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writes: Met a guy on the internet got on really well had several dates we both liked each other he is younger than me and single im separated which he knows, but we were supposed to meet up for a date after he text me,but then never got back to me . Just wandered why he was so full on then nothing! i know he likes me
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (30 June 2006):
Did he lie to you and has infact got a girlfriend and hes been caught out ? Without sounding rude, did you sleep with him ? You say you had several dates, did it get as far as having sex, because if it did it sounds like he got what he came for. If not hes got cold feet and decided to do a runner. Lots of people out there on the internet pray on the single or the seperated or even the married to get their perks. I found out the hard way a few years back, dated a couple from the internet, you think things are going great guns then all of a sudden as much as they say they like you and how they want to be with you, someone else comes along that also takes there fancy, im not saying they are all like it, but its a bit like a hunting ground at times the internet so just tread carefully. one guy did the same to me we meet up didnt live that far from one another, had a few dates things were going well, id arranged to cook dinner for him and he never turned up and that was the last of it, i hadnt even slept with him so he was obviously playing some sort of game.. this was about 6 years ago, so im guessing its now ten times worse on the internet these days. There are alot that just meet up for thrills give you all the flattery you need, make you feel wonderful just to get what they want have fun and then bolt when they have had thier fill. You may have to put this down to experience, but at least next time you will maybe be to be a bit more wary.
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reader, amelia +, writes (30 June 2006):
Ask him how he feels, this would be easy in an email. Is he nervous about the fact you are separated, maybe he just wants to be friends. Only he can tell you the answer - forget game playing and wondering - at least if he is not interested you can know once and for all and if he is then GREAT!! xxx
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