My exgirlfriend contact me after 3 years and I now feel like crap
Q. I know its sad but my first ever gf dumped me 3 years ago and I cant get over it . She dumped me over telephone just saying she didnt care for me anymore. She said that she didnt want to be friends either so I basically cut all ties from her not ...
A. 24 March 2011: Stop dwelling and let go. She's not sitting around dwelling, she's moved on with her life and so should you. You haven't even responded, but yet it's opening the wound back up. Focus on yourself... you're important, you're worth it and you ... (read in full...)
Will I ever be whole again?
Q. My boyfriend for about a year and a half recently decided he couldn't be my boyfriend anymore. He is getting ready to graduate college while I still remain in school. Ultimately it is because he feels he can't do a long distance relationship and ...
A. 21 March 2011: He's not worth your tears, nor is he worth your time. Let go and let him go. You're young, your beautiful and you deserve better. It's a blessing in disguise... You'll see!... (read in full...)
Is this guy at the Gym shy? Interested in me? Or just being polite?
Q. For a year and a half, I've noticed this guy and his dad at the gym the same time I go. He usually keeps to himself and there to workout with his dad. I never saw him, not even once chatting with a woman. For six months, I've noticed he'd look at ...
A. 21 March 2011: Thank you for the advice. Perhaps it's just an infatuation, I'm going to lay low for a bit and see if the feelings will go away. Thank you for your time and for your feedback. ; ) ... (read in full...)
I'm going to give him his space. Is he likely to notice?
Q. ive realised recently that i have been too insecure and clingy with the guy that ive been seeing. he always says he isnt angry at me but i know he gets exasperated. i have seen the error of my ways as it were, im going to give him his space for a ...
A. 21 March 2011: give him space. don't contact him. give it time and your answers will reveal itself. good luck... (read in full...)
I just want to be friends
Q. There is this girl who likes me and she keeps texting me. I want to stay kind of mutual friends and no more as I like someone else what should I tell her?...
A. 21 March 2011: Tell her the truth. Tell her how you feel. You can't go wrong.... (read in full...)
I'd really love to get some flowers
Q. How do you get a guy to give you flowers with out you actually straight out telling him especially if you want it to be a surprise? One of my friend heard me complaining so she went around my back and e-mailed him to buy me some flowers which I ...
A. 21 March 2011: I would totally drop it. If I want flowers, I'll go buy myself flowers and when he sees that I love flowers and if he likes me, he'll go out of his way to get me flowers to show me he's interested and that he cares about me. People do things ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that I am head over heels for him?
Q. i really like my guy friend who i had met about 8 months ago. hes everything i want in a guy, even though hes naturally a flirt. i always catch him staring at me and he always punches me and doesnt stupid little things. he trusts me enough to tell ...
A. 21 March 2011: NO! He's a player and he'll play you! Don't give him the time of day, he's not interested, or else he would be all about you... He would live and breathe only you! Don't waste your time, just ignore him, don't give him your attention, don't give ... (read in full...)
I care very much but she doesn't want a relationship
Q. Hello I'm having a confusing situation right now with a female friend we cuddle when she drinks and the other night we had sex and I care about her a lot she's very close to me I care about like I've never cared about someone it doesn't feel like a ...
A. 21 March 2011: She's just saying it, just to say it. You both have your whole life ahead of you. She's telling you she does not want to be in a relationship, let alone a committed relationship. Now you really have to take a step back and ask yourself... Do I ... (read in full...)
I can't take it anymore, should I bring this up with her?
Q. I've recently been posting questions here on dear cupid asking advice towards an awkward situation right after meeting my LDR for the first time a week ago after talking for over 4 years. Despite the awkward feeling that occured after our visit ...
A. 21 March 2011: You're only tormenting yourself by holding back. Bring it up, tell her how you feel and see where she's at. Hopefully she'll be upfront and honest with you. Whatever decision she makes, you have to respect it, accept it for what it is and move ... (read in full...)
I still can't get over my ex
Q. I am still in love with a guy I dated for about 9 months and I can't get over him, help! At the end of 9 months, he moved to another city and we said goodbye, but there was no closure..at least for me. This was two years ago. He was my first ...
A. 21 March 2011: You're stuck on him, you need to let go. What you're doing is not healthy, it's self destructive. He's moved on, you need to do the same. You're only hurting yourself, not anyone else. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but it's the truth... While ... (read in full...)
My Ex Girlfriend is playing mind games.
Q. Recently my gf broke up with me (over the phone) to then 3 weeks later have a new bf...we haven't seen or spoken to each other since the break up phone call, apart from... 2 weeks ago I was in her town visiting friends (some mutual and some ju...
A. 20 March 2011: She's messing with you. Cut your loss. You deserve better. You have your whole life ahead of you, you have a lot to offer and a lot to give, don't let anyone play with you! Cut her out of your life and move on. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is this guy at the Gym shy? Interested in me? Or just being polite?
Q. For a year and a half, I've noticed this guy and his dad at the gym the same time I go. He usually keeps to himself and there to workout with his dad. I never saw him, not even once chatting with a woman. For six months, I've noticed he'd look at ...
A. 20 March 2011: Thank you Kilcardy. Fearing rejection, I won't ask him out. But thanks to you I'll tell him that I find him attractive and leave the ball in his court. ; )... (read in full...)
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