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She's 14. So how do I get over her? and just forget?
Q. hi, so im having trouble getting over this girl... the more i think about her the more attracted i am to her. she 14 im 18 she added me as a friend on facebook cos she's mates with my brother, got talking flriting and that, once she was so upset...
A. 6 January 2012: Something I learnt about getting over people: it seems utterly impossible, but actually, with the right motivation it doesn't have to be as long a process as you might think, particuarly since nothing has actually happened between you guys, it's ... (read in full...)
He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?
Q. I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a ...
A. 14 November 2011: Don't do it! If he is pressuring you into doing things that you don't want to, and aren't ready for, he's not worth your time. I know it's hard to hear, but if he really cared about you he wouldn't be trying to push you into this, let him know that ... (read in full...)
This can't be love, so why cant I let go?
Q. I am in a very unhealthy relationship with my boyfriend. We have currently been on and off for about 8 months. We've dated prior to this as well. We constantly break up and get back together. I make excuses for his out of control behavior and I b...
A. 22 June 2009: Leave him, this really isn't good for you. But since you're finding it hard, why don't you organise to do a lot with your mates, find things to fill your time so you won't feel the need to go back to him again, and try and break out of the cycle of ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom that I'm gay?
Q. well im almost 14 in like 2 months nd im gay im scared to tell my mom because everyone in my family thinks im trying to be like my sister and my sisters gay to and my dad is very religous and he told me not to tell him if i was ever gay but im ...
A. 15 September 2008: Hiya, I have to admit I actually disagree with some of the answers posted here; I think there can be more reasons for wanting to come out than just the neccesity because of relationships etc. I'm not saying you should tell your mum yet, but I know ... (read in full...)
I fell for one of my best mates. I don't know how to ask her out.
Q. Okay, well I guess I'll start from the beginning... About a month ago, I fell for one of my best mates, also female. I've told her and I think she feels the same way. I would rather not ask her, as I've inquired about her current crush, and she stil...
A. 29 May 2008: Can't say for certain on liking you back, but a good way to test if someone is truly okay with your sexuality is to try talking to them about girls, someone you have a bit of a crush on or something. I've found it really shows the difference between ... (read in full...)
All my friends have turned against me, and my problems just keep getting bigger. Help!
Q. I am 15 years old, and i have a very big problem. For tthe past 3 or so years, i have had huge crushes on other boys from my year even when i had a girlfriend. It wasn't so much of a problem, as i kept it to myself all the time. This wasn't a ...
A. 29 May 2008: OBviously I'm a girls so can't comment on the friendship thing, but with regards to C, if you're sure that he was playing along as much as you were then it might well be that he's insecure about his sexuality himself, not necessarily that he is gay ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my best friend out?
Q. I want to ask my bff out. shes female too. what should i say? ...
A. 29 May 2008: If you're not already out you could try coming out to her first, then leave it a few days for her to get her head around that before you say anything else. It'll also have the added advantage that if she does like girls she's more likely to tell you ... (read in full...)
I fell for one of my best mates. I don't know how to ask her out.
Q. Okay, well I guess I'll start from the beginning... About a month ago, I fell for one of my best mates, also female. I've told her and I think she feels the same way. I would rather not ask her, as I've inquired about her current crush, and she stil...
A. 28 May 2008: I was in exactly the same position as you about a year ago. I told her and it turned out she felt the same way. However, that doesn't necessarily mean that your friend does as well. You say you've told her, as in, she knows how you feel. If so, what ... (read in full...)
He's only with me because I'm white!! Should I be offended by this?
Q. My boyfriend of nine months told me that he's only with me because I'm white. Should i be offended? [He's half Bangli and half English]...
A. 15 December 2007: I'd say that depends, if he's dating you because he likes you, but would only go out with someone who was white, then I wouldn't say you need to be offended, though he would be/is clearly shallow-minded and intolerant. However, if the only reason he ... (read in full...)
I was in love with my teacher when I kissed my classmate as a result of Truth or Dare, now I am confused about how I feel. Do I tell my mate?
Q. hi i really need help as im so confused. it all started on tuesday in physics i was bored so i said randomly lets play truth or dare it went around the table then someone ask me truth or dare and i said dare and my friend said kiss (lets call him ...
A. 15 December 2007: You're confused, that much is evident. I truly have no idea what you should do about Mike (yes big help, I know) but you need to get over this crush on your teacher. I know everyone's probably been saying this, but I've just about managed to get ... (read in full...)
Why are stunning women shunned by plainer women?
Q. Hi I found the most stunning woman, whist chatting on the internet. I had recently come out of a marriage of 12 years, and was at a low because my wife had cheated on me for second time, and I was leaving behind children, though I still see them. A...
A. 25 November 2007: Can't answer the second one, but 1 isn't entirely true. If a woman is cocky and overconfident about how she looks with other women then it makes them feel insecure, so they decide to spend time with other people who they don't feel awkward around. ... (read in full...)
My 'friend' acts strangely around me and cheats on her homework. Please help, I don't know what to do about her
Q. Dear cupid, i'm having problems with my mate. i only call her a mate but she says i'm her best friend but anyways she annoys me alot nowadays, the other day i was talking and she wasn't listening and it was obvious so i stopped talking and just said ...
A. 24 November 2007: Oh I think we've all been there at some point or another. How long has this been going on? I have a very best mate who I trust with everything and love to pieces but occasionally when we're stressed we can go for like 2 weeks constantly arguing and ... (read in full...)
When she said 'luv ya' in a text, did it mean something?
Q. Hi, my girlfriend and I have known each other four years now. We tried dating a few years back when we worked together but she had a b/f one time and then she was my supervisor the second. Now we live 7 and a half hours away and have been dating for ...
A. 10 July 2007: I don't know your girlfriend, so I don't know what she meant, but I do know that loads of girls text 'luv ya' to their mates, parents, partners etc all the time, it's just a female thing. Usually if someone means something by it they would say ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him and give him another chance or forget about him?
Q. Hey, This boy who I have known since I can remember has just started talking to me again, but I'm not sure whether I should get too involved with him again or not. The reason I'm not sure is because he was horrible to me when we were a bit younger ...
A. 5 July 2007: I'd tread carefully. If he meant a lot to you and you'd like to get that back then by all means try and rebuild the friendship, but be careful. I'd tell another friend what's going on, so you have an emotional support if something goes wrong, and ... (read in full...)
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