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female
age
30-35,
*ee-ess-2007
writes:i did something wrong it embarasing! i flashed on webcam [my bottom] the boy took a photo and sent it round my friends whom sent it onto other friends and later that week everone had seen itand theres this one person who stillh as it and is sending it to older boysis this stepping over my privacy even thugh it was my mistake?my family know! and have forgiven me!everyone makes mistakes and learn from them and i have!i want to move on? what can i do to stop this uncontrolable jelous drink aholic smoker from sending my email address to 19 year old guys!!i want it to end and i want to move on but she wont delete it the picture! she isnt makin it hard!what can i do!!!!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): female anonymous 12 August 2007: give the girl a break! She's already admitted it was foolish and she's taking responsibility for it. Your response was very uncalled for don't you think!?
Anyways, if she's made up a "fake" conversation on the computer, the police should be able to determine that it is a fake soon enough. Not only that, but you are under the age of 16. If that picture goes around and around the net, it may fall into the hands of some sick perverts.
You have to report her behaviour to the police as what she is doing is basically distributing unsuitable images of a minor to adults. In fact, I wouldn't give her the threat of it, I'd just go ahead and report it. You've given her the chance to remove it herself and she hasn't. She should now face the consequences of her actions.
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reader, bee-ess-2007 +, writes (12 August 2007):
bee-ess-2007 is verified as being by the original poster of the question IVE TRIED THE POLICE THING PUT SHE MADE UP A FAKE CONVERSATION OF ME AND A GUY AND SED WELL IF U TELL THE POLICE ILL SHOW TEM VERYTHING AND THTS THE ONLY THING IVE EVER DINE YEH I NO IT WS STOOPID BUT I JUST WASNT THINKING STRAYTIT WAS A MISTAKE AND I LEARNT FROM IT AND IVE CHANGED...IS THIS MY PRIVACY SHE IS STEPPING OVER BY SENDING IT ROUND 19 YEAR OLDS?
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female
reader, Blackruby +, writes (12 August 2007):
Well you could say to this person that if they don't delete it, you will contact the police. That may be enough to scare them in to getting rid of the photo. If they don't, then go to the police station and make a complaint about this person keeping a photo of you without permission and see what happens.
If you don't fancy the hassle of all this, then I am afraid you are just gonna have to hold your head up high and show this person that a picture of your backside floating around the internet doesn't bother you. Then maybe they will stop passing it round.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): well, first of all you shouldn't have done it in the first place. you should have thought before you acted upon such foolishness! why would you do that?!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): I think you should just stop caring. And if some guy approaches you and asks you about, just own it and be like yea so what?
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