Three days after we broke up, he called like nothing happened...
Q. When a guy breaks up with you and then calls 3 days later to ask how your weekend was, what does it mean? Is he just trying to stroke his ego or does he genuinely miss you? How should I play it from here on in to get him back?...
A. 27 March 2006: we actually broke up. I think he was just stroking his ego, saying that, he said he would call again soon! Why? Why does he want to keep calling me? Surely he is aware its over.......... (read in full...)
Is it ever possible to win someone back?
Q. is their any ways i can get a lad back, i feel sooo much for him, he is currently with a girl at the moment, but i want to let him know im their for him. i want him so much. please help...
A. 26 March 2006: sounds to me like you had your chance and blew it. You need to respect this new relationship and keep away or you are asking for trouble. There are plenty more fish in the sea, go do some fishing girl!! xxx... (read in full...)
How do I found out if the rumours about my partner's cheating are true?
Q. I am 7 months pregnant by my partner of 4 years. Another couple we know told me yesterday that he cheated on me 4 months ago. He denies it and says they're lying. How do I find out the truth? If it's true, what do I do? I asked for the other ...
A. 26 March 2006: Believe your instincts! Is he the kind of guy that would cheat? Do you have reason to doubt him? Would this other couple tell you lies? Who do you trust the most?
If it is true it is up to on what you decide..once a cheater always a cheater. Ther... (read in full...)
Three days after we broke up, he called like nothing happened...
Q. When a guy breaks up with you and then calls 3 days later to ask how your weekend was, what does it mean? Is he just trying to stroke his ego or does he genuinely miss you? How should I play it from here on in to get him back?...
A. 21 March 2006: thanks guys! No I dont intend on chasing him! He called again last night and I missed the call and he left a message on my answering machine. If needed he will call again, but i must say, at this point it is doing my ego wonders!! Ill keep you ... (read in full...)
How to choose between two lovers?
Q. Have you ever found your self within a situation , were you were torn between two lovers, how were you able to decide, which one is right for you or were you even able to. ...
A. 20 March 2006: it never works! If you are torn now then neither is right for you. If you knew who was the right one, you would know! Does that make sense? Good luck!... (read in full...)
I don't think my best friend's boyfriend is good enough for her!
Q. everytime i see my bestfrien with her bf it drives me crazy, she deserves so much better then him. if i try to persue a relationship with her and fail , im afraid i will loose a lot more then just pride. Our friendship is special, and i wouldnt want ...
A. 20 March 2006: I think you just need to ask hte question if they are happy or not. If your friend is, then you can do nothing but support them and give them your blessing. Getting in between two people in a relationship always spells disaster for the third ... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual, interested in a young man, and the object of a woman's affection too!
Q. I’m a bisexual male. Not totally ‘out’, only ‘out’ to my closest friends. I have had sexual ‘relations’ with both males and females, but I find myself attracted more to males rather than females. Two things are bothering at the moment: 1. There ...
A. 15 March 2006: Id hate to be the bearer of bad tidings but it sounds like this guy is open minded, but straight. Maybe he is aware of you intentions and that is why he is keeping back a bit on the train. Play it safe. Be a mate first. Get to know him a bit better. ... (read in full...)
I think my boss is interested in me, but I just can't really tell
Q. i really like my boss...he has shown signs of someone who is interested. i've caught him giving me longing looks. Apparently, when I wasn't there and he was cashing up, my friend/colleague was on the phone to me and when my boss heard my name his ...
A. 15 March 2006: Darl, he is inerested! Just be careful..its your boss! Your job is on hte line, not his..make sure its not just physical attraction before you do anything, unless that is all you are interested in??Trust me though, he IS interested! Good luck! xxx... (read in full...)
Sex with my girlfriend only lasts 5-10 minutes! What can I do to slow down?
Q. My girlfriend and I have sex once in awhile, but we don't last 5 to 10 mins before I finish. Is there any reason for it and how can I fix it? Also, her cherry hasn't even broke, but she feels me pushing on it when we do have sex. Is there anythin...
A. 15 March 2006: believe me she has broken her cherry! Maybe she is confusing it with her cervix? Advicce? Dont penetrate straight away..try and be in a little more control in bed so you can run it at your pace..foreplay is wonderful! Even tell her to stop for a sec ... (read in full...)
He still texts the ex, and I don't feel comfortable with it!
Q. My boyfriend still texts his ex-girlfriend every day and tells me that they are still friends. At the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend, we didn't think our relationship would reach another level, so he kept his previous girlfrie...
A. 15 March 2006: By the sounds of what you have written, he cheated to be with you, and what do they say? Once a cheater always a cheater?? Be careful hon of what hes doing...maybe their relationship is not really over even though they say they are? A text a day is ... (read in full...)
In a month of dating, we've only seen each other four times. It's not enough for me!
Q. This is really bothering me. My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a month and we've seen each other about 4 times. It's been almost 5 days since we actually talked to each other. 4 times isn't enough for me, and in order for this r...
A. 15 March 2006: it sounds to me as though this guy is interested in you but wantys his free time with his mates too. You say that he has never had a girlfriend before..maybe he is just a bit clueless on how to treat you? The conclusion here i would say would be to ... (read in full...)
I've met someone else, how do I leave my current boyfriend?
Q. I am living with my boyfriend of six years and i am only with him for the sake of our 3 year old son. i am not in love with my boyfriend. recently i met a lovely man and hes everything my current boyfriend isnt. i want to leave my boyfriend and i ...
A. 14 March 2006: do not stay with someone for the sake of a child under any circumstances! QWhether you two are a couple or not, he will always be the father of your children! Be happy in life and go for it! You only live once!... (read in full...)
I don't want to not make him do what he wants, what should I do?
Q. I posted last month about my boyfriend planning to go on a working holiday overseas- thank you for all your replies, they were very helpful. Since then, I have decided to stay with my boyfriend, and everything has been great. I thought he would try ...
A. 14 March 2006: personally I would trust in my feelings and enjoy the ride. Even if the worst happens and you two dont last the distance, at least there will be some beautiful memories. Dont live in the what might be but live in hte here and now. Who knows? You two ... (read in full...)
Cesarean or natural pregnancy experiences wanted!
Q. Hi, I am 6 months pregnant and may need to have a c-section to deliver my baby. I am wanting other womans opinions on their experiences with both c-section and natural births. Thanks for any help you can give me....
A. 14 March 2006: I have had two children, both by natural birth. One with and one without drugs. I can tell you honestly, it does hurt without drugs, but it was quick. The pain doesnt last long and is so worth it. The one i had an epidural and gas with actually ... (read in full...)
Is a "break" sometimes a "break-up"?
Q. does a break mean a break up?...
A. 13 March 2006: thanks for your responses...I am in a dilemma where my boyfriend said he wanted a break to sort stuff out. I know he is going through a tough time at work and his kids just started school this year. We have been growing apart recently, but we are ... (read in full...)
She said she was happy to see her ex and that makes me feel awful...
Q. My girlfriend says she was really happy when she saw her ex boyfriend today. I felt super bad. Is it okay for her to say those kind of things? She never says she is happy to see me....
A. 13 March 2006: no its not ok and it sounds rather unhealthy for her to be catching up with her ex if she is with you..Are you sure this girl is sincere about you?... (read in full...)
Will a little break help our fighting and help her get her life back together?
Q. Hey I just need some advice. My gf and I have been getting into little fights and she is having trouble in school. She said she wanted to take a break and get shit back together. Should I be worried? Please help....
A. 13 March 2006: i dont think so. School is so important. Give her some time (not too much) and take it from there. I am sure she under immense pressure and just needs dome time out. Pretty hard to get time out from school, so maybe you were the next best thing. ... (read in full...)
My friend accused me of theft, then of lying about things. Can we patch up the friendship?
Q. I have recently fell out with my best friend because when we were drunk, she accused me of stealing some money from her. I was really hurt and haven't spoken to her since. This isn't the first occasion where she has hurt me. An earlier incident...
A. 13 March 2006: leave the friendship. To me it sounds as though it has run its course, yet you have bothered to write about it on here so it is affecting you. You need to address this issue with her and tell her how you are feeling and how you think it could be ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my boyfriend and his porn?
Q. I recently found pornography on my fiance's computer. This is the 4th time I have found it. He knows how much it hurts me, only this time he admitted that it was his. I'm sick about it. I don't know what to do. Help?...
A. 13 March 2006: all men like pornography. It is not up to you whether or not he has it on his computer because it is HIS computer! Ok, so it hurts you to find it..why? Does it make you feel insecure? Does it make you feel you are not good enough or what he wants? ... (read in full...)
I'm not comfortable when I'm at my boyfriend's house...
Q. Today is my bf's bday and I have to go to his house for a party. I've been with him for a year. I've gone to partiess at his house before for holidays but I always feel weird. How can I become comfortable?...
A. 13 March 2006: maybe you feel weird at his house because it is his surroundings and you feel threatened as you are not the centre of attention. Wrong!! You are beautiful and I am sure you would be the centre of his world no matter where you were, so pull it in and ... (read in full...)
I get the feeling my friend's husband is interested in me, and we have holidays planned together!
Q. I think my friend's husband is interested in me, and I'm not sure what to do. Never happened to me before! I've caught this man staring at me(ok-once or twice)in the last few weeks, and now I find out from my friend that he's unhappy in their...
A. 12 March 2006: i don't think you should feighn ignorance. I think you should tell your partner what you are thinkiing and feeling. This will allow certainty to your thoughts if they are real. I would go on hte holiday and if the situation comes up where he makes ... (read in full...)
Am I reading more into his messages than is there... or is he interested?
Q. A guy that I had been good friends with had to move for a job. Well he finally got his internet hooked up and we have been MSN messengering each other. I think from what he has been writing that he is interested in me as more than a friend. These ...
A. 12 March 2006: I think you are both missing each other. There is definately a bond between the pair of you. Saying that I think he feels unsettled and is relying on you as security. I don't think you should interpret these feelings he is having as anything more. ... (read in full...)
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