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... Send *obbay123 a private message | | | *obbay123's profile:I'm Bobby. I'm 15 and from the United Kingdom.
I'm one of your every day Teens troubled by love, relationships and situations I get involved in. I probably sound a bit young to more mature users, but I've enjoyed the good aspects of love as much as I've sadly experienced the horrible aspects of love.
I like to seek help, and in return help others in situations I can understand through personal experience.
The relief of giving helpful information feels as good as recieving helpful information. So I like to throw a few suggestions or stories of my own into the Hat so hopefully people can relate to me and hopefully feel more comfortable and understanding on what I'm trying to explain.
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I had sex with the guy I met on line, but he does not know I am a minor as I lied about my real age!
Q. Right this may sound really stupid, and anyone who reads this is going to think I have a very low self estime and no confidence at all. But I used to go on chat rooms quite often, when I was bored or had no one to talk to on msn, and just for fun I ...
A. 2 June 2008: Holiday?... (read in full...)
Did he mean what he said by "someone else being better for me?"
Q. My basic question is an opinion one. Could you turn away someone after they told you that you're the only one they want to be with? And was he really doing me a favour? I have a complicated love life so I might as well start at the beginning. ...
A. 2 June 2008: He sounds like a reasonable guy. He's doing what's best for the both of you. You two can't sustain a controlled and committed relationship so it seems better that the two of you remain friends. I suggest you attempt to move on and keep him ... (read in full...)
I want to sleep with my sister in law!!
Q. I want to f**k my sisterinlaw, but I don't know how to proceed. It's just that she's so sexy!(and sweet) Everywhere she goes she wears a thin, low cut shirt of some time and no bra. I can see her nipples through her shirt. Her boobs are huge. I've ...
A. 2 June 2008: She sounds tempting, and very flirtacious, and I understand that you are sexually attracted to her. But being your Sister-in-Law this not only makes her a family member, but your Brother's Wife. This is very inconsiderate and unfair on your... (read in full...)
I don't like her back!!!
Q. Hi, I'm 15. I've been single for almost 2 years now. My hearts always out to beautiful girls I cant have. But this one girl likes me. She's crazy for me. But I dont like her back. I don't consider her to be my type nor beautiful. I f...
A. 2 June 2008: Thanks guys!
As it happens I haven't really explained in much detail...
I've already taken her aside and said I dont feel the same way, and that I only wish to be friends.
She's all cool with that. But she still likes me, and I know tha... (read in full...)
Should I try and steal this girl from her long distance boyfriend?
Q. I am studying abroad right now and realized I like a girl here. The thing is this girl has a boyfriend. She has been dating him for about 7 months or so, but he moved to another part of the country about 4 months ago. She talks to him a lot, and I ...
A. 2 June 2008: Sounds like she's a tough girl to work out.
Well if she's in a solid long distance relationship and you really dont want to hurt her feelings then I think you should calmly move along, but obviously keep a good grasp on your friendship. In futur... (read in full...)
Does he like me?
Q. Hi im 14 and i don't know what to do! I really like this guy and evertime we go out with our friends hes all flirty and like hugs me sits on my lap gets me to sit on his and like cuddles me and sometimes holds my hand. Does this mean he fancys m...
A. 1 June 2008: I think this changes things slightly.
I think you should try talking to him about who he likes or something.
See what he says and if he asks if you're suggesting anything then you might as well tell him you like him and hope he feels the same. ... (read in full...)
Unrequited Love with an American Girl!
Q. Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat...
A. 1 June 2008: Yeah, I'd like to, but I cant get to your profile, it says error.
You'll have to private message me.... (read in full...)
I cannot work out whether I really do bring out the worst in him and men in general as he said or whether these are signs I should leave!
Q. My boyfriend and I had a really bad argument about our future (there is a lot of pressure surrounding finances and commitment etc)on holiday and it became physical. I threw a cushion at him and he shoved me and I fell on the floor. This hurt my ...
A. 1 June 2008: He sounds like a bad person. Don't stay with him. You love him but he's becoming violent, in such a manner that he's bruising/injuring you. That's not love, that's abuse. You can't let your feelings get in the way of this. You should t... (read in full...)
I had sex with the guy I met on line, but he does not know I am a minor as I lied about my real age!
Q. Right this may sound really stupid, and anyone who reads this is going to think I have a very low self estime and no confidence at all. But I used to go on chat rooms quite often, when I was bored or had no one to talk to on msn, and just for fun I ...
A. 1 June 2008: Well I'd just be honest and explain your feelings.
You went on a chat room but you gave yourself a different name and a different age.
Say you're 16. Let him know that you feel extremely guilty and that you wished you'd have told him sooner.... (read in full...)
Unrequited Love with an American Girl!
Q. Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat...
A. 1 June 2008: HAHA! Thank you for your comments Ale.
Your sense of humour is remarkable.
I doubt she's anywhere near you, but I shan't give away any details or that'd be wrong.
Obviously unless you're willing to say which state you reside from then I... (read in full...)
I'm so love sick over my girl - what do I do?
Q. Ok where to begin i really need advise ive talked to my freinds and ive also talked to family and they all have told me the same thing. I been going out with a girl for almost 2 years now she means the world to me and i can honestly say that i love ...
A. 1 June 2008: I think it's hard to accept this, but things are never gonna be the way they were.
I think things arent going to fix thereselves, and if they did I'd be so happy for you.
It sounds like your mental and physical health is bad at the moment.
I... (read in full...)
Should I try and steal this girl from her long distance boyfriend?
Q. I am studying abroad right now and realized I like a girl here. The thing is this girl has a boyfriend. She has been dating him for about 7 months or so, but he moved to another part of the country about 4 months ago. She talks to him a lot, and I ...
A. 1 June 2008: If you wait it out, you'll probably see a new girl in Uni who you like more, and may completely forget about this girl.
You probably don't like the sound of this, but in the long run it'll probably be better.
I feel that if you told her you... (read in full...)
Girls only see me as a friend...
Q. How odd is it to almost be 23 years old and still not had any real relationships? I am a 23 year old male and relatively good looking, or so I am told by some female friends. The problem is I just don't know how to move from the friendship stage...
A. 1 June 2008: Damn, the friend zone.
I seem too young (15) to know anything but I've been in the friend zone and I'm sure every guy has.
I cant say I figured out how to become boyfriend material rather than best friend material to a girl.
Every day I see... (read in full...)
Two Ridiculous Boys
Q. My problem requires some backstory, so here we go: About a year ago, I told a boy (let's call him Aaron), that I liked him and asked him what he thought about it. Aaron said he was sorry, that he didn't like me in that way and that he had a lo...
A. 1 June 2008: Stay away from them?
They sound like annoying wastes of time.
It sounds like they're playing with your head, and you really dont wanna let them get into your head.
Stay sane, move on, try and get a new boyfriend and enjoy your time with him... (read in full...)
Help my ex has a naked photo of me!
Q. So my ex has a nude photo of me, well he works with me and my current boyfriend. I found out today that he has shown this picture to quite a few people I work with. My boyfriend hasn't found out about it yet, but I want to be the one to tell him. ...
A. 1 June 2008: I know a girl who's had this done to her.
She gave it to him when they were exchanging naked photos with eachother.
They broke up and he spread a picture of her naked all over our school.
She (for some reason) didnt do the same, but I think... (read in full...)
Does he like me?
Q. Hi im 14 and i don't know what to do! I really like this guy and evertime we go out with our friends hes all flirty and like hugs me sits on my lap gets me to sit on his and like cuddles me and sometimes holds my hand. Does this mean he fancys m...
A. 1 June 2008: I'd safely say yes. He's being flirtacious, and boys dont do that for fun.
I've seen girls who do it for fun, but I dont know any guys who do.
I think he does like you. Why not be flirtacious back and see how the relationship develops or how ... (read in full...)
I'm not gorgeous, but I'm not ugly either!
Q. I am 15, and have never had a proper bf. I wouldn't say i am ugly, but i also wouldn't say im drop dead gorgeous either. So what to lads like about girls?...
A. 1 June 2008: Hey. I'm a guy ages 15. I'm not ugly nor really handsome or anything, and I havent had a proper relationship nor Girlfriend. So, I think we're on the same wavelength here. If we are as similar as I think here - then you tend to always fancy so... (read in full...)
Unrequited Love with an American Girl!
Q. Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat...
A. 1 June 2008: Thanks again man, I've been waiting for some replies because your first reply was good but I need a thorough explanation.
I wont go for the MSN approach yet, as ya know, it's not neccessary, but as we go further I'll see if IM will be an easier... (read in full...)
Unrequited Love with an American Girl!
Q. Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat...
A. 1 June 2008: Thank you a-g55.
I appreciate your time for reading and observing my situation.
I understand your thoughts on my reality. But I have searched through myself throughout the year since I met her to find this reality.
I didnt tell myself this s... (read in full...)
I feel very ashamed and dirty after masturbation! Please help!
Q. i'm a female and thirteen years old. ive posted a problem like this before but didnt get much help tbh. the thing is after i masturbate and after i have an orgasm i feel really really ashamed and dirty and i end up hating myself i reakky dont und...
A. 1 June 2008: I think there is a natural feeling of privacy with masturbation. It's not something that, in earlier life, you share with anyone but yourself.
And if anyone intrudes in this then you get a sense of embarrassment perhaps. I do anyway.
Perhaps... (read in full...)
Do you think I am frigid?
Q. Well im 17 and my girlfriend is 16, i cant seem to pluck up the couraage to kiss her. We hold hands and she will get close to me in the cinema, but we have only kissed once (when i was drunk and she was not) we've been going out for 6 months now do ...
A. 1 June 2008: You may be like me. Have you not kissed many girls in your life? If so, you're similar to me.
I'm not like most teens in my school.
Half of them have already lost their virginity. The girls at least.
A few years back it was 'the thing... (read in full...)
How do you feel when you fall in love?
Q. How do you feel when you fall in love? Do you feel sweaty, nervous, excited, overwhelmed? When someone says to you that they romantically love you, do you think they truly mean it? Romantic love is quite complex. It is the feeling in your brain that ...
A. 1 June 2008: When nervous or embarrassed I fidget.
When shy I kinda stay quiet, make little eye contact and sometimes find silly conversation with someone else to boost my confidence back.... (read in full...)
How do you get over the heartache?
Q. how do u get over someone who u liked for 3yrs more than life? Someone who rejected you in a extremely nice way but u can't get over it. Someone who comes in ur dreams every nite? Someone pictures u luk at every nite. Someone u wish u saw everday ...
A. 1 June 2008: Dude, I've suffered the exact same feelings.
It's unrequited love, and it hurts.... Bad!
Sometimes, as hard as it is to accept - you have to let go of them.
I did, and finally I realised her game. She wanted me back, I realised she had lead ... (read in full...)
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