While my boyfriend's in hospital, I'm bending over backwards to see him... and he's joking that the nurses fancy him!
Q. I dont know what to do. My boyfriend is in hospital having a operation. I have been to see him every night so far and stayed with him all weekend. This is very tiring as I work from 9-5 every day and the hospital he is in is 1.5 hours away. I...
A. 20 February 2006: You are right. He is feeling down at the moment and a little vulnerable. Operations are yuck. Yet the fact you have bought it to his attention should alert him to your feelings. Because if his ignorance, When he mentions it again, perhaps you could ... (read in full...)
Since our relationship went long-distance, he only has time for a 3-minute phone call!
Q. My boyfriend has moved all the way across the country. Now every time we talk on the phone he says he has to go after only about 3 minutes. I love this man. Should I wait for him?...
A. 20 February 2006: Hi - I wouldn't be worried. If he didn't want to talk to you he would avoid your calls altogether. Have you thought long distance means expensive calls? perhaps you could send him a little card telling him how much he means to you with him a call ... (read in full...)
She tried to text another guy, I've cheated with someone else. The trust is gone. What do I do?
Q. I have been going out with my g friend for nearly 2 years. We really love each other but to be honest I have been unfaithful to her. She does not know this but I haven't got the courage to tell her. I love her very much and I trusted her with all my ...
A. 18 February 2006: Don't turn it around on your Girlfriend!!You are making her suffer so you don't have to feel bad when you cheated! Be a man and come clean and tell her you understand it wasn't the right thing she did, but you also haven't been doing the right thing ... (read in full...)
Every time we row, he gets in contact with his ex and tells me how much more beautiful and better she is...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for approximately 8 months, but we were together before as well! We have dated on and off since I was 14 (22 now). I need some advice. We get on brilliantly but row when we have a drink. I get mad coz whenever...
A. 18 February 2006: Get rid of him. The other girl has the right idea. Maybe she got rid of him, and he is with you becasue she doesn't want him? I'm sure you're lovely, so get rid of him. What a child!... (read in full...)
The number of my wife's past partners keeps creeping up!
Q. My wife of eleven years recently told me she had more sexual partners than she first said. Way back, the number was four. We were having an argument one night and it came out that she had slept with someone else. I was convinced it was while sh...
A. 18 February 2006: Yes, she's in a no win situation. If she told you the truth you would be shattered, and if you found out you would be shattered. I guess you need to realise whatever happened before you two met is irrelevant. Not everyone is squeaky clean. So let it ... (read in full...)
My daughter is getting married and moving far away-how do I let go?
Q. My daughter is 24 yrs old and has lived at home all her life. I'm her dad btw. We live in Austin and after she gets married she's moving to London because her fiancee got a job there. I keep on hearing and reading things like I'm going to be ...
A. 18 February 2006: Hi
The feelings a girl has for her husband are completely different from those she has for her Daddy. Don't worry. It will be fine. Just remeber if she has little arguments with him, she'll propbably always confide in you and know you will alwa... (read in full...)
He gave his number to a girl who fancies him...isn't that leading her on?
Q. Me and my boy friend have been together for 2 years with a 3 month split in the middle because he is joining the army. Whilst waiting to go in the army he has got a job at a sport shop. Previously i found out that a girl called "julie" fancied him. ...
A. 18 February 2006: Tit for tat i say. Be a bit mysterious and see how he likes it. Get someone to call you when he will be there and let him see what it feels like. The difference is you aren't doing anything wrong whereas he may be. After all Why give that girl his ... (read in full...)
He wants to have a threesome...
Q. My boyfriend of over a year has always teased about having a threesome with another women and keeps telling me that I would enjoy it. I have passed it off as a joke until recently when I asked him the same question that I have asked tons of times...
A. 18 February 2006: Tell him you are interested in a threesome. No worries..but you want him and another man!! then watch his reaction! Sometimes he has to realise we just don't get what we want. And hoepfully wanting you in his life will bring him back from his ... (read in full...)
Isn't throwing out one's gf, unacceptable under any circumstances? Feedback needed.
Q. My boyfriend threw me out at a party we gave for friends at home; just because I replied what he perceived as sarcastically to a question I felt insulted by him asking since it belittled me ; now we are apart; I feel hurt and utterly mortifie...
A. 18 February 2006: His behavior was both demaning and a total lack of respect. So to speak, he might as well have hit you, as he has already humiliated you and assaulted and abused you in front of other people. That is unforgiveable. Move on before it's worse.... (read in full...)
Walked in on my boyfriend and discovered his DVD of porn!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and I love him very much and don't wont to lose him. But this morning I found a porn film in his room. We have descused porn before and I've explained that I personaly don't like it. But the issue is that I ...
A. 18 February 2006: You shouldn't feel bad. It's not something with you personally. It's just that he may like a bit of stimulation and his dvd gives him this. Would you feel any different if it was a playboy mag? Maybe that might help you. The other thing is, what ... (read in full...)
When I mention that I want to meet her, my online girl won't give me a straight answer! What's going on?
Q. I met this girl online and i talk to her online and on the phone, we get along great we can talk for hours i've mention a couple of times that i want to meet her in person, but never gives me a straight answer.I really liked this girl and i really ...
A. 18 February 2006: Cyberspace is both good and bad. The truth of the fact is you don't know who and what you are really talking too. It could be a guy, but his sister was on the phone! It's not a good idea, and I don't think internet romances last. ... (read in full...)
I think he's unattractive, but for some reason when he asked me out, I said OK...
Q. Hey, this boy really fancies me and although I don't like him back I still flirt with him. On Valentines Day I got off with him! I don't know why as I don't see him as attractive and think that he is ugly, but he has asked me out and I don't want ...
A. 18 February 2006: I think you are nasty. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot. don't ask us- you know if you like him or if you don't. You honestly know the answer, so don't be a so and so and finally let him down gently and find someone who trully likes him for ... (read in full...)
Long distance has been tough for us, but now she's gone totally quiet!
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. Things have been great, we have had tough times, but always get through it. We are both have committed to making it last. The last two weeks it has gone wrong somewhere. Contact ...
A. 18 February 2006: the fact she basically told you she's been partying every single night and staying with friends shows you she has no consideration for your feelings. Even if that was the case, she would also end the sentence with a reassurance to you to let you ... (read in full...)
Does he want a relationship, one night stand or have I scared him away by a text?
Q. Submitted this question before but there was an error so here it is again:- This guy and I have been close friends for just under 2 months but known each other for years. I am getting mixed signals from him and I think he is feeling the same way...
A. 18 February 2006: My solution is stop texting him. Communication is the key to any relationship and it is very early in the dating game, so hee needs and rightly expects communication. I am a firm believer in not playing mysterious games. If you like someone, let ... (read in full...)
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