I'm bisexual and in love with my best friend. What should I do?
Q. I have known her for 8 years from way back in high school ...I am a bisexual. I have always felt strangly drawn to her ....and her to me....while I have been open to my feelings, she has been shy about it. I try, have pecked her ...tried to cuddle w...
A. 26 January 2013: She's obviously confused about what she wants. You've put your feelings out there, now just wait for her to decide what she wants in her own time. Don't push her on it and just be her friend for now. If your not what she really wants then it's ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is another woman's 'back up guy' in case they're not married by 40! How would you feel about this?
Q. Dear All, How would you act if your boyfriend told you he was another girls back up guy and if there both still 40 they would get married as his rich and reliable? I feel this is disrespectful and it"s upset me but he can't see why? Opinions p...
A. 26 January 2013: I'd be annoyed that he didn't understand why it bothered me. He should have some consideration for your feelings and make it clear that although it may have been a funny idea at the time, your being serious now. Of course though, if it's all in ... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend's gesture and behaviour strange in this situation?
Q. Recently my boyfriend (who makes an excellent living) brought me a bouquet of flowers. They were the grocery store variety and the price tag that he left on the cellophane said $7. He came to my front door with said flowers still in the plastic ...
A. 26 January 2013: He could have splashed out on something a bit grander, but I wouldn't read too much into it. It's a lovely gesture, I've certainly never been bought flowers, cheap or otherwise. Maybe he's had a bad day at work, or the traffic was bad, or any other ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend controlling or normal?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just 4 months now but we have been seeing eachother since last July. He is honestly, the most caring, loving, gentle man I have ever come across ( and I am not saying that because he is my boyfriend ). I have just ...
A. 26 January 2013: You have to wonder if his behavior pushed his ex away to someone she could feel comfortable with. I have seen this problem very close to home and as the years of allowing it to happen it grinds you down until you have only negative opinions about ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to know if he can go to a party where his ex will be. What do I say?
Q. My bf met up with his ex behind my back 2 years ago. He lied about it but the truth eventually came out. Not only that he'd saved semi naked (recent) photos on his computer from her facebook. We had a massive argument and had a break but I ...
A. 26 January 2013: Either go with him to the party or insist that he doesn't go at all. The same ex you've seen half naked on photos he had saved of her at the same party he plans to swan off to? I don't think so. There is no trust and I'm hardly surprised. Your his ... (read in full...)
Why does my BF keep going on dating sites if he loves me?
Q. My boyfriend swears down that he loves me. For the past year or so we keep on arguing because he wants to keep talking to girls on dating sites. I dont think he is going there with the aim of meeting any of them. My question is this. He is very ...
A. 26 January 2013: As harsh as it may be, he doesn't love you enough to have a faithful relationship with you if he's cruising these dating sites. If he's a people person then there are plenty of social networks to meet new people. Dating sites are made specifically ... (read in full...)
I think my husband has an std, is it safe to have sex using a condom?
Q. hello everybody i have a problem with my husband i think he has some std but refuses to go to doctor, is it safe to have sexual intercourse with him using condoms. and can i take his precum sample or sperm sample to test it in lab. if he not wil...
A. 26 January 2013: Sorry darling but if my boyfriend had dipped his wick elsewhere and bought home an STD I would be having serious words with him, not contemplating safe sex. An STD can only come into the relationship through two people and if you haven't strayed ... (read in full...)
Three years together, but last few months he's been depressed and pushing me away. How can I help?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years we had a great relationship but the last four months hes been really withdrawn and not speaking to me . i have since found out he had debt of five grand that he's kept secret from me and his ...
A. 26 January 2013: Don't give up on him, he has a bloody good reason to be depressed and the fact that he hid it and had no-one to talk to would have made everything seem much worse. I can understand why he didn't tell anyone, maybe he didn't want to look a failure or ... (read in full...)
Should I trust my BF even after he lied to me about contacting another girl?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about three months. We just became officially boyfriend and girlfriend about three weeks ago. Last week I was at his house when he ran to drop something off I got on his computer and did some snooping. Well there is ...
A. 26 January 2013: I know I shouldn't but the way you casually threw in the snooping part made me chuckle a bit. Snooping is a hard force to resist when you have doubts already and although not many people would admit, I'm sure every woman, and most men, have either ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I like to flirt with other boys. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi everyone. I find myself in a difficult situation. I've just got my first boyfriend, and i really really like him. However i find myself flirting with other guys quite a lot, and i've recently found out that this guy likes me, and starting to ...
A. 26 January 2013: Is it ever too early to break-up with someone if you have feelings for someone else? You need to think about how much your boyfriend really means to you and then think whether this guy you barely know is worth risking a perfectly good relationship. ... (read in full...)
BF reacted badly when I mentioned my physical insecurities about sex - should he be so upset, and how can I fix this?
Q. Ok, I need some insight. Without being too graphic, my boyfriend of over a year and a half and I had finished having sex and were lying in bed. Somewhere along the lines of us just talking he said that he really like when I’m on top and in reverse, ...
A. 26 January 2013: Your boyfriend clearly thinks that every lump and bump is adorable and could possibly be upset because, although you were joking, he might think that you think he doesn't love you enough to appreciate all of you during the most intimate time you ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to accept that I may never have a boyfriend? They don't even show interest.
Q. I'm not really the type of girl that guys like. Nor do guys show any interest, in me which is fine. I do get lonely at times despite having friends and an otherwise happy or successful(to me at least) life. I keep telling myself that it will hap...
A. 26 January 2013: Forgive me if I'm wrong but I think the problem is in your first sentence darling. What type of girl do you think guys like? If you didn't know already guys like all different types of girls. Large, small, shy, outgoing.. All are assets to a range ... (read in full...)
I feel completely heartbroken, I'd accepted that we had broken up but to be lied to repeatedly just for sex?
Q. This all happened within the space of three weeks. So, basically I was in a relationship with this guy for just over two years, we both loved each other but obviously argued occasionally, as people do. One day, he calls me to have a chat, everythi...
A. 26 January 2013: It's clear that you feel strongly about him but it's also clear that he doesn't feel the same. If you allow him to treat you like this then you will only get hurt. A nice text and maybe the odd night of feeling loved by him is not worth years of ... (read in full...)
Now my girlfriend wants to breakup, all because I looked at a girl's cleavage. Is she being unreasonable?
Q. My girlfriend wants to break up with me because I glanced at a girl's cleavage. There was nothing sexual about it and I wasn't looking for anything. I don't know how to convince her that this isn't a big deal. Advice?...
A. 26 January 2013: Some cleavages are hard not to notice and at your age it's only natural but a proper gent would at least try and avert his glance. Your girlfriend probably feels slightly insecure right now but you should definitely try and talk to her. Maybe you ... (read in full...)
Why is it that I've never ended up with a boyfriend?
Q. Hey So I'm 22 and I'm pretty, smart; I dress well, I love doing what I do etc etc But I haven't had a single boyfriend till now. I've had people like me...many people. But it's never been mutual. And they always turn out to be creeps or semi cree...
A. 26 January 2013: Diamonds are harder to reach than coal darling. From what I can tell most guys these days would rather an easier catch than something they have to work harder for. Keep your chin up and remember that things happen when you least expect it. Let love ... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend is on the verge of breaking up with me. Help! What can I do?
Q. help!!!!! My girlfriend and I are on the edge of a breakup... We’ve been dating a little over 2 years I think something happened in her life because her entire personality seems to have changed in the past month She went home for h...
A. 26 January 2013: It seems that she isn't ready to talk about the issues your having just yet and probably does just need some space. She isn't necessarily seeing anyone else either, the break with her parents might have just given her time to think about the ... (read in full...)
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