My anger is wrecking my life!
Q. I have a huge problem, and it's tearing me apart. I'm 19 years old. My boyfriend is 23. Ever since I was a baby, and I'm not kidding, I've had a temper. I used to have tantrums in my craddle. When I was starting to eat real food, my mom would f...
A. 1 June 2008: You know what things will trigger you, and that you can be out of control, accepting that is a very good start. Seek counselling, find things to channel your anger and frustration into...kickboxing for example. Your boyfriend knows that when you ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about his flirty ways?
Q. I have a little problem in that a month ago I went to a ball with my friend, her new boyfriend and some other girls we all knew. The new boyfriend started chatting, more so to me. He got quite friendly and started talking a little about my friend ...
A. 1 June 2008: It sounds like he's a flirty guy with no intent and that you are a protective friend who has put him through his paces. From some of the things you said he said, it sounds almost like he thought you were interested in him and he was saying he ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me to feel this angry and jealous about othe rpeoples success?
Q. Hi,im hoping to get some advice on a situation. My cousin who is younger and more attractive than myself was spotted by a modelling agency (its not a bogus thing or anything she has had a few jobs)now she will be doing a catwalk for top designer...
A. 1 June 2008: Repeat after me...I am f***ing amazing who wouldn't want to be me. You need a self-esteem boost. You're a perfectly normal woman. We judge our success on the success of other women around us and boo at their triumph and cheer as they fall. We're a ... (read in full...)
Really need your help. I don't know what to do about this painful sex
Q. Hey, im 16 and currently in a relationship. i hadnt had sex in about a year untill yesterday and it hurt abit.. i thought it was just because of the position (on all fours) or because i hadnt done it in a while. but today i had sex again (on al...
A. 1 June 2008: Try having loads of foreplay beforehand to make sure you're fully ready then go slow. If its still hurting after you've had sex several times I'd recommend going to a doctor. Sex will hurt when you haven't had it in awhile but it should get better. ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions for relationship when living far from a city?
Q. I live way out in the country, have earned enough to support me well for at least one lifetime, and I really enjoy just working on my land, building and inventing things, and making deep, powerful, soul-merging love. The only problem is lack of a ...
A. 1 June 2008: You enjoy inventing and building things, why not display them at craft fairs or local shows, get yourself known as the local eligible artistic bachelor and the word will soon get out. Women love a man who's good with his hands... ... (read in full...)
How can I go about living my life without romance and yet, not feel lonely?!
Q. Before I bore you with my story, I just want to throw the question out there - How can I go about living my life without romance and yet, not feel lonely?! It all started a year ago when I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. I felt we weren't ...
A. 31 May 2008: Have you ever listened to people talking about their relationships? They all moan about them! I managed to get through many years of being single by laughing at the suckers in relationships. Be happy, be confident, love life and people will want to ... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over this and/or will I ever be able to trust him again?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for two years. It's been very hard. At the begining he got hooked on drugs (light drugs). He begged me to help im stop. I did, but I went through hell trying to get him off them. He became abusive verbally...
A. 31 May 2008: I'm going to be really blunt here...leave him. He doesn't respect you on/off drugs and is making you ill. No-one should ever have the right to make another human being feel this way. You are in a destructive relationship. You want one thing from ... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin our friendship with my feelings for him-help!
Q. Well, I'm a tomboy, crazy, adventerous, deadly tomboy. For the longest time, I've had guy friends. now I do have girls that are friends but then one started saying that one would look good with me. That got me thinking,'Yea right,' Hes pretty b...
A. 31 May 2008: Carry on exactly as you are. Hang out together, beat him at everything you can and have fun. Keep him talking and learn all about him. If he's shy it may take him awhile to make a move, but the shy one's are always worth waiting for. Don't worry ... (read in full...)
My bf's groin area smells really bad!! What is it? Any ideas on how I can talk to him about it?
Q. Yeah so this is kinda awkward but I have a problem with my boyfriend of 10 months. His groin area smells bad. It's like a strong sweat odor and it's rather offensive. The smell is constantly there, even after he showers, and it really repulses me. I ...
A. 31 May 2008: You could sniff the area and ask him if he's ok because he smells differently and suggest he should see a doctor. As a temporary measure you can suck a mint when you're giving him aural sex, this will give him pleasure too, suck him and the mint at ... (read in full...)
In a drunken call, I told my ex I missed her. Now she won't talk to me.
Q. I went out with this girl for 1 year and 5 months we loved each other, but we broke up because we were both stressed and we didnt know how to deal with each other at the time. we understood we needed time apart.. We broke up in august and start...
A. 31 May 2008: Change your lifestyle because you want to, not because of her. Prove you're a better person, get rid of this so-called friend, don't hassle her or pressure her. Choose a date thats important to both of you or her birthday/valentine's day and send ... (read in full...)
Confused about money morals....
Q. Hello I dont know how to tell you my problem but here it comes, my new boyfriend of 6 weeks earns £30,000 more than me a year, as i earn alot less than him i cant afford to have beauty treatments or have my hair done when it needs to be done, my b...
A. 31 May 2008: A guy you've been seeing for 6 weeks is already making you feel inadequate...this is not a good sign. He suggests after 6 weeks that you need a makeover before he'll show you off on his arm...and you don't tell him to go and swallow his sisters ... (read in full...)
How can I convince him not to leave me?
Q. i've been datin this guy for over 2yrs..he's my 1st love..i lost my virginity to him..he wants to break up coz accordin to him..i din give him his space..i do repent all dat i did out of impulse..i love him crazy..so i told him instead of breakin up ...
A. 31 May 2008: If you e-mail him, keep it light. Send funny stories or anecdotes about crazy neighbours, don't talk about your feelings for each other and don't be too interested in what he's doing. You never forget your first Love. The chances of him coming back ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity but it still hurts... Why?
Q. please i need help!! me and my boyfriend have only just started having sex and we've had it about 7 times together. Now i was a virgin until now...and for some reason it still hurts every time we have it! i dont enjoy it and it sometimes bleeds...
A. 31 May 2008: Sex can hurt for any number of reasons. Try enjoting foreplay for a long period before you have sex, this will ensure you're naturally lubricated and should help a lot. Condoms, and even a lubricant (that's safe to use with condoms)can help, as can ... (read in full...)
Will having sex with him make him mine again?
Q. i met my ex at aparty 2weeks ago and he came over to where i was and we hugged,he sat next to me and chatted for a while and later danced,i was confused cos this is the guy who dumped before and now giving me his attention,i was getting mixed ...
A. 31 May 2008: You like him, you have mixed feelings about him, you like the fact he's come back to you,...but, he hasn't really returned to you has he? It sounds like he wants sex with you on his terms. He texts you and you go to him. Your bodies are familiar to ... (read in full...)
I love my mate but he's not gay. How do I cope?
Q. What if you like someone (a str8 friend) but you know he will never like you back? (he knows you're gay) Will you continue your feelings for him? How can you possibly move on? What are the steps to take him out of your everyday system!...
A. 31 May 2008: Realising that this is a Love that's never going to happen is the first step and the hardest. Make yourself less emotionally available to him, take your problems to someone else before you speak to him. Don't let him be the first person you want to ... (read in full...)
Younger married man keeps coming back for more and I can't help myself
Q. I've been having an affair with a married younger man (alot younger)for 18 months and he is always breaking it off but then comes back for more. I'm hooked on the excitement of the affair (the sex is just so so)and am more than happy to go back. I ...
A. 31 May 2008: You need to take some time to ask yourself some really tough questions and face realities. So to be blunt, it sounds like this younger man lacks some excitement in his married life but knows its wrong, hence breaking it off all the time with you. He ... (read in full...)
I never have an orgasm. Is he really having one?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have now been having sex for about two months. Each time he cums but i never have an orgasm. Is there anyways to help this, as i enjoy it but i want to orgasm. does it help the guy if i orgasm? Also is cuming a guys orgasm a...
A. 29 May 2008: A shockingly high percentage of women don't actually orgasm through sexual intercourse alone. Some women can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation. You need to know your own body and what you're capable of achieving. A lot of foreplay before you ... (read in full...)
He wants to try a new sex position. Is he bored with me?
Q. me and my partner of 9 months have only recently started to have sex. about 2 months but we use the same positions. He wants to try a new postioion does this mean he is bored? x...
A. 29 May 2008: He isn't bored with you. Things are still quite new when you've been having sex for just 2 months. It's good that he felt he could talk to you about trying new positions. Did you know that if you change your position during sex he will usually last ... (read in full...)
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