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No orgasms in 3 years -- what's wrong with me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and we have had a lot of sex. I have only had one orgasim out of three years. Is something wrong with me? I don't know what to do. Can you please help me?...

A.   13 June 2008: erm I dont think anything is wrong with you, this might sound unfair for us, but hardly any women actually orgasm during sex, they tend to fake it , if you are really concerned go to your gp- hope you find this useful- coz I am onlii 15- nd dont ... (read in full...)

I'm 20, she's 15. Can we date?

Q.   Hi I've been hanging out with a girl I met online and we both like each other lots. We both like each other lots and hae said its likely that we may end up dating in the future. The one that worries/bothers me is the age difference and law...

A.   1 June 2008: yes you can date but do not have sexual intercourse until she is ready - good luck x ... (read in full...)

Inflamed lip on vagina, what could this be?

Q.   Anyone please help, I've noticed that I have an immflammed right flap on my vagina. I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend because I'm on the pill but he is clean I think. What could this be? Please help I'm really worried.!! Thanks....

A.   31 May 2008: If you are rally worried hun , go and see your gp or a doctor - This could jst be an infection of some sort- good luck x ... (read in full...)

I only get to see my Gf once a week and feel lonely when we are apart, is this a problem?

Q.   Not sure if this constitutes as a problem but I wanted some input on this. I've been with my girlfriend for quite a while (around 7 months) and I only get to see her once a week, when I'm not around her I sometimes feel lonely, any advice on what I ...

A.   31 May 2008: I know how you feel - apart from the fact that your girlfriend sounds decent - my boyfirend and I only see each other once a week and I suspect he is cheating on me - feeling lonely is a sign that you love your girlfriend very much- ask your ... (read in full...)

I want to try cunnilingus one day but I feel it's disgusting... how to get over this feeling? How to start?...

Q.   i want to try cunilingus one day because the i hear it's satisfying to ladies. but i feel it's disgusting. can anyone tell me how it feels like in your mouth and how it smells? i have this feeling there's a bad oduor in there. how do i start?...

A.   31 May 2008: ok heres the thing - every girl is different - there is no ' set of rules' for giving oral sex - if you are worried about the odour ask her to wash with some gel specially made for female genitals before you start- also explore what she likes by ... (read in full...)

My friend's boyfriend likes me

Q.   i like this boy alot and he lkes me back alot he even carved my name on his arm!!!=0 but heres the thing he has a girlfriend man!! and shes mai bestfriend he ganna break up wit her n he said hes going to ask me out!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

A.   31 May 2008: Erm I think two different things about this - 1. If this boy is going to dump your friend for you then you have to be sure that you actually want this relationship- also consider your best friend's feelings - usually relationships do not last long - ... (read in full...)

In a drunken call, I told my ex I missed her. Now she won't talk to me.

Q.   I went out with this girl for 1 year and 5 months we loved each other, but we broke up because we were both stressed and we didnt know how to deal with each other at the time. we understood we needed time apart.. We broke up in august and start...

A.   31 May 2008: your ex may not be talking to you because if you were drunk she may have thought you were not serious and she may have thought you were messing around - I think you should not speak to her for a while to give her some space - sorry if this advice is ... (read in full...)

Am I being paranoid because of his previous betrayal?

Q.   Ok to cut a long story short my husband cheated on me once before and I forgave him. Its not been easy and I do not want any advice on something I want to forget. I just need to know if I am now paranoid or have the right to be worried. We w...

A.   31 May 2008: I know exactly what you are going through at the moment - I have never been able to be the same with my current boyfriend as he cheated on me and I still think he is cheating on me - this is really hard to cope with but if you suspect something do ... (read in full...)

Are us women suppose to put up with men unfaithfullness & childish behavior because they refuse to grow up?

Q.   I need everyones advice. Ladies and guys too. I have a bf that is a typical guy. He has cheated before. I've seen other girls phone numbers on his phone and he denies it. But us girls have this instinct that never fails. I know for a fact ...

A.   31 May 2008: Hun you don't deserve this - I have put up with it for two years with my current boyfriend and I believe he is still cheating - It's time to have a serious talk ( not shouting) with him . You need to discuss his behaviour, and if he refuses tell him ... (read in full...)

Do I cheat on my wife now that she cant have sex for medical reasons?

Q.   DEAR CUPID I AM MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS MY WIFE HAD AN OPERATION ON HER BACK AND NOW SHE DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX SHE HAS LOST HER DRIVE BUT I AM STILL VERY RANDY. DO I SLEEP AROUND ON HER AND NOT SAY ANYTHING.SHE DOES NOT WANT ANY SEX ANYMORE PLEASE ...

A.   31 May 2008: I do not think you should have sex because your wife is ill. Her back should get better and then she will be back to normal - if you sleep around, there is always the chance that you will get caught , and that could ruin your relationship. Think ... (read in full...)

I want to find my birth father - but I have none of his details... Any ideas?

Q.   Hi I have a problem in that I know nothing about my birth father - except his first name. I desperately want to find him and I have tried everything from my birth certificate (which doesn't have his name on it) to friends reunited and fac...

A.   30 May 2008: I know how you feel - I have exactly the same problem with my father - this is a problem but you could ask your mum for advice or you could try and find out a way of finding his adress or call and identity number - I am sorry I can not rpovide you ... (read in full...)

Is it illegal for a 15 year old to go out with a 30 year old?

Q.   i just wanted some advice really im 15 and going out with a 30year old is it illegal?? ...

A.   30 May 2008: It is not illegal but it could seem worrying - your'e parents may panic and ban you from seeing him - It is illegal however if you will have sexual relationships with him - my mum worried when I was dating a boy 2 years older than me - I ignored ... (read in full...)

I have not started my period yet and am worried...

Q.   i am slightly worried i have not started my period yet and i am in year nine but my discharge has started going brown should i be worried ? i need some advice thanks ............

A.   30 May 2008: do not worry - every one starts at different ages - my mother started when she was 16 years old ( in year 11) and I started when I was 12 - if you are really concerned about the colour of your discharge then see your gp - but every one statrs ... (read in full...)

If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies as early as 2 months, will it only get worse?

Q.   If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies, as early within the first 2 months, does that mean it will only get worst??? is it best to end the relationship now before it gets to bad? ...

A.   30 May 2008: I can tell you definately to END IT NOW! I made the mistake of not ending it when I was 13 because I thought he cared - and I am now 15 with the same abusive guy who keeps trying to force me to have sex and I believe he is cheating on me . ( I know ... (read in full...)

If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies as early as 2 months, will it only get worse?

Q.   If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies, as early within the first 2 months, does that mean it will only get worst??? is it best to end the relationship now before it gets to bad? ...

A.   30 May 2008: I can tell you definately to END IT NOW! I made the mistake of not ending it when I was 13 because I thought he cared - and I am now 15 with the same abusive guy who keeps trying to force me to have sex and I believe he is cheating on me . ( I know ... (read in full...)

How do you lose resentment and stop being angry with someone?

Q.   How do you stop feeling angry towards someone? I lent my ex some money when we were together, before anyone says how stupid, it was suppose to be for 2 weeks until some money came through, i believed him when he said it was definitely on its way,...

A.   30 May 2008: I know how you feel in this situation- my current partner owes me 45 pounds - my mother is having the same problem with her partnner- I know it is not the same- but you get my drift. The anger is very difficult in this situation as I am ... (read in full...)

How do you lose resentment and stop being angry with someone?

Q.   How do you stop feeling angry towards someone? I lent my ex some money when we were together, before anyone says how stupid, it was suppose to be for 2 weeks until some money came through, i believed him when he said it was definitely on its way,...

A.   30 May 2008: I know how you feel with this one - my current boyfriend owes me 45 pounds- my mother has the same problem with her partner- debts can ruin relationships so once you have this money back refuse to lend him any more money unless he is in a very ... (read in full...)

Why can't I stay away from this woman that keeps making up then breaking up? Why am I in this childish relationship?...

Q.   What a mess I have made of my life. I met the woman of my dreams 10 months ago. Tall, beautiful, funny, sexy, great career, an absolute dream. Things were amazing immediately. The chemistry was out of this world. After a few months of dating we ...

A.   30 May 2008: I think this women you are talking about is only doing this because of either insecurities or as she said mental problems - you may be going back to her because you know she can be kind and loving at times - I think you need to talk to a ... (read in full...)

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