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writes: I have been going out with my g friend for nearly 2 years. We really love each other but to be honest I have been unfaithful to her. She does not know this but I haven't got the courage to tell her. I love her very much and I trusted her with all my heart.But last week I found out she has been trying to text another guy. I found out about it and it resulted in a lot of pain. She cried for days and begged me to take her back. I did because I loved her, but I'm afraid she will do it again. This other guy is good looking and I'm afraid she still likes him. She swears to me she doesn't, but she has lied so many times now over this thing I can't believe her anymore. I don't trust her anymore.What do you suggest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): to be honest i think your totally in the wrong. Ok you found out she had been cheating on you with another guy and your saying you dont trust her anymore but you said you've been unfaithful to her too?? It cant be all shame one way and not the other, be a man and tell her you've been unfaithful to her aswell. i dont know whats wrong with you men!
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reader, amandairene +, writes (18 February 2006):
Don't turn it around on your Girlfriend!!You are making her suffer so you don't have to feel bad when you cheated! Be a man and come clean and tell her you understand it wasn't the right thing she did, but you also haven't been doing the right thing by her! Hopefully as you have both made mistakes, you can both decide if it's worth pursuing or not.
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reader, jamesd +, writes (17 February 2006):
jamesd is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno hi im very sorry i think use have the wrong end of the stick i did it on her but i did tell her straight away, i told her everything except a few minor details, i love her and still want to be with her but do you believe i can trust her again
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2006): that is so wrong of you to be making her feel bad about texting some guy when you have gone out and gone that one step further and cheated, be a man and tell her so she can have the choice if she wants to waste anymore time with you.
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