Am I losing feelings for him?
Q. Hey all, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months now, it's both our longest relationship to date. I am particularly proud of that achievement but things have ground to a halt. I hardly ever see him now, what was once 2 or 3 times a wee...
A. 14 August 2007: Thanks again, saw him yesterday and figured out he is worth every minute I have to wait for him. Had a long talk, got all my feelings out and apologised for worrying him. Tomorrow we are going out for a coffee or a drink before he comes down mine, ... (read in full...)
I felt angry and jealous that he might want to look at a bunch of naked women with plastic jugs!
Q. I got pissed off at my boyfriend for glancing at a strip club when we were driving to dinner, is this psycho jealous of me? We've been seeing each other for 6 months and I've finally come around to accepting that he may look at other girls from ...
A. 13 August 2007: I think you are over reacting a tad, jealousy usually happens when a person is insecure about themselves or their relationship. You won't get over your jealousy until you confront your insecurities and talk them over with your boyfriend, if he is ... (read in full...)
I really like him and want to go round but I'm scared I get caught, what should I do?
Q. Me and this lad have been texting for about a week now and he is 27 and I am 18, my mam is going on holiday on Wednesday and he wants me to go to his (I can't let my mam know I am texting him, she wouldn't approve at all) I really like him and want ...
A. 13 August 2007: You are 18 and legally an adult. While your mum may not approve, it is ultimatly your decision. However, being 20 myself and a generally untrusting person, I wouldn't go to this guy's house on my own after a week of texting him, I'd meet him for ... (read in full...)
I've been blindsided and just end up getting in terrible moods constantly because I want him, just not with a cigarette in his hand...
Q. I'm only seventeen, but I have been dating my current boyfriend for eight months. He isn't what you would call the perfect "bring home to meet mom" kind of guy but he's very sweet. The only problem is he smokes cigarettes. Now to most people this ...
A. 13 August 2007: I am in the same situation, just opposite roles. I'm the smoker, he's not. To start with he tried to get me to stop, even threatening to break up with me. That just annoyed me, I don't want to stop and I am certainly not going to stop for someone ... (read in full...)
Am I losing feelings for him?
Q. Hey all, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months now, it's both our longest relationship to date. I am particularly proud of that achievement but things have ground to a halt. I hardly ever see him now, what was once 2 or 3 times a wee...
A. 13 August 2007: Thank you, Eve. As a quick update, I swallowed my fear and text him earlier today after he told me he wouldn't be around till wednesday. What I said was 'I am scared because I am not bothered if I see you or not anymore. I am confused because I ... (read in full...)
I just don't know what to say to her and whether or not I want to keep on with this friendship. What to do?
Q. I have an issue with my "closest" friend. I've known her for a year but we're really close. She always tells me about her problems and depression and I'm always there to listen and keep her company. Now she's made friends with her coworkers and is ...
A. 12 August 2007: Unfortunatly when we lean on a friend when we are depressed, we tend to associate these feelings with that person. It sounds like she may not want to hang out with you because she associates you with venting about her depression. A way to rememdy ... (read in full...)
She masturbates to gay movies and says it's normal but I find it weird
Q. Recently my girlfriend who Ive been seeing for 8 months moved in with me. Everything was fine until just over a week ago I discovered that she downloads movies to masturbate to that have scenes in them where 2 men are having sex! She doesnt download ...
A. 12 August 2007: It is down to the individuals own choice, lots of men and women like porn. Just as lots of men and women don't like their partners looking at porn or their choice of porn.
You can't stop her, and you shouldn't. What you need to decide is if this ... (read in full...)
Mum and I are not getting Along.!!
Q. My mum and I are ot getting along at all. I dont know what to do any more. I am 21, my bro is 4yrs younger and my older sis is 2yrs. I help around the house etc as much as I can, more than my siblings. My mum is on her own and I seem to get the ...
A. 12 August 2007: It may be she takes it out on you coz there is no one else but you need to talk to her. Tell her that you do your best to help her out but you have a life to get on with as well. If that doesn't work, then getting a new place and branching out on ... (read in full...)
I flashed my behind to a boy on webcam and he took a photo; now everyone's seen it!
Q. i did something wrong it embarasing! i flashed on webcam [my bottom] the boy took a photo and sent it round my friends whom sent it onto other friends and later that week everone had seen it and theres this one person who stillh as it and is sen...
A. 12 August 2007: Well you could say to this person that if they don't delete it, you will contact the police. That may be enough to scare them in to getting rid of the photo. If they don't, then go to the police station and make a complaint about this person keeping ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over my Summer romance?
Q. A year ago i was going out with this guy that i met in new york. We met each othr during the summer but we lived in diffrent states. The thing is. . .its been over a year now and im still not over him! I think about him everyday! Why??...
A. 12 August 2007: Are you guys still in contact? That may be why. But if not, then you are infatuated with a fantasy. Holiday romances are in the top ten female fantasies. Your best bet is to do something to get your mind off him, take up a hobby or get a job. This ... (read in full...)
This may sound silly, but is keeping your undergarments on a safe contraceptive device?
Q. hay, this has been bugging me foe a long time, if u makeout with just your undergarments on, can you get pregent????...
A. 12 August 2007: Depends what you mean by making out......in England, making out is a prolonged deep kissing session. You can't get pregnant from that.
But if making out to you means sex or heavy petting then it is possible. By heavy petting I mean you touching... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is struggling with the condom! Could it be because he's nervous?
Q. hi,me and my bf are ready to have sex we have been going out for quite a while now and he has asked me many times to make sure im fine with going through with it as its going to be the first time for both of us so i know he wants to,he is always the ...
A. 12 August 2007: For starters, you are underage, so make sure you are actually ready. As for the condom problem, yes, he still could be nervous and seeing as you are asking from the uk, you could both go to a Brook centre, or Abacus and talk about how to over come ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and i broke up, then got together again... now he's obsessed with sex!
Q. My Boyfriend and I of six years recently had a huge fight we broke up and everything. Well, we made up finally and were working things out. about 2 months ago I mentioned in passing that maybe we could have Sex. And sense then thats all he wants ...
A. 12 August 2007: Wow, this guy sure doesn't respect you if he is threatening you. You deserve better, you deserve a guy who will respect your hang ups about sex, and help you work through them. Break it off with him for good if he won't take no for an answer, and ... (read in full...)
Am I losing feelings for him?
Q. Hey all, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months now, it's both our longest relationship to date. I am particularly proud of that achievement but things have ground to a halt. I hardly ever see him now, what was once 2 or 3 times a wee...
A. 11 August 2007: Thanks for the responses. We do text each other everyday and I make the effort to ring on occasion. He is a Cancer and I am a Taurus.
I think I will wait till I see him again, should be monday, see how I feel.
Thanks again.... (read in full...)
Should I try and be in a relationship with him, or should I just keep it on a friends only level?
Q. I have had this friend for 3 years. A year ago I moved, and he was one of the few friends to stay in contact with me. We started having feelings for each other and when a month before I moved back he asked me out. So... we were together for 2 ...
A. 11 August 2007: He does sound a bit immature when it comes to relationships, he seemed to panic when he realised getting a girlfriend doesn't mean you stop finding other girls attractive. Try to make sure he understands that it's ok as long as you don't act on it ... (read in full...)
I've got a problem with attention seeking!
Q. hi there, im rebecca and i think i have an attention seeking problem and ive done so much for attention! and i cant stop myself and its getting a little out of control... like pretending to sleep walk! and saying im ill i really d...
A. 11 August 2007: Attention seekers usualy have a self esteem problem, they feel that people won't come and see them because they want to, they have to have a reason to. Rebecca, you need to work on your self esteem, going to a counseller might help as you work... (read in full...)
He annoys me sometimes, is this right?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I love him more than anything and we have so much fun together. I am starting to worry that I am falling out of love with him though because I go through times when everything about him ...
A. 11 August 2007: Are you disgusted because he is drunk? not brushed his teeth? If so then that is a different issue that you'll have to bring up with him. If it is because you are annoyed with him, then just say 'Sorry, hun, in a bad mood, just let me read my ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for a boy, but he keeps saying no.
Q. I have a really big problem. I have fallem for this boy and we have conversations over the internet. He is quite close to me as a friend aswell. he goes to the same school as me and i have asked him if he will go out with me but he keeps saying he ...
A. 11 August 2007: Yeah, you will find out that nice boys will say 'I'll think about it' and other distracting phrases just to spare your feelings. I know it won't be much comfort, but this proves he is a nice guy and probably a worthwhile friend. Friends are always ... (read in full...)
I feel i'm being pressured into sex.
Q. hi there, i think im being pressured into sex! i mean im only young! and i have my periods and dont realy want too do it but im scared he will brake up with me i have asked him if he would mind if we didnt do it so soon and he went offline!...
A. 11 August 2007: Probably, any guy that has a problem with you not being ready for sex doesn't respect you and is ultimatly going to hurt you. Let's not forget it is also illegal for you to have sex till your 16 anyway, so don't throw your virginity away. So many ... (read in full...)
I don't know how i feel anymore.
Q. OKay well I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we have lived together for 1 and a half and we have been fighting alot lately. I dont want to be intimate with him at this moment. But this is so sudden, a couple weeks ago we were fine. Am I fed ...
A. 11 August 2007: Take a shopping trip or night out with your girlfriends, get some space, as much as you need. You'll soon figure out if you are fed up or not, just don't stay in a relationship based on the past. A sudden change might mean something has ch... (read in full...)
Was this RAPE?
Q. Around 10 months ago I was out with an old friend from school and she met 2 of her friends which were 2 lads that I did not really know but had seen around the area a couple of times. They got pretty drunk and at first I didn't touch any drink but ...
A. 11 August 2007: It was rape in every definition of the word, not only did you say no, you weren't in a fit state to make that decision if you had said yes. They changed the rape laws over here in the UK recently, to protect people who get drunk and forced to do ... (read in full...)
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