We dated for six years, broke up, I still love him, he's with someone else, but calls me 3 times a day, I want him back, what do I do?
Q. My Boyfriend of 6 years and I have just recently broken up. Our relationship was strained for about a year before the breakup. I love him and I think he is my one true love. He has since started seeing someone, however he still calls me all of the ...
A. 31 October 2008: tell him the truth about your feelings, but it is best to not do it over the phone but rather in person as if he has any feelings for you you will realise when you see him and talk to him as you can see it in his eyes...
if he says yes then you... (read in full...)
We have been getting intimate at the cinema. I don't mind, but I don't want to get caught!
Q. hello, im 18 and my gf is 19, we both go to the cinema to get some alone time because we can never anywhere else, and we want to go farther, weve started to get a little more intimate at the cinema, shes given me a handjob already, she ...
A. 30 October 2008: to be honest with you this is somthing that I have done when I was younger, Me and my girlfriend used to do the same for a while especially on the cold winter nights.
she even gave me a blowjob once which was nice, we had a thrill of doing it... (read in full...)
Does this mean I don't really love my fiance?
Q. Evening all, I have been with my fiance for 5 years (we have a long distance relationship) and the initial spark has gone for me.. he however is still loving and attentive as he was when we 1st got together. I do love him but I no longer get that ...
A. 30 October 2008: love is a strong and strange thing, it is very personal but as you said you dont get the tingly feeling when you talk and see rach other I would find that very hard...
you have to be honest to him as trust me as a guy we need honesty because ... (read in full...)
Am I pushing him too hard to get married?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and i complain to him allthe time'when we going to get married' and he complains that he wants to give me the perfect wedding so he wants to basically wait till we have money well we are moving ...
A. 27 October 2008: reading this reminds me a lot about myself and before I say anything I must say everyone is different....
I was in your situiation but slightly older andme and my girl were together for 6 years but after countless times promising me that we were ... (read in full...)
Why are men so distant with a woman who they have been with in the past?
Q. i have slept with him off and on for over 30 years. it has been an off and on thing. he was married now divorced and im married. we have loved each other since we have been 19. i saw him a few weeks ago and found out that he has a new woman in his ...
A. 22 October 2008: he may be doing it for the women he has met as he doenst want her to get jealous and doesnt want her to have an easy reason on why she would want to leave so early in the relationship.
its kinda understandable due to how women react to you havi... (read in full...)
Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the perfect model type in most porn?
Q. Do men really prefer the bodies of their girlfriends/wives over the model perfect type in most porn. I mean do they really prefer a mommy body with scars and sags (not overweight)as they say, over the scarless pre baby bodies on playboy and ...
A. 19 October 2008: pictures are not something we want, we want a real women who will love us and we will love back, if i met a girl that was in a porn magazine and i was single then i would have sex with her and would try to get to know her but as i am happy in my ... (read in full...)
My wife has been masturbating a lot lately and I'm distraught she's doing it without me!
Q. My wife has been masturbating a lot lately. She has stated that she had never even masturbated before. She is now 44 and she masturbates regularly. I have figured out that she masturbates at least 4 times a night when I work nights. Even if I leave ...
A. 17 October 2008: There is nothing wrong with masturbating as it is something that we all do, guys and girls but if she doesn't want you to join in then maybe I suggest one night you do it when you know she is coming to bed and let her catch you in the act, she may ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is introverted, how to deal with that?
Q. Hello, I need help here, my boyfriend is very introverted ( very very) and I am very extroverted, I like him just the way he is, I am inlove with him in that way, when we are together everything is perfect, he does everything for me ( we normally ...
A. 17 October 2008: He is a classic case of a loner, he wants to be with you but doesn't want you to change as he loves you for what you are, he gives you space and trusts that you will be in touch, he is always there when you need him....... (read in full...)
His porn viewing makes me feel like nothing!
Q. hey my boyfriend looks at porn and lies about it and it makes me feel like nothing and not good enough and insecure and upset and it was going on for way to long so i broke up with him. if it is making me this upset is it right for him to continue ...
A. 15 October 2008: have you tried to watch it with him? has it affected your relationship? how is your sex life changed?
I watch pron and consider myself a normal guy, my gf watches it with me sometimes and i find that quite exciting, now we share it i dont watch ne... (read in full...)
I wanted more romance and now she's broken up with me!
Q. I have been seeing a girl the last few months, its long distance of sorts being about 2hours travel apart. We meet as much as we can as our jobs and busy personal lives will allow us. Yesterday things came to a head however after an arugement. ...
A. 14 October 2008: i sympathise with you as i know from personal experience that long distance relationships do not work, i was in one and everytime i wanted romance my gf would think all i was interested was in sex, i used to see her every weekend and i loved her and ... (read in full...)
Husband want anal sex but it's too painful for me! What should I do?
Q. My husband seems to like painful anal sex. I do it and he knows it hurts me. He likes to watch porn about it too. Any ideas? ...
A. 14 October 2008: tell him you find anal sex disgusting, start to tell him a few disgusting things about it and im sure he wont want to do it again.....
if that doesnt work tell him you wanna try anal sex on him, that should end it... (read in full...)
What he said... it made me feel a bit like a blow up doll. Do you think I am overreacting?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were fooling around yesterday. We've been together for 2 years and the sex is great. Contrary to what I first thought, as time has passed, he seems to be more and more turned on by me, which I think is fantastic. We were talkin...
A. 14 October 2008: from what i have read it is a compliment to you dear as you will do anything he must be very thankful, i hope he is very grateful to know how lucky he is with a women who will do anything for him as a lot of guys find a woman always has something ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm going to lose him over not letting him ejaculate in my mouth!
Q. Hi I have this problem with my man, i am 52, he is 63 and he wants to cum in my mouth, up till now i have never wanted to do this ever in my life, but my man is diff and now i do, - to begin with, I didn't want to with him either, but now ...
A. 13 October 2008: this is something very personal and something that i will always find that some women enjoy and others do not, it is very personal but i would suggest have a glass of wine or some other drink you fancy next to you when you do it and after you have ... (read in full...)
How do I get over her hairy minge?
Q. I love to give my gf oral sex because i know she likes it but it is hairy down there. How can i tell her that without offending her? Please dont be saying we are too young to be doing this because we are only doing oral and nothing else. We...
A. 13 October 2008: I think if it is too hairy then please tell her that sometimes you get hair stuck in your teeth, she will laugh at first which will lighten the mood then suggest maybe trimming herself, tell her you can trim down near your manhood as well, might be ... (read in full...)
Is baby oil okay to use for a hand job?
Q. is baby oil an okay lube for a handjob?...
A. 13 October 2008: im gonna add my vote for saliva, the most natural thing in the world and the most fun... (read in full...)
Is it considered cheating if I masturbate to porn?
Q. I have a question for the aunts and uncles of DearCupid. I'm a 18 year old male starting university in a few weeks. I have a girlfriend, the same age as me, who is also going to uni, but its a 3 hour distance and i wont get to see her as much. The...
A. 13 October 2008: its not cheating, i often masturbate when my gf is working or she is tired after a long day, i dont masturbate in front of her as then she feels compelled to join in and help me, she doenst mind i do it as it is just something that guys do. she does ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher and he love's me too, but I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi all,, uhmm... I've confused now,, im really love my english teacher... well,,its start when im in 10grade,,,i've falling in love with my new english teacher!!he's only 23y.o,, man,he was so handsome..,,at first...i dont mind he's ...
A. 13 October 2008: unfortunately the law will prosecute your teacher and he will also lose his job if anything does happen between yourselves, if you really like him and care for him then you should wait until your 18 and he is not your teacher then you can pursue ... (read in full...)
I really don't like my body so I won't let my bf touch me...
Q. hi i need helpppppppppppppp!!!! i have been with my bf for 4 months now. i love him so much but theres 1 problem. i dont like my body i will never show any skin and i wont let him touch sertain areas.eg belly legs boobs n bum. i dono how i cn over ...
A. 13 October 2008: have you talked to your bf? he is the one that you wanna share your body with. if you explain to him that you are shy and that you are unconfortable showing your body then he will be able to help, try to go to the beach with him or go swimming ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is 17 and I'm 21! My other relationships have been more mature, how can we overcame this difference?
Q. I'am 21 and my girlfriend is 17. We get on really well together and her mum is fine with us seeing each other etc. The problem is i have had girlfriends before my own age and the relationships have been more mature but i sometimes forget that she is ...
A. 10 October 2008: me and my girlfriend started dating when i was 22 and she was 17 (we are 28 and 24 now) you are young as well as she is so the age difference shoudlnt really come into it as it is nothing major, when you spend time together just enjoy each other, ... (read in full...)
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