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writes:ok im 13 but soon to be 14..i have been talking to thing guy and he's 15 but will be 16 in july..we dated once but i broke up with him because he cheated on me but he now wants me back..we've been talking about sex lately an hes Not a virgin but i am.he talks dirty to me and i talk it back and he makes me horny,is it wrong to be talking like that w/ him b/c of my age?and i want to have sex w/ him but im scared it will hurt..am i too young?i know ppl my age have sex but i dont want to be labled a whore..What do i do!!!???he tells me he loves me but i think hes full of s___...And his bff likes me and talkes "dirty" to me and he wants to finger me but idk who to choose!neither of them kno that im tlkin to both of them..they are both players and i thought i might be giving them some of their own medicine but is it wrong?well i really need y'all help !thanks for anyone who gives me answers!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 You think you're giving them some of their own medicine? It sure doesn't sound like it. You think you're playing the players, and they're playing you. Which is exactly how they want it to be...These two guys are close friends. Of course they'll be talking to each other about you. It's probably a competition between them to see which one can take your virginity first. Once they've done that, they'll drop you like nothing, and find other girls to chase; you'll have been played like the ball in a football game. This is typical guy behaviour, in case you were wondering. And, very likely once you've slept with one (or both) of them, they'll show off about it to all their friends and before long you'll be called a 'whore' by girls that know them and you.There's nothing good going to come out of this for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): These two friends are playing with you to see who can get to you first and as soon as they do they won't have anything to do with you, they are playing a game with you.
You are too young to have sex or to be fingered by this boy or to talk dirty with them, this is very unpretty behavior for a young girl.
You are going through a lot of hormonal changes, so you will have sexual urges and feelings, but that does not mean that you are ready to do the act.
First off if you have sex because your body is not ready for it, because you are too young, you actually would be at increased risk of contracting HPV a virus that causes cervical cancer....you don't have to have multiple partners or have sex more than once to become a victim of this, you sheer youth makes you at high risk.
Furthermore, why are you playing around like this, where are your parents? Why don't you care about having a good reputation instead of a girl who is easy. Don't do it, you will be very unhappy with the resulting rumors and feelings that it leaves you with. Have more respect for yourself, don't give away your gifts so easily and so cheaply.
You are too young to handle the consequences of sex. You could become pregnant and that would end your childhood and your teenage years, you would miss out on it all and feel resentful, not happy. You cannot financially support yourself or a child. You don't know who you really are yet, don't let some boy mess with that or with your head. They are being disrespectful to you to talk to you in a dirty way. You are not legal to have sex and these boys don't care about that, all they are after is a notch on their belt and they will talk and brag about having their way with you, but neither of them will have anything to do with you afterwards. Funny thing is boys don't respect girls who give it up like that, they respect girls who have some self respect and tell them where to go when they misbehave...
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reader, angy  +, writes (25 March 2008):
You say they are both talking dirty to you and wanting sex with you...and neither of them know the other is talking like this to you? As they are both friends with each other - if that's right, i have a strong feeling they both know what they are both doing and i wouldn't be at all surprised if they were playing you to see who could get you first!! Your a virgin? What a prize!Please have respect for yourself and walk away from these two and don't look back, I think they are both playing games with you.
By walking away you will be the winner, why not wait and give yourself to someone who really cares about you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Revenge won't make you happy. It just makes things worse.
Nothign done in anger can ever lead to happiness.
Oh and you are acting like a spoiled whore. Don't.
Flynn 24
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