes me really unconfortable!

Q.   My partner of 6 years has just finished a Law degree and uni. In his last year he bacame close friend with a girl on his course. She is 21 and he is 40. She has a boyfriend with whom she lives. I looked at his mobile in November of last...

A.   17 June 2008: I have to agree that I would find this behaviour disturbing as well. I think that the first thing you should do is sit down and talk to him. You need to tell him that this is driving you crazy (which he obviously already knows) but that you wan... (read in full...)

How can I improve communication with my girlfriend? Right now it is all a physical relationship, but we need to learn to talk to eachother!

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend about six weeks. Without doubt, what's best about our relationship is the physical aspect. When she is in my arms we seem to melt into one another and my mind floats away. When we wake up together naturally entwined ...

A.   17 June 2008: Well, I think it's great that you are concerned that your relationship develop beyond just the physical. It has only been six weeks so it is early days yet. The most obvious thing to do first is suggest going on dates that will stimulate conversa... (read in full...)

I get depressed about my "small" boobs...

Q.   im 18 and just wondering if my boobs will grow anymore or if im gonna have to wait till i have kids or the next stage of my life? im a size. 12A sometimes 10A and i feel like i have the body of a 14 year old. i was a late developer didnt get my p...

A.   17 June 2008: Don't go for plastic surgery, certainly not at your age. As has been pointed out implants cause problems with breastfeeding, but a radiographer friend of mine has told me that implants can also hide problems such as breast cancer until it is too ... (read in full...)

My ex and I decided that we be friends, but I realised every time we talk I become sad and depressed.

Q.   This is what happened my ex and I just stop talking to each other back in December of 2007 and well I look for him about two months later to talk to him and be friends again. Time has passed after five months later we talked about what had happened ...

A.   16 June 2008: I have to agree with the above. I am good friends with my ex but that is the exception rather than the rule. I think that it is normally very hard for people to be friends after a relationship unless they really have got no lingering feelings, no ... (read in full...)

Help! I Just Dont Trust Him!

Q.   I found out after marrying my husband that he had lied to me about why his first marrage ended,he told me his ex wife had cheated,i found out it was him.He knew before we actually met that i cannot stand people who cheat.Since i have found out i ...

A.   16 June 2008: Just a thought, but if he knew how you felt about cheating before he got with you then maybe he lied about it because he knew he wouldn't stand a chance if he told you. I can completely understand how you feel about this, there is the feeling ... (read in full...)

I split with my partner of 4 years as we fell out of love, now his brother and I are in love, will this cause problems for my daughter?

Q.   i have recently split with my partner of 4 years within that time we had a baby girl who is now 2. for the past 2 years we have been having problems and we fell out of love. since then i have been texting and seeing his brother and have fallen in ...

A.   16 June 2008: How long has it been since you split with the father of your daughter? I can't see anything wrong in your new relationship, but it would probably be best if things could happen slowly enough for it not to be too much of a shock for people or for ... (read in full...)

The affair with a married man emotionally messed me up, should I end it with him?

Q.   I was recently dating a married man....even though i developed strong feelings for this man...i always knew that it was going nowhere....and I never expected much from him..i do feel like i gave more than what i should...but the point is that we got ...

A.   16 June 2008: As long as you are prepared to 'give more than you should' then he will take it. The wanting to apologise is merely an excuse because you still want to see him. I truly believe that you are worth more than what he is prepared to give you - you are ... (read in full...)

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