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*Prissy~
writes:im 14 years old. i have a sister that 18 that talks to this guy thats 21. he treats my sister like his own sister. he gets her anything she wants. a couple of days ago he went to my house to see my sister. he told me to stay outside with them. then suddenly my sister left us alone for two hour. at first we were just talking as friends. then he told me that he liked me and that i was really pretty. then he asked me if i like him. and i told him yes. then he asked me for a kiss. and i gave him one. we both know than if my sister fines out that she is going to get real mad. she only lets me go out with guy that r 17 and younger. she is alway telling me that if she ever fines o that im going with a guy 18 or older she will make sure that he gets locked up. i really like this guy. and he like me. wat should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): just dump him and tell him that we can't do this and get away from him.
don't ever tell your sister and make sure from now on never answer your door for sure!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): point no.1: He is a double crosser...he broke the trust that your sis had on him..
point no.2:He is not complimenting you because you're pretty (and I bet you are [;)] ) but because he's a sick b@$!@^!)...
point no.3:your sis trusts you and is very caring...you are also pretty grown up now...so you should also trust your sis and care for her...
So, tell her immediately what that sick b@$!@^!) is upto..and ask her to break off with him too....
point no.4:Today he's broken her trust, tomorrow he'll break yours.....so, don't have anything to do with that fellow....
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 Hellloooo Jail bait.
i'm sorry. i don't care how pretty you are. or how much you like this guy, or how much he wants to get in your virgin pants.
how can you do this to your sister? she's your family.
you need to grow up, learn the difference between right and wrong, how do you think she is gonna feel when she finds out?
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reader, Brigid +, writes (17 June 2008):
He's a sleaze, no two ways about this. You're 14 years old and he's 21 - it's just WRONG.
As for you 'really liking this guy' at 14 you unfortunately think that any attention is good attention. Tell your sister because she really needs to know that this guy is an utter sleaze.
Until she has given him his marching orders stay well away from him
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 June 2008):
 A 21 year old guy chasing after a 14 year old is a perv. I hope your sister finds out and throws the piece of trash in jail. Your reaction to his pervyness is exactly why we have laws to protect you from yourself and all naive young things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): ur sister is right thats really wrong and im 14 so u should let it go no matter hw much it hurts u hv 2 do 4 ur sisters sake atleast
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Leave him alone. Tell him to leave you alone. Nothing further needs to be said to anyone or by anyone. Problem solved.
Why make it complicated?
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 "i really like this guy. and he like me. "
Sweetie, that's your sister's boyfriend. You need to back away from him and tell her what he did, that's a 7 year age gap and I'm sorry to tell you this, but he probably only wants to mess around.
It's best for both you and your sister to stay away from him.
But do tell your sister what happened; she may be mad at first, but it's better then her finding out through someone else (say, her boyfriend?!?) She doesn't deserve to be hurt, unless you purposely kissed him with that intention.
I hope things work out!
xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): That's a big age gap for someone your age.
I don't think such a secret should be kept from your sister. I think she deserves to know what kind of man she is with.
She'll be mad at him if you tell her, which is perfectly reasonable and expected, she may also be mad with you at first.
I personally think you should tell her what happened. I know you don't want to hurt her, but I think she would be more hurt if she some how found out in the future or if she found out from him and not you.
If you REALLY don't want to do this then all I can suggest is that you tell him to leave you and your sister alone.
Good Luck. x
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