Our parents have gone back on their word and decided to stop us from having sex, now I'm worried we will be banned from seeing each other!
Q. Me and my girlfriend were all set to have sex for the first time but our parents ruined our plans at the last minute. It was made all the worse because it was meant to be a special moment at the end of a romantic night. I've just turned 16 and so...
A. 1 November 2011: I had the same problem. I went by their rules for a while, was open and honest for a while, and i made it clear to them it was going to happen soon. They hated it, but they couldn't stop it. In the end i just went to them 'i'm doing it, i'm legal, ... (read in full...)
Together a year but havent kissed or hugged yet!
Q. I've been dating this guy for more than a year. till now we have just hold hands. I want him to kiss me and hug me!!! but i dont want to make the first move. what should i do????? help me!...
A. 1 November 2011: No offence, but why are you in this relationship?
If you were really that close, you would have spoken about this awkward situation.
If you want it to happen, then just do it yourself, obviously he is not going to. Other then that, get a friend... (read in full...)
Does anyone regret having sex too young and not waiting until marriage?
Q. I'm just wondering had anyone regretting having sex too young, or not waiting till marriage as ive been in a steady relationship now for over a year and a half but havent had sex... me and my boyfriend are happy about this but im wondering about ...
A. 1 November 2011: I was with somebody for over a year and i had sex with him. I thought that it was all magical and amazing, and that we would never split up, i was so sure.
Unfortunately for me, we did split up, and now i absolutely hate him.
I think it's l... (read in full...)
Why don't kids respect their parents anymore?
Q. I have three kids that I have raised on my own and I am proud of my children and the people that they are trying to become. Recently I had this big blow out with my children where they felt they had a right to sit there and disrespect me in ways ...
A. 14 April 2011: I agree with CaringGuy... Respect is a mutual thing. Whatever you did, was bad enough for them to disrespect you, after everything you have done for them, so it might be worth thinking about that? remember it takes two to tango...... (read in full...)
Need to get over a crush!
Q. How do I get rid of a crush? I'm married, so is he, it's highly innappropriate and it's starting to cloud my every thought. HELP!...
A. 14 April 2011: Write down everything you love about your partner, and everything you hate about your crush. Whenever you feel yourself thinking about him in a 'crush' way, read through it:) It should make you feel differently about your crush with time :) ... (read in full...)
We're 14, are we old enough to have sex?
Q. hello, this is a pretty long question but it would be great if i could have your honest opinions, i'm 14 and i've been with my boyfriend who is also 14 for about ten months. we're very close and he's like my best friend as well as my boyfrien...
A. 11 April 2011: I made the mistake of having sex too young.
You think you're so ready, and that's it's deffinately the right thing to do. You're so sure as well.
And now i regret it.
I loved him with all my heart at the time.
And now i feel ashamed, it wasn... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should keep this LDR or not. I feel he is the one.
Q. I've been having long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We love each other so much. Both of our parents also agree with our relationship. Otherwise,sometimes I feel that it's too hard for me to keep go on with this relation...
A. 11 April 2011: Have you actually met him? You didn't mention it... If you havn't, then i would just leave it, if you havn't met by now, then you are having a pretty much pointless relationship. He could be completely different when you meet him, you may not ev... (read in full...)
He asked me about my monthly. Do you think he only wants me for sex?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for years and we agreed to meet this September but it worries me now that he might just see me for physical reasons and not really love me for who I am. Is it not offensive when an online bf will a...
A. 11 April 2011: I personally think you're right. well, it may not JUST be because of that, it's it's definitely a big part of it. What gives him the right to automatically think you are going to have sex with him! Yes, it is very offensive! You've never ... (read in full...)
Any advice for menstrual irregularities?
Q. I am having bad menstrual irregularities, i used to be sexually active two years ago, i would take the morning after pill very regularly, however i totally went off sex, and last year my period was reasonably regular, this year however, i have had ...
A. 11 April 2011: The morning after pill, although it says you can. was not designed to be taken often. Just as a one off. I would recommend going to the doctors, that can give you a pill which can help control your period, and often it is the contraceptive as well.... (read in full...)
Contraception and pregnancy. How far should one plan for the unplanned?
Q. When you have sex there is no guarantee you will not get pregnant, because even when you do use contraception you can use it the wrong way, and no contraception can claim to be 100 percent safe either. I do trust in the contraception I use, and that ...
A. 11 April 2011: There is one thing that i must say. Get the implant. Of course, if you are worried, use condoms, but it's such a massive burden off your shoulders. and unless it's put in wrong, or it snaps, you're pretty much guarenteed. Barely any pills effec... (read in full...)
How do I handle his "sexting" when I see him next.
Q. A friend of mine and I have a complicated relationship. It is complicated in the fact that I have had on and off feelings for him, but as of recently, been keeping it platonic. And he is a massive flirt who will flirt with most girls in my year and ...
A. 11 April 2011: Just ignore it. Me and my Boyfriend to exactly the same to his mate! From the sounds of it, he was either joking, or was just being a typical horny guy :L He's just being a flirt, he doesn't want anything out of it, or he would have admitt... (read in full...)
How do I take this to the next level?
Q. Hi guys not a big problem but advice is needed please. I just want to know how do I go from one goodbye kiss on the lips to actually making out/getting off with my girlfriend?...
A. 11 April 2011: You need to let it linger :) This is going to sound pathetic. But have you ever heard of the 70/30 rule? You go in 70%, and then she does the extra 30%. The linger lets her no that you are not just going in for a quick kiss. Also turn your hea... (read in full...)
Thirteen and oversexed. Should I ask my brother to buy me a toy?
Q. I am 13 and I want to have sex but I am obviously to young and I get horny a lot and I don't know what to do I finger myself sometimes and I use a small toy or a hair brush it is kind is satisfying but I want a vibrator but I don't want to ask my ...
A. 11 April 2011: Is there not another person you can ask? If you ask your Brother it will be very embarrassing, and you will probably not be able to look him in the face for a very long time. Just masturbate more often, if your libido(sex drive) is high, using a ... (read in full...)
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