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... Send *unt Charlene a private message | | | *unt Charlene's profile:hello, i am 19yrs old and i am currently with a bf.i feel that i can help peope because i see both sides of the agument, i have studied Advanced level psychology and i have been through many traumas, including rape,abuse,bullying (being a victim and..a bully),adoption and how confusing it all is, bereavement (a lot of that!)eating disorders,self harm & attempted suicide, plus alothugh i started early (aged 7) puberty wasnt that long ago for me and so i recall all my anxieties of growing up in that period of time.at school peopel would come up to me and ask for my advie, evn though i didnt know them i still helped-people must have spread the word im good.
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Is once a day normal to masturbate when your 15 ?
Q. Hello. I'm 15 and am currently going through adolescence. I'm ejaculating / cumming once a day and am wondering if that's the normal rate someone should do that sort of thing... thanks for any and all replies. :)...
A. 3 April 2007: hi its perfectly normal to either not masturbate at all to doing it ten times a day! its simply about what feels right for you, so that when you have a relationship you can tell your partner what you like.masturbation can cure many things ranging ... (read in full...)
She ran me down with my car because she thought I was cheating on her! Should I forgive her?
Q. I'm 19 and i have a girlfriend that ran me down with my car beacause she thought I was cheating she is begging for my forgiveness. Now I love her but I may never use my legs again. Should I forgive her?????? please let me know!...
A. 3 April 2007: no!! this is a form of domestic violence im glad you have spoken out as many men are too embarassed to admit they are being hurt by theyre gf/wife.if they know they can hurt you once and get away with it theres always the possibility theyll do it ... (read in full...)
Do some people become 'bi' or gay, later in life?
Q. i am a 47 yr old bi male, the attraction towards other men started around 30 and i explored those feelings. i know females think differently than men, my question is does the same thing happen to females, do some become bi or gay later in life....
A. 27 December 2006: hiya! i can say that it is true men and women can change their ssexulity, i like to think that anything is possible, i know one of my friends she was happily in love with a man, was engaged had a kid with him, then had a drunken night with a female ... (read in full...)
I didn't know my BF of 4 years was looking at naked girls, he said he would stop but he hasn't!
Q. hi i am looking for some advice. I've been with my boyf for 4 years, lived together for 1 year. When i noticed that he was going into our bathroom for an hour with magazines, at first i thought it was just normal mags, but then one da...
A. 1 December 2006: ok i do understand what your getting at, i mean its not good for a relationship to be one sided where he's getting the pleasure and your not. but dnt think that porn is a bad thing afterall the bodylanguage in pornography is meant to turn people on, ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait to tell him that I love him?
Q. I have been widowed for six years. I have been seeing this guy for a month. I think I love him, how long should I wait to tell him? ...
A. 1 December 2006: you use the term "think" that means you are unsure whether you do or not, if you dnt know yet then i would advise not telling him until you are sure you love him. if you are sure you love him at this moment in time,i would drop hints such as: i ... (read in full...)
My ex and I have the same friends, so I feel I can't confide in them. I feel so lonely - any advice?
Q. Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for five years now, but we were best friends for about 5 years before that. he has now decided he doesn't want to be with me any more and i don't know what to do. i really can't imagine my life without him...
A. 30 November 2006: im sorry about yor dissolution,did he say he doesnt want to be just friends? if so then im afraid you will have to move on.my boyfriends best mate is also my best mate and i feel ican talk to him when things arent that smooth,why not turn to your ... (read in full...)
What should I get my 6month boyfriend for xmas?
Q. It is my first xmas with a boyfriend. by that time we will have been dating for almost 6 months, but i dont know what on earth to get him for xmas? Any ideas? The only thing i have thought of is terribly unromantic (a wireless keyboard ...
A. 30 November 2006: hello, i have only been with my boyfriend since july so it will be our first xmas together aswell! i asked my boyfriend what he wanted and he wanted a watch so i went onto ebay and bought a really decent one, for £40 and i saw it in the jewellers ... (read in full...)
I want to be friends with this male, but my husband don't like the idea, what should I do?
Q. I am 34 and have been married for 9 years. Like all marriages, it's had its ups and downs but on the whole we're very happy. Or at least that's what i thought. When i married my husband, he discouraged my having male friends. While this didn't ...
A. 30 November 2006: hello,
i have great empathy for you because i am in the same position,except im not married. every girl my bf has been out with has cheated on him, he feels inferior to the other guys around him and finds it hard to develop and maintain frie... (read in full...)
I think women need to stand up to the men who insist on using porn..what do you all think?
Q. How bloody stupid can some men be????? Despite the fact women are telling them over and over again porn is degrading and unacceptable (as they obviously dont have the intelligence to work that out by themselves) they still persist in trying t...
A. 30 November 2006: being a victim of sexual abuse as a child has not made me want to be a pornstar, just because they were abused doesnt mean that is what triggers their desire, its up to these people to star in a porno, perhaps they want the money, or they simply ... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and fit... She's 23 and has piled on the pounds... how do I fix this?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, earlier this year we unepectedly had a kid. I love my daughter and girlfriend very much but my girlfriend and i are suppose to marry next year and my girlfriend has piled on the pounds like no business ...
A. 30 November 2006: hey i do completely understand your point, i workout at the gym 2hrs a day, and am physically attracted to tall and really thin men (like ribs sticking out) however my boyfriend looks nothing like this, infact hes almost twice my weight, now granted ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my straight friend! What should I do?
Q. I'm a young gay man and ive fallen in love with one of my straight friends. Were very close and get on well together and i realy want to tell him how i feel but i dont know if i should risk losing our friendship over this.He knows ive fallen for ...
A. 30 November 2006: well my friend,since he came out has found 2 of his male mates have fallen for him but he doesnt want anything to with them now, he wwas going to live with 1 of them as a flat mate but then decided being with his parents is better than livin with ... (read in full...)
Should the ladies cum first? (or after)
Q. I would like the ladies input on this one. Whenever I have sex, I like to ensure that my lady comes, either by manual or oral stimulation. I used to be a big believer in "the lady comes first" and then we'd have full sex. Now I'm not so sure....
A. 30 November 2006: well it depends wat ur doin i mean if we av 69 then my bf cums 1st usually,if its 1 at a time he goes dwn on me 1st so its always me first then. if we av full on sex, he gives me oral 2 get me wet but cums during sex or just after then he gives me ... (read in full...)
blast from the past - but does she want me ?
Q. Six years ago my best friend went out with this beautiful girl which I had a huge crush on and then she ran away with another guy. Leaving him distraught. In april this year I saw her again and this after 2 children and a divorce. We hit it off and ...
A. 29 November 2006: hello,
im sorry to be the one to tell you this but the woman is just playing the field.get away and stay away she will only keep hurting you.... (read in full...)
I think women need to stand up to the men who insist on using porn..what do you all think?
Q. How bloody stupid can some men be????? Despite the fact women are telling them over and over again porn is degrading and unacceptable (as they obviously dont have the intelligence to work that out by themselves) they still persist in trying t...
A. 29 November 2006: the society in which we live in today offers many choices, including those who want to watch porn- porno mags, and those who dont- the lower shelves in the newsagents. as a woman who like porn, i cannot see how it degrades women, the man is naked, ... (read in full...)
She's teasing me about my penis
Q. hi there i am aged 19 and i have had sex for my 1st time just on thursday (23/11/06, but she wasnt a virgin and now shes teasin me about the length of my penis.... i have always have been worried about the size, and now im starting to feel self con...
A. 29 November 2006: hello
when people tease others it means they are suffering from insecurities and have to make themselves feel bigger by taking the piss, however this is definately not right, and i would suggest telling her that shes damaging your feelings, she may ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about his weird pick-up line- what was he really trying to say??
Q. what is a pick up line?? this guy what's telling me that I had something on my eye and then he said: Oh! nevermind it's just a start! I didn't get what he was trying to say but my friend told me that it was just a pick up line and that he was just ...
A. 29 November 2006: hello ivanna,
a pick up line otherwise known as a chat up line is a sentence used by people to hint to strangers they are interested in them.id imagine he said to you its jus a star, meaning you have twinkling eyes,meaning you are pretty yes.
howev... (read in full...)
How do I let him know...we can work our relationship problems out?
Q. Hi everyone, to cut it short my boyfriend and I have split up. We have decided to go out tonight to see how it goes, pretty much make or break. I want to make it work and get him back, he feels the same but isn't sure whether it's right and whether ...
A. 29 November 2006: hello,
it depends why you split up in the first place, if you had never cheated on each other, the problem is internal meaning change, is it you who needs to change or him? and lastly why do you want to get back together? were you in love and the ... (read in full...)
His ex says she pregnant w/ his baby, but he says that's impossible! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend said he received a text message from his ex-girlfriend saying that she is pregnant and its his child. We have been together for 2 years now. He has cheated on me in the past with her but her swears that the last time he was with her ...
A. 29 November 2006: hello,
i am sorry to hear of your middle position especially because it appears that you are being haunted by the past.in order to find out if the baby IS your boyfriends, it will have to have a blood test to confirm. in the meantime,its a good idea... (read in full...)
We spent hours together laughing and kissing - now he hardly talks to me and flirts with other girls!
Q. okay well.. theres this boy i'v known him for three years now and we have been really good friends and av always had a thing for him and he says to me all the time that he's had a thing for me too.. recently i told hom i liked him again anf we met ...
A. 29 November 2006: hello, you say he likes you, this is true,he does like you but it seems that he wants to be friends because he is worried about not having your companionship if you did splitt up, this is why he has "clammed up". suggest to him that you want to stay ... (read in full...)
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