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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: its coming up to me and my girlfriends 2 years together and i wanted to do something for her that shows her how much i love her because last year we just went to dinner and came home and she didnt seem too impressed. any ideas?
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reader, angy +, writes (27 April 2008):
hi
A lovely present if either of you likes music I think would be a blank cd or an ipod bought especially and downloaded with all the tracks that mean something in the relationship. I had a cd created like that for me and some of the songs were abit old but they all had a meaning in some little way. He called it "love on the tracks" cos we went on a cycling holiday together. I listened to it constantly in the car and on my stereo and it made me think of him when he wasn't around cos all the songs reminded me of special moments or little things he'd said... very romantic!
hope it goes well and best o luck
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (27 April 2008):
something completely romantic...whats she like with heights and things? but make it romantic AND enjoyable think what she likes and work round that
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reader, Deema +, writes (27 April 2008):
Good question. I have the same dilemma. Tomorrow is my two year anniversary too. My husband comes from a place where they don't celebrate ANYTHING and I come from a place where we celebrate EVERYTHING so once again its a wierd time. Usually I go out and get the card, the present, etc etc, but like your girlfriend I'm not really sure he appreciates it, in fact I know he's not bothered, so tomorrow what am I doing - sweet FA !!! This time if he doesn't do something I can't be bothered either. As for you, I would be really pleased to be taken out for a meal, romantic small talk, nice hug by the fire, that would be great. If she doesn't appreciate that then tell her to organise something she'd prefer. You sound like you did fine to me. I'd be happy with that. Oh, one thing us girls really do like - write her a love letter saying just what you said here - about how much you love her. Its so nice to see it written down, in your man's hand writing, and to know he's taken the time to do that. That means more than cards and flowers. It means you thought about it, about her, and she can keep it and look at it when she's feeling low - which reminds me I must do that cus my husband did that for me last year. So I can go look at it now when I'm feeling less than jubilant, so you see, it works. Thanks for reminding me of that too. Good luck and have a nice day. xx
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