Boyfriend makes fun of my boobs
Q. My boyfriend has this obsession with boobs. He is constantly grabbing mine. In the beginning, when we were first dating.. he grabbed mine and said "These are D cups". He claimed to be an "expert" in boobs. The last woman he was with before me ...
A. 7 April 2010: From a man, dump him. We men are rarely quick to call a guy a perv, but this guy is one. You need to find someone who isn't obsessed with boobs and will treat you well.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
How do you get over a crush when life keeps you together?
Q. How do you get over a crush when you can't avoid contact with the person? I've had a crush on a co-worker for a long time. I've tried different things to try and get myself over her, but none of them seem to work. I've tried dating, limiting...
A. 7 April 2010: If it's stopping you from dating other people, you have a real big problem that takes a real big solution. Quit.
I know it sounds like VERY extreme, but it sounds like this crush is ruining your life. Sometimes you have to take drastic measures... (read in full...)
Boyfriend Does Not Let His Exes Know About Me
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a serious, committed, relationship. But there is one problem.. he stays in contact with a lot of his exes constantly. I've learn to deal with that, but the big problem is that he NEVER tells them about me. For example, ...
A. 7 April 2010: This behavior seems suspicious to me as well. I'm always more than happy to tell my exes I have a new girlfriend :)
Although, I'm never too keen on talking about my exes to my current girlfriend. They always want to know really silly stuff ab... (read in full...)
Do I just move on or tell my ex how I feel?
Q. Really need some advice! My girlfriend finished me a few months ago because she hated the LDR we were in. We got along amazingly well but she hated not seeing me. We had been together about 6 months and everything was perfect, the best relation...
A. 7 April 2010: I will start out by saying that it is very common in my culture for 20 year olds to go abroad to serve a 2 year mission for their church. I am one such missionary. I saw hundreds of guys in the same situation your in.
Girls would promise ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to ask my handyman boyfriend to paint for free?
Q. My boyfiend of 5 years is a handy man on the side I have asked him to paint my kitchen and he said he would give me an estimate Is it unfair to ask him to do it for free or what is a reasonable labor cost? I dont mind paying but.... ...
A. 7 April 2010: K, I'm a guy, and I'm telling you that your boyfriend did a douchebag thing. OF COURSE he should do it for free! If you hadn't been together for so long, I'd think he might feel used, but not after 5 years!
Tell him you think it's rotten a... (read in full...)
Why did he break up with me if he likes me so much?
Q. I don't understand him. My boyfriend has just broken up with me because he needs 'space' as he wants to do his own thing and is not yet ready for a serious relationship. I find this really confusing because it was only yesterday when we was t...
A. 7 April 2010: Its difficult for women to understand how men think. Let me try to help. Understand that my advice is purely based on what you told me. If you were inaccurate in your portrayal of events, my advice could be way off.
If he broke up with you righ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and its literally killing me!
Q. i am 52 and dont know how to get him from under my skin. I was seeing a man for three years and then found out six months ago he was still in love with his ex and had been telling her he wanted to get back with her, i broke down when i found out and ...
A. 7 April 2010: This man betrayed your trust. Your love for him should have decreased significantly at the news. It sounds to me like what you have for him now is obsession. There is a difference between love and obsession. Since you no longer trust him, it's ... (read in full...)
Falling out of love with my wife...
Q. hi everyone im like don't know what to do this is eating me alive i have a wife but im not in love with her when i meet her she already had 2 beautifull girl and we had a baby boy i love them with all i have but the thing is im not in love with my ...
A. 7 April 2010: Love is a tricky thing. Many people are brainwashed by society to think that love is that wonderful feeling you get when you meet someone new. This is actually infatuation and always goes away. True love comes from years of kindness and trust. I ... (read in full...)
I thought she was joking but no, she's serious! She's going to hotel in a different city to lose her virginity with this random guy!
Q. Help! My friend met this guy on holiday last August, and kept in contact with him, even though he lives far away. Anyway, they have pretty sexual chats and she talks to him all the time and stuff. However he does this with a lot of girls. He added ...
A. 6 April 2010: Sounds to me like she's done listening to you. Your going to have to go to some extremes to stop her.
I know it sounds awful, but maybe it's time to contact a parent. This sounds like a dangerous situation that could lead to more than just los... (read in full...)
How should a groom handle a bride's doubts?
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for 4 years this month and have been engaged for just over a year. We are both students (she's in nursing school and I'm in med school), but plan to get married when she is finished (next year) because then at ...
A. 6 April 2010: It sounds like her excuses are silly grasping at straws. She's probably just depressed and really confused as to why. Sometimes there is no why and it's extremely frustrating to figure out. I've heard of brides getting cold feet about a change in ... (read in full...)
Do I ignore my boyfriends anger?
Q. I have written previously about my boyfriends anger problem...which I think is hereditary. He is Italian and hot tempered. I wonder if my only recourse is to ignore it if I want the relationship to work. He gets upset all the time. If something ...
A. 6 April 2010: I think plenty of guys get angry, especially with nagging girlfriends :)
But honestly, it sounds more like a rage problem. I don't have to tell you this can lead to violence, toward you. Even if it's accidental, it's still inexcusable. Tell him... (read in full...)
Divorced husband but feel really upset and sad
Q. I filed for divorce today and it was absolutely the hardest thing I've ever done. My hands were shaking when I signed the paperwork and had it notarized. My heart was pounding when I took it to the courthouse and paid the filing fee. My husband ...
A. 6 April 2010: I disagree with handing him helpful literature. It sounds like you've hurt him deeply. Getting these books from you will only hurt him more, coming from you. I don't know the particulars of why you left your husband, but i'm sure if he was ... (read in full...)
I feel like I haven't a friend in the world
Q. I feel like i haven't a friend in the world. I finished school last year and all my friends went to collage and I didn't get into collage. I did have two close friends but one decided she,d rather be with her boyfriend and the other sees me like ...
A. 6 April 2010: Ah, a very common plight is yours. Trust me, after high school, you'll lose touch with pretty much all your old friends. Sad, but true. Everyone is finally pursuing different paths, and it natural that those paths rarely are the same.
Time ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting to his comments pertaining to our relationship
Q. Hello, I've been seeing a man in another country. We see each other a few times a month for over a year now.Originally we decided that after a year we would decide if we were gonna work towards marriage or not. It's been almost 15 months and he do...
A. 6 April 2010: OK, I'm a man, and I STILL think you should be offended. But sometimes women tell a conversation wrong, like exaggerating the more offensive parts. But i'll just advice on what you told me anyway.
It sounds to me like he is more intellec... (read in full...)
We don't have sex because he doesn't make me feel attractive! What should I do?
Q. I'm in desperate help i love my man i have been with him for about a yr and a half .But we don't have sex he says because of my comments i give once in a while but he don't understand its because of the no sex in our lives .I know he ain't cheating ...
A. 6 April 2010: Understanding men's sexual desires is extremely difficult for women.
It sound to me like your tearing him down, unintentionally of course. Men feel emasculated when their partners nag, criticize, or belittle them. They DO NOT feel like hav... (read in full...)
Settling in with partner but wondering if I'm missing out on the love of my life?
Q. Im facing a love life dilema... well facing isnt the right word. This is a situation ive been living with for a long time now. Im in a happy steady relationship, i own a car with my partner, were relocating together and we have to kittens together. ...
A. 6 April 2010: Many women have trouble thinking "excitement" is love. Real love feels calm. I truly believe that many people can be "the love of your life". Love is a relationship of trust and time. Sounds like you have "greener pasture" syndrome. Trust me, ... (read in full...)
First time sex and he couldn't cum, is this common?
Q. i have only been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks and yesterday we had sex for the first time together. it was ordinary sex apart from the fact that he didnt (or maybe couldn't?) come. afterwards he apologised for this and ...
A. 6 April 2010: I wouldn't worry about it, and certainly don't make it an issue.... (read in full...)
We had sex and now he's acting strange toward me. Is it him? Or me?
Q. I'm not exactly sure what to do here... i've been so into this guy and our little "fling" has been going on for 3 months now. Just the other week we ended up hooking up and we finally had sex. Everything was fine the day after and we talked like ...
A. 6 April 2010: I agree, this sounds like a jerk kind of guy. He might have just seen you as a "conquest". You mentioned that you were "flingy" for a few months. This is a HORRIBLE practice. Never "fling" with a guy more than a week. Get an exclusive dating ... (read in full...)
Why do married men look at porn? A man's perspective, please.
Q. Why do married men look at porn? I have an agreement with my husband (of 9 years)that strip clubs, magazines, movies and surfing the net is fine...but i found a subscription to a web site that featured one girl. I found this to be pushing it. ...
A. 4 April 2010: To Original Poster. Please ignore most the responses by the women. Trust me when I tell you that a judgmental, self-righteous attitude will only drive your husband further away. That is not what you want. Women (especially close-minded one... (read in full...)
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