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Dating an ex-boyfriends best friend..go? or no go?
Q. Should I take this risk... I was a guy around four months ago and it didn't work out between us however we are still on speaking terms and I would say we are 'aquaintances' rather than friends. Over the past month or so me and a friend of his ha...
A. 4 September 2009: Well, if it doesn't feel right. I'd say it's a no go. If you really want it and want him. Then go for it, be with him, but think about how your ex will feel.
I feel for you because I have had similar problems.
I think you should try and g... (read in full...)
I've moved on but his friends haven't!
Q. Ok i was dumped by my 1st love about 2 months ago now, it was a traumatic time, expecially when we both decided we must be friends as we hang around in the same group socially. But a week ago a new interest came along, and i decided i would give him ...
A. 4 September 2009: I'd say go out with other people. Just chill. Blow those other people off. They really shouldn't make you feel bad. If they do they aren't true friends. And as far as rumors go, laugh them off, because you know they aren't true and thats all t... (read in full...)
How to heal a broken heart while being around people who are in love
Q. I have recently been trying to get over a breakup. I have been very sensitive emotionally. My emotions become intensified when I am around my older sister. She has a relationship now with a guy who she is in love with. She thinks this may be the ...
A. 4 September 2009: Go out meet new people. Do something you like. Hang out with friends. Have a girls day with your closest friends and have a sleepover.
You will find the right person. Just be patient and be supportive of her relationship.
Goodluck! ... (read in full...)
Basically I feel totally unwanted uncared for and hopeless.... yet I love him so madly...
Q. Well, I am hitting severe depression over this problem. So please someone help. today i almost ended my relationship with my boyfriend we have been together almost 2 and half years. Im constantly feeling totally unwanted and uncared ...
A. 4 September 2009: Why do you make the first move.
Do something romantic with him; something outgoign and new. Plan a romantic evening for two or and walk under the stars.
I'm sure he still loves you, but I understand it's frusturating.
Goodluck!... (read in full...)
Friends with the ex--is it stupid of me to think that the friendship might last?
Q. Hey, Well about 1 month ago me and my girlfriend of about 2 yearas (not quite) borke up, on good terms. At the time it was more of a break, to take one step back. Anyway, as most relationships say, we made a promise to always be bestfriends / fr...
A. 4 September 2009: From a female's point of view I'd say look around. You should go out and put yourself out there.
It is unfair of her to ask you to wait for her forever. You are better than that.
But, it you really think she is the one. Wait, see what happens... (read in full...)
Not even a peck yet! Should I make a move?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks...we both have expressed interest in each other. BUT, so far not even a peck! I know he is shy and wants to take things slow. But, the tension is killing me! Should I make a move? Will he be put off ...
A. 4 September 2009: Make the first move. He is probably just as nervous as you.
State your independence. I'm sure he will like it(:
goodluck!... (read in full...)
Don't want it to end, but scared I am no longer 'in' love
Q. I have been with my fiancé for eight years now. I was madly in love with him and I still do love him but I am scared I am no longer 'in' love with him. I have to make a decision about what to do. We have always had hard things to deal with. He...
A. 26 August 2009: Ah, god. My sister just recently went through the same thing. You may not like the advice I give you now.
I think you should tell your fiancé how you feel. If you honestly can't imagine yourself with him. Move on because someone great could be... (read in full...)
Had sex with her, but she lied about her age - shes underage but now wants it every time we meet. What should I do?
Q. I'm 18 and she's 15 ... i really like her but she's fairly sexually aggressive and it's illegal ... what should i do? i mean she's not only in it for sex but she loves it ... she had told me she was 16 at the beginning and i apparently did something ...
A. 26 August 2009: It is not worth it. If she really cared about you and not just sex she'd wait.
You need to be mature and tell her to control herself.
Goodluck!... (read in full...)
I have a reunion with my ex in 2 weeks and now he's disappeared.
Q. For the last month, my ex and i started talking again, and it's been so wonderful, he really made the effort, because he had been really hurt. and we've been talking everyday, and been planning to meet up again, for the first time in a over a year. ...
A. 26 August 2009: I honestly don't think he cares that much. If he did he would do everything he could to be there.
Don't worry about what he does. I think you should move on and find someone who appreciates you.
Goodluck!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks it was ok for his friends to spike my drink!
Q. My bf's friends spiked my drink with alcohol. This really upset me because I dont drink. He thinks its ok that they spiked my drink. He doesnt understand why its upsetting and completely wrong. Why doesnt he understand? I was sick for the nex...
A. 26 August 2009: That was horrible and disrespectful. He was being a jackass obviously!
I think he thought it was funny, but I completely disagree. I, myself, cant handle alcohol.
Tell him how you feel.
Goodluck darling!... (read in full...)
Need closure for a fling
Q. Hey! I just have to get this out of my chest and maybe some of you can help me also. Here's my story. A couple of years ago, I was living in a different city and I met a guy. Our time together was really brief (we had a fling for four days) because ...
A. 26 August 2009: I think that this man is just an exciting, fresh new thing. I have no doubt you love the man you are with, but this fling was so hot so new.
My advice would be do something exciting and new with your present boyfriend. Take a trip. Plan a romant... (read in full...)
We have dated others but were always having sex with each other!
Q. Hi I am 23 yrs old and I've been dating this guy for 5yrs on and off again. Well, in that time he have had other girlfriends and I have had other boyfriends, but we never stopped having sex with each other. We always been there for each other no ...
A. 26 August 2009: You two love each other. Right? ask him if anyone else could make him feel the way you make him feel? The only way you two will know if you two truly belong together is if you try. So try. He probably loves you just as much as you love him.
Tell ... (read in full...)
After b/f found out I'd been sexually abused, he no longer wanted to have sex
Q. soo, im 18 years old and my boyfriend and i are ready to have sex. the thing is when i was younger i was sexually abused. ive have years of therapy and ive come to terms with what happened to me. ive accepted it and im ok, and even with what ...
A. 26 August 2009: It sounds to me that your boyfriend is a great guy. He obviously loves you so much that he would never want to hurt you even if that meant jeopardizing what he wants so much.
Tell him you love him. And trust him with your whole heart. Tell him... (read in full...)
My past makes me nervous about sex
Q. Okay, I REALLY need help! My explanation is quite dark so...be warned if you happen to be under 16 (just in case, don't want any tweens getting freaked out) I am 19 and my bf is 21 and we are going to have sex for the first time...soon. And I am a v...
A. 19 August 2009: I know someone with a similar situation. I think you are young and in love. If I was in your position I would wait until marriage, but I realize you don't want to wait. So, I think you should ask yourself Do I love him? Why do you want to have sex ... (read in full...)
If he's lying about little things, is he capable of more?
Q. I found out my husband lied to me about a few things. They were things he didn't really need to lie about, like talking to his ex and going on pornsites. If the conversation with her was innocent, I don't see why he should hide it, and it really ...
A. 19 August 2009: Well, you know what they say it starts with small lies and becomes a disastrous lie. I would advice addressing the lie. Asking him why he lied. Ask him his justification and decide whether or not you agree. If not, tell him that if he continues to ... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me?
Q. Theres a guy named Blake that rides my bus and he acts kinda weird. Ok he is always staring at me. Like on Friday I was sitting on the bus with one of my friends and he came on and looked at me then looked away really fast and went and sat close to ...
A. 19 August 2009: I think you should ask this person. Don't waste time wondering. Go for it. See how he feels, but don't be discouraged if he says no. Guys are sometimes immature and embarrassed about liking someone. Goodluck darling!... (read in full...)
Is the married man I'm seeing the one for me?
Q. I really don't know how to put this without seeming like the bad guy or appearing incredibly stupid. But I am going to try as I really need advice even though it seems so stupid. I have been seeing a married man for over 2 years now. He is slightly ...
A. 19 August 2009: Darling, you are in love. You see only the good times. You don't want to believe the only person you care about is wrong for you. I understand it is hard to hear people say you are the bad guy because in your mind you are just fighting for the one ... (read in full...)
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