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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi,me and my bf are ready to have sex we have been going out for quite a while now and he has asked me many times to make sure im fine with going through with it as its going to be the first time for both of us so i know he wants to,he is always the one who comes on to me but he never seems to be able to stay hard once he has a condom on and although i dont mind too much its rather frustrating once your in the mood,have you got any tips on how this problem can be overcome? could it be because hes still nervous?
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reader, Blackruby +, writes (12 August 2007):
For starters, you are underage, so make sure you are actually ready. As for the condom problem, yes, he still could be nervous and seeing as you are asking from the uk, you could both go to a Brook centre, or Abacus and talk about how to over come this with trained sexual health professionals. It's all confiedential so don't worry about that.
If it turns out he can't stay hard because he doesn't like condoms, then that's ok. There are other things you can do, you could go on the pill or the implant, but you should both be checked for STDS before you start sleeping together.
The most important thing is to make sure you are both protected from an unwanted pregnancy and an even more unwanted infection. I recommend going to your local sexual health centre to discuss things, they are non-judgemental and extremely supportive.
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