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*CLTB13
writes:Hi,I've got myself in a dilemma I never thought I'd really dump myself in, but I'm stuck and need encouraging words and advice to help me out..!I met two guys on holiday earlier this year, one I was with on holiday and got to know a bit (boy A), the other I got his number and I only started chatting to once I'd got home (boyB).Since I've been back I've met both guys quite a few times in clubs and out and about and been speaking to both almost every day. I slept with one on holiday (boy A)and once since I've been back, then I ended up sleeping with the other as well (boy B), but haven't slept with boy A since I slept with boy B, because I won't let myself be sleeping with both boys.. because I feel that's not right at all, and also not safe.But I also know it's not right to be talking to both and leading them on if nothing is going to happen, but yes, I do like both, very much. I've been trying to weigh up the positives and negatives and I do feel I'd rather be with boy A in the long run, but because I see so many positives in boy B, I just can't let him go!! :-(I wouldn't know what to say to him, and I'd feel if it didn't work with boy A then I screwed up..! :-(I have so much fun when I'm with both, but as soon as I'm on my own I stress myself out thinking who I prefer!!...Help Me..! x x
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reader, BLONDII3 +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Well then babe !! Have abit of fun!! lol Whos stopping you? It'll be a chance to Get To Know them Both alot better the times you meet up! And just let fate decide ...! Good Luck xxxx
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reader, JCLTB13 +, writes (19 October 2008):
JCLTB13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd they both live quite far away from me as well... so I can't occupy my time with just one, some weekends one boy is free to come visit me or come clubbing and the other isnt free for a while, then the other will contact me and want to meet up.. so it's hard to say no to one when I cant focus on the other one because I know I won't see them for a while.. argh! lol!x
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reader, BLONDII3 +, writes (19 October 2008):
Babe..Take The Risk! If you like boy A then be with him!! Sooner or later something will happen where they find out you're messing them about and then you'll end up with niether of them! Boy A seems good for you, so just let boy B down gently! Plus, if things don't always work out with boy A then at least you'll still have someone who you can turn to =]! xxx
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