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Want to be skinny

Q.   i want to get skinny im uk size 8 or 10 but feel really fat i hate my body and need some confidence i have always been a bit chubby and always upset at my body i want to be petit i hate being curvy i find it so unatracctive and fat help me get ...

A.   30 August 2012: GP's are legally bound by legislation to keep it private if that's what you want- so they won't tell your parents- although it might be best to tell them- your parents only have your best interests at heart :)... (read in full...)

I Had a Dream about One of My Best Friends. What Should I do? Am I Lesbian?

Q.   Ok a while a go I posted a question that about how I'm struggling with my sexuality. I have been for years. I have had thoughts about girls and fantisised before but last night I had a dream about a close friend of mine I had a crush on her when I ...

A.   30 August 2012: You are still young and you're just a little confused about your sexuality. You should try not to put labels on your sexuality- if you are attracted to someone or have fallen for their personality you should go for it regardless of their gender. ... (read in full...)

Should I sponsor the guy I like at work for his charity event or will this make me look too keen?

Q.   There is a guy I really like at work; we chat, he says hello, offers to get me drinks etc and is generally nice to me. I have told a few people I think he's cool but I dont know if he knows. I can't work out whether he's being polite or whether he ...

A.   29 August 2012: You are definately over-analysing the situation! Sponsor the guy! It shows you have an interest in what he's doing and also tell him that you're a kind hearted and generous person! Dont beat around the bush - life is too short! There is only one way ... (read in full...)

Very very confused about an old flame.

Q.   Hi all, it's been a while since I posted on here, but I really need some help/clearance. I used to casually date a guy for about 5 months (we were never together) when I first started dating him he had just been dumped by his long term girlfriend. I ...

A.   29 August 2012: Everyone always imagines past relationships/dates through rose-tinted glass- the reality is that your time with this guy probably wasnt as nice as you think you remember! Afterall he did mess you around for 5 months before telling you he wasnt ready ... (read in full...)

Want to be skinny

Q.   i want to get skinny im uk size 8 or 10 but feel really fat i hate my body and need some confidence i have always been a bit chubby and always upset at my body i want to be petit i hate being curvy i find it so unatracctive and fat help me get ...

A.   29 August 2012: Its shocking that you think size 8-10 is 'fat' or even remotely 'chubby'! It is the weight most girls would love to be! You need to learn to love your body- and realise that you are in perfect shape- and far from being fat!! I would recommend that ... (read in full...)

His text/phone friendship with his ex torments me...

Q.   Right so a girl my boyfriend had an on/off thing with before me, is back in contact with my bf, phone/text wise. My bf and I have discussed this and he said he just wants her friendship, nothing else. Now, this is fine, but obviously it's always on ...

A.   17 December 2009: If im honest, why would he want her friendship? It is not very common for a person to have a friendship with their 'Ex' Or someone who they've had some sort of romantic relationship with. I think you should ask your boyfriend outright why he wants ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her how I feel? Her ex is a best friend and I don't want to lose him because of this either

Q.   ok so I've known him for 4 years now. her for 2 maybe. I actually met her because of him. they've been going out since then but broke up just recently. all through those 2 years I think I may had some small on and off feelings for her. now that they...

A.   12 April 2009: Look, i think you should maybe talk to your friend about it. After all what can he say ? They broke up, his ties with her have been cut ,shes no longer his.. so i say talk to him about it. I know its difficult but if hes a good mate, thats worth ... (read in full...)

Do I tell my boyfriend I was raped?

Q.   Do I tell my boyfriend I was raped? I have been dating a guy for 3 months now and I have not told him that I was raped 8 years ago and that is also the only time I have had sex, not sure what happened as I was unconcious most of the night so I also ...

A.   19 October 2008: Babe, Don't ever feel ashamed or embarrased! Yes you should tell your boyfriend he WILL understand. Of course you haven't had any other sex, probably because of the fact that it would be hard on you after that terrible ordeal. But believe me tell ... (read in full...)

Boy "A" doesn't know a thing about boy "B"... who should I choose?

Q.   Hi, I've got myself in a dilemma I never thought I'd really dump myself in, but I'm stuck and need encouraging words and advice to help me out..! I met two guys on holiday earlier this year, one I was with on holiday and got to know a bit (b...

A.   19 October 2008: Well then babe !! Have abit of fun!! lol Whos stopping you? It'll be a chance to Get To Know them Both alot better the times you meet up! And just let fate decide ...! Good Luck xxxx... (read in full...)

I really fancy my close friend's boyfriend!

Q.   There is this super hot and sexy boy that I like. He plays soccer and has good grades and did I mention that he is hot? Well I really like him and he knows it and I also happen to know that he likes me. There's one problem, he has a girlfriend and ...

A.   19 October 2008: Babe, just don't go there. He may seem perfect but imagine how you'd feel if you were going out with him and lost your virginity to him and then he did this to you? How would you feel if he went behind your back with your close friend? Cause the ... (read in full...)

If I don't agree to be her guardian my sister will go into foster care...

Q.   My sister (who's 3) was being abused by our parents. To cut a long story short child services called me asking if wanted to be her guardian or she'll be in foster care. I thought about it and her don't want my sister living with brunch of strangers ...

A.   19 October 2008: Let Her Be Fostered Babe, I know this sounds sooo bad and she'll be soo mad at you for it when she's older but what choice do you have? 1. You're only baisically a kid yourself! 2. You're a truck driver, this is your job, how else would you ... (read in full...)

What can I say when I meet her for the first time to give a better impression of myself?

Q.   Dear all, I am going to be meeting this girl for the first time in the near future. Background: Found her a few weeks before I started university on Facebook. She was starting at the same time as me and we had some similar interests. I start...

A.   19 October 2008: The best thing to do is meet somewhere nice and quiet, so you find it easier to communicate and talk but also somewhere with a few distractions to bail you out if it gets way too awkward. Let her know how you're feeling (about being awkward about ... (read in full...)

She enjoys sex in public!

Q.   She likes the thrill of having sex in public and won't have sex with me in the comfort of our own home I get a thrill as well but sometimes I love to be at home so we can cuddle and lay with each other after sex.... I'm not asking for too much am ...

A.   19 October 2008: Babe, she has to try things you wanna do as well! sex is a two-way street!! You suggest something you wanna do and if she doesn't do it tell her public sex is a no-go! She'll soon be seeing things your way! Good luck xxx!!... (read in full...)

I WANT to cheat on my girlfriend...

Q.   We've been together for 3 years and I love her... but the love could be "stronger." I have a great emotional relationship with my girlfriend and she rocks my world when it comes to physical sex. She gives me everything I desire in bed and we love ...

A.   19 October 2008: Okay. I'm trying not to be nasty here but like give the girl a break!! After 3 years of a relationship any girl would like to believe that their boyfriend would love them enough not to care if they put on a bit of weight!! And maybe the reason she's ... (read in full...)

Boy "A" doesn't know a thing about boy "B"... who should I choose?

Q.   Hi, I've got myself in a dilemma I never thought I'd really dump myself in, but I'm stuck and need encouraging words and advice to help me out..! I met two guys on holiday earlier this year, one I was with on holiday and got to know a bit (b...

A.   19 October 2008: Babe..Take The Risk! If you like boy A then be with him!! Sooner or later something will happen where they find out you're messing them about and then you'll end up with niether of them! Boy A seems good for you, so just let boy B down gently! ... (read in full...)

Why do I still dream about him?

Q.   Dreams, I know this will sound strainge but almost twenty yrs ago i had a scret love. he was married i was young, we both moved on. after all these years I still dream of him and even from my dreams he still makes my heart race like nothing else. ...

A.   19 October 2008: What advice is there? It's a good memory and a happy dream so I wouldn't do anything about it if I were you!! We all have one person in our lives (even if we don't end up with them) that made our heart race! And sometimes it's a good thing to be ... (read in full...)

Should I return my ex-bf calls?

Q.   My ex-bf and I broke up a month ago. I want him back but he did not want to, he said just want to be friends. He called me several times before but we ended up arguing. Last time he called we were okay. He called me again yesterday, I did not pick ...

A.   19 October 2008: No Babe, You Should Get Out There And Get Yourself Someone New, Hes Only Messing You About. Maybe You Had Something With Him Once But That Ended When Your Relationship Ended. So Make It Clear That You Are JUST FRIENDS And If He Doesnt Except This ... (read in full...)

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