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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I love him more than anything and we have so much fun together. I am starting to worry that I am falling out of love with him though because I go through times when everything about him annoys me. I sometimes feel disgusted when he kisses me. But most of the time I am not disgusted with him. Is this normal? Should I be worried about my feelings for him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): The worse my relationship got, the more easily i annoyed my girlfriend for no good reason (even things she used to like). Therefore in my limited experience this means things are gettin worse and will probabkly end
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reader, Blackruby  +, writes (11 August 2007):
Are you disgusted because he is drunk? not brushed his teeth? If so then that is a different issue that you'll have to bring up with him. If it is because you are annoyed with him, then just say 'Sorry, hun, in a bad mood, just let me read my book/have my bath/go for a drink with my friends' just take space when he annoys you. During these alone times, you will probably figure out whether you are just feeling a little stuffy in the relationship or actually falling out of love.Hope that helps.
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reader, Reebe +, writes (11 August 2007):
 When you've been together for a while you start to take them for granted, yes of course he annoys you sometimes that is completly normal! Although I don't understand the disgust thing, is it disgust or is just because your annoyed at him?
If it is disgust I would find this a worry, even when your really annoyed at him you might be too angry with him to let him kiss you but this shouldn't be disgust.
I think you have some thinking to do and try to figure out while you feel like this, and what your going to do about it.
Good Luck
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