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writes:im 14 and i think i made my 14 year old GF pregnantwe dont know if she is or notim scared and dont know what to dois anyone in the same situation as me or has anyone been in this situation beforePLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE!!!!
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reader, Ty014 +, writes (29 August 2010):
Well, me and my girlfriend are both 14 and she had a miscarriage...we both love eachother more than anything in the world and want to be together 4ever. we wanna have a baby and she wants to have my kids. she really wants to try again. now she is having lower cramps and is tired alot. so im not sure if she is pregnant or not yet but i guess we will see. most people judge u on ur age. who gives a freak. if 2 people are madly in love and want a future together then go 4 it. chase ur dreams, with or without a baby. no matter what dont be a bad dad to ur baby. stay by ur girls side no matter what. me and my baby are always judged by jeleous people and are still super in love. so if u and ur girl love eachother then go 4 it man.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 get a test done about 4 weeks after she may hae gotten pregnant
if shes not preg learn to put something on the end of it! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): if she is stay with her i am 13 and 8 months pregnat and my jackass bf left me and my parents kicked my out but i found someone i rlly like (GUY) and he is 14 and he offered to help me so i am lucky but if u leave her she might not be so lucky
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): lets face it - u guys are pretty young.
you obviusly knew the consequences of having sex and were irresponsible enough to not use protection (which is why u shouldnt have sex so young) but thats all in the past.
Support your girl and let her know your always gonna be there 2 help her through the pregnancy AND when the baby comes. and sincerely mean it.
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reader, notshort +, writes (25 March 2008):
I am going to try and tell you like a friend should. You may be coming up on the biggest change that will ever happen in your whole life.
Life is nothing to take likely. And you and your gf may have just created it.
She needs to find out for sure if she is pregnant. There are many places that will provide her a test for free. Some of them will try to talk her out of going thru with the pregnancy. The test are cheap at a drug store too.
This is where you decide if you are a man or a mouse.
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reader, angy +, writes (25 March 2008):
Best thing you can do is get a pregnancy test straight away! I'm sure you can buy them over the chemist counter like we do in england. If she is pregnant she should see a doctor straight away to discuss all the options and it might be a good idea to enrol the help of an older understanding person like her mum or an older sister. I hope you'll go with her for support if she is, cos she'l need it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Sup bro, im 15 and ma gf is 14 she is 3months pregnant now. As soon as we thought she was we went and got a pregnancy test and then went to the doctors to see how much pregnant.
You need to do that straight away instead of sitting around freaked out! i understand you are scared i freaked at first bro, but now im just there for her.
So if she is pregnant...bro the only thing i can suggest to you is be there for her make sure its easy. Sometimes i sleep over her house (most of the time) and help her with her morning sickness.
BUt if shes not as flynn said learn the lesson, keep your dik in ya pants bro(or use protection), and move on!!
Goodluck bro
peace, moe
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Just be responsible.
Don't ditch the girl no matter what. And if you do, make sure you are there for her and the kid when you need to be.
If she's pregnant and chooses to have the baby (make sure she realises it not her choice alone to abort as the child is part of you as well), you are gonna need to do the right thing and support it as best as you can. And this will mean a lot of growing up, in a very short time. You will be dealing wih issues most people don't until they are much older then either of you.
If she isn't pregnant, than let it be a lesson to you. Either use a condom or keep it in your pants cassanova.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): It's in the lap of the Gods now mate. You've done the deed, obviously irresponsibly and presumably without any contraceptive measures or thought about the consequences of your behaviour.
Now you have to sit back and wait for either good news or bad. If you act like an adult, you have to behave like one. Perhaps in future you'll give a thought to the consequenses of your actions.
You ask for help. How on earth do you suppose anyone can help you now? It's probably too late this time so in future buy condoms and use them - and not for party tricks either.
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