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writes:I have a really big problem. I have fallem for this boy and we have conversations over the internet. He is quite close to me as a friend aswell. he goes to the same school as me and i have asked him if he will go out with me but he keeps saying he will think about it, but i know its just an excuse so he doesn't have to say no. I really am in love with him, and he is my first love...Please help me, im getting very upset over this!
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reader, Blackruby +, writes (11 August 2007):
Yeah, you will find out that nice boys will say 'I'll think about it' and other distracting phrases just to spare your feelings. I know it won't be much comfort, but this proves he is a nice guy and probably a worthwhile friend. Friends are always better to have than partners when you are younger anyway. He'll be the one coming round with the ice cream when a boy hurts you, and you'll appreciate that so much.
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reader, Reebe +, writes (11 August 2007):
 I know it's hard but it does seem that this boy just wants to be friends with you, maybe he's not ready to go out with someone.
You have asked him straight out if he wants to go out with you and he's not answerng because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
I would accept that this boy, just wants to be your friend and some times that's the best way to be and you never know what might happen in the future.
Good luck.
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