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writes: My boyfriend has moved all the way across the country. Now every time we talk on the phone he says he has to go after only about 3 minutes. I love this man. Should I wait for him? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, shania +, writes (20 February 2006):
No i wouldnt wait for him.If your boyfriend can only spare 3 minutes on the phone to you then im afraid he is being inconsiderate....and doesnt seem to care about you as much as he should.It sounds like he is ringing you out of duty and nothing else.Any fella who went away and was missing his girlfriend would want to spend as much time as he could by chatting to her on the phone.Not giving it 3 mins...as if you should be grateful.I think you should move on....it does sound like he has.
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reader, amandairene +, writes (20 February 2006):
Hi - I wouldn't be worried. If he didn't want to talk to you he would avoid your calls altogether. Have you thought long distance means expensive calls? perhaps you could send him a little card telling him how much he means to you with him a call collect phone card or something. I think the fact he is talking to you, even for 3 minutes, shows he wants to. Good luck.
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