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writes: I posted last month about my boyfriend planning to go on a working holiday overseas- thank you for all your replies, they were very helpful. Since then, I have decided to stay with my boyfriend, and everything has been great. I thought he would try to cool things off, but we have actually been seeing each other more, and I feel we are closer than ever. However, at the same time it's so hard because while I'm trying to just enjoy my time with him and act as though everything is ok, I feel awful, and I'm so worried that he will go away, and realise he doesn't miss me enough to come back. Any advice on what to do, and how to deal with this? I know I can't pressure him to not do what he wants, but I can't handle this uncertainty either, and wish there was someway I could get him to make a decision before he actually leaves. Reply to this Question
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reader, addison +, writes (14 March 2006):
 personally I would trust in my feelings and enjoy the ride. Even if the worst happens and you two dont last the distance, at least there will be some beautiful memories. Dont live in the what might be but live in hte here and now. Who knows? You two could probably make it if its real! :) good luck!@
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