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writes:I am 15, and have never had a proper bf. I wouldn't say i am ugly, but i also wouldn't say im drop dead gorgeous either. So what to lads like about girls? Reply to this Question
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reader, bobbay123 +, writes (1 June 2008):
Hey. I'm a guy ages 15. I'm not ugly nor really handsome or anything, and I havent had a proper relationship nor Girlfriend.So, I think we're on the same wavelength here.If we are as similar as I think here - then you tend to always fancy someone who's way outa your league, and doesn't like you back.If so, I cant explain what to do.I gotta say all guys like different things, but as a Teenager, there are certain aspects of a girl that a guy seeks for: Breasts, Ass, Looks and Personality. Not particularly in that order.It can be hard work, but being flirtacious can wake up a guy in 2 seconds - and you're in. So.... give it a try. That's all I can offer at this moment in time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): Best thing is to be yourself, and find someone that likes you for who you are. There are so many people out there that like so many different things. You will be happiest if you can express yourself freely.As far as general looks. I usually like a girl with dark hair, and believe it or not boobs really aren't a big deal for me. Many people find so many things sexually attractive.Personality. Thats a biggie. I haven't had many girlfriends but I know that personality is how you keep a boyfriend. Looks can help initially, but personality is what is important. Coming from a guy, the things I like are nice girls. Also open minded and easy going. Usually helps if we have a couple interests in common. Not to mention, I like a girl that pushes me a bit. Don't know how to explain it. But it is basically a feeling where I try harder either to impress her or just because I know she believes in me so I have the ability to do better.Ah btw, your 15. At this age no one really knows what they want yet. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 16. I had some of her friends ask me if I would go out with her. I really liked her and we were friends for years before, so of course I said yes, I was just to shy to say it myself. But although she was my girlfriend we basically were just close friends. Don't rush into a physical relationship just yet. Make friends, and if there is someone you like try to hang out with them a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): Different guys like different things. Just be yourself and then when you do get a boyfriend, you'll be well suited and you'll be more likey to have a happy and content relationship.
Good Luck. X
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reader, Albion28 +, writes (1 June 2008):
I could be crude but you deserve a proper answer. You're lucky. You're a girl. A girl can always have a boyfriend if she wants them. I've seen women who I'm sure are far more unattractive than you walk out of parties and clubs with a cloud of men buzzing around them. It's really not about looks. Sure, men will always flock to the girl with the big boobs or the barely-there skirt but there is one thing that all the most attractive women have, no matter what they look like.Confidence. Don't shrink. Don't hide but don't be loud and obnoxious either. Dress in something you like and walk into a room, tall and proud, make sure everyone catches your eye and speak from the heart and you'll have every boy there eating out of your hand. I have a friend who matches your description of not-gorgeous but not ugly either and she is able to seduce gay men, straight women and every variation in between simply because she has confidence in herself.What do lads like about girls? Girls who like themselves.
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reader, Ashford angel +, writes (1 June 2008):
i think there is someone out there for anyone. Lads like different things some may like girls with blue eyes while others go for personality. I don't think anyone would know the answer to that one.
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reader, notinthesane  +, writes (1 June 2008):
 I never had a boyfriend until I was sixteen years old and I would not consider myself ugly at all. I wouldnt really worry about it all that much. It's not even really about how you look, although it helps to look nice. It's really all about personality and confidence. Dont be afraid to start a convo with someone you don't know. Make a joke or give a compliment just to break the ice and let people know youre there and you are friendly. Believe it or not, even though it's mostly expected for guys to make the first move, they are usually pretty damn nervouse and it helps to show that you aren't going to chew their head off for talking to you. Good Luck!
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