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I don't think he wants a divorce but he wants his freedom

Q.   My husband left me for another women but came back. He was with her for 18 months. I was devastated and profoundly affected. Our marriage wasn't perfect but we had been together for 22 years. We both had a hand in it but I never would hav betrayed ...

A.   5 June 2017: He doesn't remember texting his mistress at 1 am in the morning? REALLY? So...all of a sudden he has amnesia. He wants his freedom, but he doesn't want a divorce? In other words he wants you to grant him a license so he can fool around with oth... (read in full...)

Does anyone else have friends that don't care about you?

Q.   I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but has anyone ever dealt with bad friends? It seems like the friends I make only care about themselves. I don't want to go on a rant but ever since I was a child I have not had many friends. ...

A.   19 October 2014: Nice...YES, but, stupid...NO!!! All I can say is that you are a hidden jewel. A diamond in a rough. A gift from heaven. So, please don't ever change...EVER!! "Character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you" BTW...tha... (read in full...)

Do I ask her if she likes me or just move on?

Q.   There is this girl, and to make it short, I feel as if she stole my heart an never gave it back. Therefore it's really hard for me to be open to feel anything for anyone else. I told her I like her but she reacted in the way I figured she woul...

A.   19 October 2014: Do "NOT" ask her if she likes you. Don't do that...EVER!! She will let you know in her own way and in her own time. In the meantime, relax; have fun with her (and other girls); and go SLOW. If you play it right, she will come to you and it w... (read in full...)

Is he interested in me and if so how do I let him know I'm interested too?

Q.   Hey guys, basically I am not sure if this guy likes me. I've never had a boyfriend before and never really had a "crush" on anyone until recently. I started uni two months ago and that's when I met him - through a society. I'm ridiculously shy which ...

A.   12 November 2012: I'm a guy so I'm not qualified to give you flirting advice, but I know one thing is for sure....HE LIKES YOU!! So...go ask him out. Who said that guys ALWAYS have to be the first to ask a girl out? In fact, guys nowadays are totally turned o... (read in full...)

Boyfriend going through existential crisis. How Can I Help him & Our Relationship?

Q.   I don't know where to begin...well my boyfriend and I have been together for just over 2 years. Everything has been amazing, he's everything I've ever wanted in a guy and so much more. We have talked about a future together, getting married, kids, ...

A.   12 November 2012: I'm not sure, but it seems he is going through a "Spiritual Awakening". There are many who are experiencing this and I am not talking about organized religion. It is sort of like a mid-life crisis, but it is not. The fact that he is question... (read in full...)

Any tips for my first date? Should I kiss her?

Q.   I have been asked if i want to go for drinks with this girl. We known each other for years (we dont speak just by face) until recently. Shes also come on cam and i noticed was trying to get me to notice her assets. We spoken a bit now. Any tips for...

A.   11 November 2012: What?!...No...Take it slow. When it comes to relationships, it is always better to be a slow roasting fire then a microwave. Be a challenge, but most of all RESPECT her!! Just because a girl is interested or flirts with you doesn't give you a li... (read in full...)

Broken up with her while deployed. She says I gave her too little too late. But why is she keeping my stuff, and should I have no contact with her or text her on her upcoming birthday?

Q.   Apologize for the length of this...Currently I am on deployment and won't be home for about 6 months. I met my ex girlfriend about 2 years and a few months ago. When I first started dating her I wanted to take things slow. I had been in another ...

A.   11 November 2012: If there is one thing I've learned about women is that...damn if you do and damn if you don't. They obviously do not think like us left brain rational thinking men, and I'm not saying this in a condescending way. It just is. If it was me, ... (read in full...)

I did something with my boyfriend I wasn't comfortable with because I don't know how to say no. Any advice? What should I have done? How can I say no?

Q.   A couple days ago I was hanging out with a couple of my friends, and my boyfriend at school durring lunch. He wispered "I love you" in my ear then lead me out to a secluded place neer the edge of school field. We were just making out, and he went to ...

A.   11 November 2012: Honestly...a person who truly loves you would not "force" you to do anything that you do not want to do. I think the next time he puts your hand in his pants, you should grab his penis and yank it off, because he does not deserve to have one ... (read in full...)

Is it illegal in California for an 18 year old to romantically kiss a 16 year old?

Q.   I'm over 18 years old and live in California. I'm dating a guy who's 16 years old and we've been dating for almost a year. I was wondering if kissing him in an obvious sexual way (meaning not like a mother would kiss a child, but more like lovers ...

A.   11 November 2012: No...i have heard no laws concerning underage kissing, but there are many states that prohibit underage sexual contact. ... (read in full...)

Does he actually like me? Or is it nothing...? 

Q.   For convenience, I will call the guy T and the friend G. There is this guy called T who goes to my uni and we are both in the same year and on the same course. We got to know each other at the beginning of October through a party, nothing happened...

A.   11 November 2012: Honestly...I think he only wants to get into your pants. I hope I'm wrong, but it sure sounds like it. All I can say is to use your intuition and I have a feeling that you already know the answer. Most men of this caliber will treat you like s... (read in full...)

What should I do? Ask her out? Tell her I like her?

Q.   I met this girl online as I moved and didn't know anyone in the area. we got chatting and got to know each other really well and we have very similar interests in music, art etc. she's 17 and I'm 19 so I don't see anything wrong plus she turns 18 ...

A.   11 November 2012: If you like her, I think you should just ask her out. If at all possible, use non-verbal cues to suggest your interest in her - at least in the beginning. There are many ways to do this. Use the ones that fit your persona and most of all....be ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend moved away to attend school and I have become depressed

Q.   My boyfriend moved away for schooling. He is about 3-4 hours away. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. We have been dating for about 5 months. He mostly went to make sure that we had a nice future together like nice house, wedding ...

A.   11 November 2012: "Love is like a butterfly. If you chase it, it will fly away; but if you keep still, it will land quietly on your lap." If there is anything I've learned in this life, it would be that "Happiness and Love" can never be found outside of ourse... (read in full...)

Should I stay where my parents are or go where I will be happy?

Q.   I am in my late 30's my child has recently moved to her dads in a diffrent city, my dad is in stage 5 alzheimers still being taking care by my mom. I have a great job only in the summers but the winters I am bored and on U.I. My long time freind ...

A.   25 November 2010: I once told my children that if for any reason i should fall ill, I would never want or expect them to ever have a conscience that they needed to care for me. For one thing, I have lived my life. It may not be 100% what i expected, but it was still ... (read in full...)

How to deal with my ex?

Q.   Here's my long story, about a year ago I met the most wonderful person through an online game. We connected immediately and our relationship soon developed quickly into a romantic one. We lived 5 hours by flight away from each other but in the ...

A.   25 November 2010: I think you already know what your answer should be, but your mind is telling you otherwise...and there lies the confusion. Listen to your intuition. What is it telling you? Our ego constantly wants us to hold on and fight, but that's really ... (read in full...)

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