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30-35,
*ittle DrummerGirl10
writes:Ok a while a go I posted a question that about how I'm struggling with my sexuality. I have been for years. I have had thoughts about girls and fantisised before but last night I had a dream about a close friend of mine I had a crush on her when I was 12 and it didnt last too long (I'm 20 now). In my dream we were just talking and then we began to fight (I can't remember about what)Then all of a sudden we pause and she grabs me and kisses me! and It felt real and I felt a spark! Then we just look at each other for a moment like "what just happened?" then I kiss her. But I don't stop. I push her to the wall and we make out until I wake up. I Don't know what I should do! I've never had a real dream like that about anyone boy or girl. I had 1 dream I had kissed a boy i dated a while ago but it was just a peck and it turned out I really just didnt have any feelings like that for him. Idk what I am (gay, bi, confused?). I've been attracted to guys and girls but theres something just... missing I think with guys. But idk what it is I've been physically attracted to guys, but penises gross me out. I think it's emotional attraction but I have fallen in love with a guy for his personallity. But My emotional attraction to girls is way 'stronger' I think. This friend knows i've been struggling with this. Should I tell her about my dream?
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reader, BLONDII3  +, writes (30 August 2012):
 You are still young and you're just a little confused about your sexuality. You should try not to put labels on your sexuality- if you are attracted to someone or have fallen for their personality you should go for it regardless of their gender. You're only young- give yourself time to experiment and have fun! As for telling your friend about your dream- you risk creating an awkward situation within your friendship if she does not feel the same about you. Are you ready to risk you're friendship for the chance of a relationship with this girl? Only you can answer that. Maybe you should try dating other girls/guys if you aren't willing to risk your friendship. However if you think she feels the same go for it! Hope all works out for you! :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): Just because you dream something doesn't mean it apply's to the real world. You feel this way in general though so i think you should see for yourself first hand, but i wouldn't tell your friend of the dream as the response could be anything. Find a dating site and try, be sure the person knows that they can't expect too much as your experimenting, that it's more of a fling for now.
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