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36-40,
*tssimplyme
writes:Well,I am hitting severe depression over this problem. So please someone help.today i almost ended my relationship with my boyfriend we have been together almost 2 and half years.Im constantly feeling totally unwanted and uncared for.It seems like i am banging my head up a brick wall because when i try to discuss it he says that im "nagging" again. and then proceeds to ignore me.Basically, he rarely talks to me, always got plenty of other things to do that dont involve me. Sex is random and rare. Showing he loves me and the nice romantic things he used to do never ever happen anymore.Ive asked him if he has someone else he states no he loves me. I have also asked him if i bore him he says no.Lots of times his mother is demanding him to do this and that, ie: decorate, strip wallpaper and such things, but its not only like once or twice its regular each week. I love him to help his mother i really respect that but after he has helped its like im pushed away, he tired or just wants to watch tv. Then another think is he said just today.. "he loves TV" i stated to him you love it more than me he then said i am gonna watch telly you knew im a telly addict when you met me.Over the two and half years Ive never had a birthday card, christmas card or nothing from him, i do know he has very little spare money but still it hurts. Basically i feel totally unwanted uncared for and hopeless.... yet i love him so madly...Please help someone if i cry much more i wont cope.Thanks
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reader, aisforacting  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 Why do you make the first move.
Do something romantic with him; something outgoign and new. Plan a romantic evening for two or and walk under the stars.
I'm sure he still loves you, but I understand it's frusturating.
Goodluck!
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