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writes: Me and my boy friend have been together for 2 years with a 3 month split in the middle because he is joining the army. Whilst waiting to go in the army he has got a job at a sport shop. Previously i found out that a girl called "julie" fancied him. this didnt bother me because no girl wants a bf that no one else fancies. he was over at my house the other day and i was joking around and said something that wasnt very nice i ws joking but straight away i knew it hurt him. i appologised repeatedly but he was still upset wit me. i went down stairs and took a pic of myself pulling a sad face and said sorry as many times as the message would allow me to. i went up stairs looked at his phone and he had a message. he read it but i wernt the one from me, he said it was his mate askin if he was out at the weekend. i didnt think anything of it until he was looking in his message box to see if my message had come through and there was a message from "julie" not "adam". i read the message and it was nothing to worry about but why did he lie? why did he give this girl his number? surely giving your number to someone who fancies you is leading them on! what do i do? should i be worried? Reply to this Question
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reader, amandairene +, writes (18 February 2006):
Tit for tat i say. Be a bit mysterious and see how he likes it. Get someone to call you when he will be there and let him see what it feels like. The difference is you aren't doing anything wrong whereas he may be. After all Why give that girl his number??? Why lie???? Then when he confronts you about your secret admirer, have it out with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2006): You're worried right now. [ahem]The only thing you can do is proceed to question him about this girl, but of course, nagging him to death just makes it worst. I mean seriously, this guy doesn't seem like much to me, to deserve your favor. If he lies on such a simple fact, can he really be honorable enough to continue a truthful relationship with you?
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