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*oso32908
writes:My girlfriend doesn't talk to me? I have tried everything to get her to talk to me. I text me but she just sends me one word replies back, I feel like she is uninterested. I know she cares about me. She cares about me so much she has told me this. But all I want is to talk. We are both seniors in high school at different schools. I don't see her that often, but she is very busy, I know that. All I want to do is talk to her. She has a problem with getting close to people, I think that this is where it is all coming from.
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reader, handyandy:) +, writes (19 December 2009):
ok this might sound stupid as well,but talk to her about this and let her know w/o being rude or anything that you don't like whats going on in your relationship.dont tell her you'll break up w/her bc of it or any bs.make it known that it really irritates you and bothers you..now one thing im realizing in my relationship is that yes i talked to my gf about the same thing youre going through..and were soo in love its insane but we just barely talk,the problem here is that you gotta one or two things learn to know that its part of their personalities so you better get used to it or two you both dont have much to talk about and arent exactly comfortable sitting in the car w/nothing but dead silence.so you gotta take into perspective that she isnt cheating or gonna break up w/u if she truly loves you.you just need to write down every event that happened in your dday or even ask her questions about more than what does she like to do and all these other questions..you gotta dig deeper than that to really know her..ask her about her dreams,goals,what she thinks of the realtionship so far,stuff you'd like to do together etc!!so i went through that stage and if you can talk it out w/her and make things better than things will get better or worst..so i hope it goes out well
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reader, zoso32908 +, writes (26 February 2008):
zoso32908 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i have another topic people might want to look at. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-a-way-of-saying-she-needs.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): screw her. JUST KIDDING that won't help. It is clear she is introverted and you are extroverted. I am dealing with a girl like that right now, like she doesn't respond right away, ever, and I fell like she is putting me off, but when she does talk, it's like she never went put me off. It is a matter of perspective. On the other hand, as long as you really like her, it will build your patience.
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reader, zoso32908 +, writes (18 February 2008):
zoso32908 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow thanks for the help, and i said something about. she really didnt understand. to her we talk alot. and i wont deny that we dont "talk" its more of what we talk about. She doesn't like tell me what shes up to, i just want to know more about by doing this but i think im starting to feel better about. cause now that i know that she didnt think there was a problem i kinda makes me feel like maybe there isnt. if that makes sense
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reader, wazwazy  +, writes (18 February 2008):
 i think wen a girl stops talkin to you she's gonna break up so u can break up with her first or ask her out on a date which should get her talking, so good luck and the best of wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): You need to talk to her and find out why she is like that. Maybe something happened in the past to make her like this or is she just shy? Tell her you need some more communication from her. But you certainly need to TALK.
take care
xx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 February 2008):
 Send her a bouquet of flowers and write something sweet and romantic on the card. She will think of you always and you don't have to talk .
She will call you when she has the time.
You need to respect her. There is a time for every thing. If she does not want to talk, don't force yourself upon her.It will only turn her off.
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reader, BenQ +, writes (18 February 2008):
 I don't want to sound like a prat or anything, but try just talking to her about it.
Don't come on heavily, and making accusations, because you'll come over aggressive, and you don't want that.
Arrange to meet her, life you normally would, for a date, or round to your house, and just sit somewhere quiet together, and talk. Tell her you feel that both of you don't talk enough, and you know she's had problems in the past, but you'd really like her to open up a little to you.
Give her time, these changes won't happen overnight. Try opening up a little yourself. Share some small secrets or stories, and see where it goes.
Hope this helps, and good luck!
BQ
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