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writes: is their any ways i can get a lad back, i feel sooo much for him, he is currently with a girl at the moment, but i want to let him know im their for him. i want him so much. please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): I think you should just keep talking to him, act like nothing is wrong! be a good friend always and be a little flirty while talking. make him believe your the girl for him and he should relize it. dont give up!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): well you should say sorry for whatever you have done if you have if not then he is not worth it.whatever you do dont beg for him to come back 2 you i9f anything you should speak to him and tell him that you willbe there forhim and that you care no matter what xx
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reader, nerina +, writes (27 March 2006):
Do you really feel that it is in your best interests to get back with him? or do you think that with a bit of help and time you can move on? is he really worth this??
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (26 March 2006):
 Well I would say its possible but not always probable. I know the 'right' thing to do is respect this relationship but it's not always that simple although I agree that doing things at this stage is 'asking for trouble' in the sense it is likely to cause allot of heartache on all sides.
I think you have a choice: be there for him and see how things go, reconising you may have to keep a lid on how you feel or make a complete break or at least take some time out to heal, where you dont contact him and can't be there for him for a time. You could take the gamble and tell him how you feel but you do have to be prepared for rejection since it seems like he has healed and is over the relationship. Also be prepared for the fact that if you take this path it may end up with him making a complete break from you, if only for a time.
Which path you take is entirely up to you. Hope that helps.
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reader, addison +, writes (26 March 2006):
 sounds to me like you had your chance and blew it. You need to respect this new relationship and keep away or you are asking for trouble. There are plenty more fish in the sea, go do some fishing girl!! xxx
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