Two men want to marry me, but there are aspects I love and ones I hate about both of them!
Q. I'm going crazy. I've been with one man for alomost 4 years. During these 4 years he's been very non-commital, neglectful of our relationship, and has left me more times than I can count. I decided to break up with him on May 13th, and that nig...
A. 13 July 2006: This is going to be really really hard for you babes, but I think NEITHER are right for you. You are young and you have plenty of time to meet someone else. Start again without either of them, you have experienced enough sadness and stress and need ... (read in full...)
How can I get a healthy sex life with my man again!!?
Q. My problem is my sex life with my bf. Things used to be great but now I cant get him to see it from my point of view. We have been living together 3 years, at first the sex was all the time everyday more than once, then it slowed down a bit to a ...
A. 30 June 2006: Does he have a lot on his mind at the moment or perhaps he is feeling pressured because you keep asking him for sex. Maybe you need to try the tactic of spending less time together out of the comfortable mode and more time with your friends etc...so ... (read in full...)
How can I get a healthy sex life with my man again!!?
Q. My problem is my sex life with my bf. Things used to be great but now I cant get him to see it from my point of view. We have been living together 3 years, at first the sex was all the time everyday more than once, then it slowed down a bit to a ...
A. 30 June 2006: I would suggest spicing things up by dressing up a bit. Basically after 3 years (I have been with my husband this long) things do get a bit dull as you see that person so regularly and the spice and excitement wanes. Try wearing stockings and ... (read in full...)
Is it worth trying again ? Hes scared of being hurt again so he got cold feet!!
Q. I cant seem to get over this guy I was with briefly 18 months ago. We split up coz he couldnt cope with getting hurt again - well thats what I interpreted! I started to like him so was hurt, annoyed and felt used and told him! He had s...
A. 30 June 2006: No it is worth speaking to him about things, honesty is always the best policy - so pluck up the courage especially if you still want to give it another go. You have very little to lose and lots to gain. Perhaps there has been a simple ... (read in full...)
What is a posh wank?
Q. I've heard my mates talk about it but I'm too embarrased to ask what they're on about.......... What is a "posh wank"?...
A. 30 June 2006: I have never heard of this either if it makes you feel any better - you learn something new every day! ;)... (read in full...)
When I married my husband I knew I wasn't really attracted to his looks, Now theres this guy from the gym whose perfect!
Q. Please help me I am ina real dilemma. I got married 8 months ago to a really caring nice man who is 8 years younger than me, but I will be truthful, he has never been my ideal man looks wise although I find him attractive but we have always got ...
A. 30 June 2006: Dear M3T,
Thanks a male opinion is really valued and is probably the answer my own husband would want. He is a lovely guy and I know that but I cannot change my feelings and I hate myself for the butterflies and the feelings of excitement at the ... (read in full...)
I am falling for a customer at work!
Q. I work in a hotel as a manager, and we have a long term regular mon - fri guest,who i get along with very well. He is staying with us for the next 18months, due to work commitments. We have been out a few times with some of my colleagues. We seem t...
A. 30 June 2006: I would say STOP! Your jobs on the line with this one and he has a girlfriend. This is not worth pursuing - the position would be VERY DIFFERENT, if you were planning to move company and he didnt have the girlfriend - but this is not the situation. ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps texting me and it's jerking my chain every time!
Q. Hello, I have a prob and I'm not sure what to do about it. I've written in before about the suprise breakup, and that after a month of not talking nor texting which was really very hard I kept my distance, then one day in the early hours of the ...
A. 30 June 2006: I think he wants to make peace with you and feels bad - noone can say why feelings change in love its really hard to say. From what I can see I woudl imagine he still cares and loves you but is not in love with you - good luck x ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps texting me and it's jerking my chain every time!
Q. Hello, I have a prob and I'm not sure what to do about it. I've written in before about the suprise breakup, and that after a month of not talking nor texting which was really very hard I kept my distance, then one day in the early hours of the ...
A. 30 June 2006: I think he wants to make peace with you and feels bad - noone can say why feelings change in love its really hard to say. From what I can see I woudl imagine he still cares and loves you but is not in love with you - good luck x ... (read in full...)
Worried about my health!
Q. hey guys, the other day me and my boyfriend got a bit randy on a country walk, and snuck off and had sex in a field.(not elegant, i know!) Anyway, we both just got tested for std's before it just for a general check-up. But since then, my vagina ...
A. 30 June 2006: It sounds like you may have got bitten by something - were you lying down in grass? anything could have crawled up there and biteen you! TAKE TIME OFF WORK - Your health is more important and you need to get checked up as you may have an infection x ... (read in full...)
Why is he so full on then nothing??
Q. Met a guy on the internet got on really well had several dates we both liked each other he is younger than me and single im separated which he knows, but we were supposed to meet up for a date after he text me,but then never got back to me . Just ...
A. 30 June 2006: Ask him how he feels, this would be easy in an email. Is he nervous about the fact you are separated, maybe he just wants to be friends. Only he can tell you the answer - forget game playing and wondering - at least if he is not interested you can ... (read in full...)
He loves me but has never asked me out...am i just a friend??
Q. We are calling each other everyday and night, he calls all these nice names but he never asked me out or never tells me that he loves me. Could he see me as just a friend. ...
A. 30 June 2006: Put your feelings on the line and ask him how he feels about you, are you just a friend or does he want more. He is not a mind reader. Be straight with him if you speak every night he is obviously keen to talk to you and regarsd you as a great ... (read in full...)
He loves me but has never asked me out...am i just a friend??
Q. We are calling each other everyday and night, he calls all these nice names but he never asked me out or never tells me that he loves me. Could he see me as just a friend. ...
A. 30 June 2006: Put your feelings on the line and ask him how he feels about you, are you just a friend or does he want more. He is not a mind reader. Be straight with him if you speak every night he is obviously keen to talk to you and regarsd you as a great ... (read in full...)
Is he taking showers to wash away the evidence of his cheating!?
Q. It was my b/f's b-day. I am with him over the year. Just wanted an opinion. I remember when i was with him last summer--he would sometimes take showers when i came over and in the winter not so much..he works inside as well as outside so i can ...
A. 30 June 2006: Give him the benefit of the doubt, you need more evidence that this - perhaps he is just hot and yes I do think you are being paranoid xxx ... (read in full...)
Should my sister let destiny take its course... Or just forget about her fella from Stoke?
Q. Hi, I am 16 years old and I have a older sister who is going to be 21 next week.My sister has fall head over heels for a bloke the same age who lives in stoke he is a family friend and she occasionally sees him every week but due to circumstances ...
A. 30 June 2006: Teel her to give him a call and let him know how she feels. She has absolutely nothing to lose. Forget destiny - you amke yuour own life decisions. Life is short. Whats the worst he can feel flattered but say no thanks. At least let he put herself ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is controlling and I have no life, aged 26... Should I give him the heave-ho? Yes - or no?
Q. hi all,i have a BIG problem my b/f is very controlling to the point it has become mentally abusive.a small example the other night i suggested we watch a film,half way through i started nodding off he saw and turned my head towards the t.v and said ...
A. 30 June 2006: 10 years is a long time and a difficult one to let go of. At the end of the day you have to think is this making you happy. A relationship should be about being happier not sadder - you have to possibly spend another 10, 20 30 years like THIS? The ... (read in full...)
My insecurities have driven her away!!
Q. Hi, I am having some serious relationship problems with my girlfriend. I have been with her for nearly 18 months now and I love her deeply. The problem seems to be my insecurities, I have never really been particularly lucky in love, I put in m...
A. 30 June 2006: I think you should have a time out from each other and let he miss you. She needs to need you again, and this will help to make you feel more secure, it sounds like she is blaming you for what is not really your insecurities. Of course you will feel ... (read in full...)
I cant seem to find the right guys to date! What is it I'm doing wrong ?
Q. I seem to have a problem attracting the right men. e.g at work there are 4 blokes that have asked me out. One of them is married and one has a fiance and i am not planning to wreck a marriage any time soon. one is a divorced badboy and the other is ...
A. 30 June 2006: You are not doing anything wrong - it's natural to want to feel wanted and flirting is a way of checking on your attractiveness to others. The fact that all these men find you attractive means you must be doing something right - so dont lose that! ... (read in full...)
Am I just being Gullible ? is he cheating constantly and he actually caught this STD recently ?
Q. Hi, i really need some help. I'm 21, been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 and a half years. He's a natural flirt which is hard but i deal with. I may be looking for things here but i need an outsiders point of view. Last year he went to magaluf with ...
A. 30 June 2006: He IS cheating on you. No you are not being gullible he's caught this from someone recently - I would bin him now - that'll send him into shock - you deserve better babes - good luck x ... (read in full...)
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